How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/how to spark him again

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 6/6/2009


Question
Dear Friend

I met a lovely, extremely good looking guy who
took me out on two lovely dates and was speaking
a lot of praises about me to his friends- saying
he was "aiming to high for me," as they put it.
However, were both in med school and i left for
a four month summer vacation before he did. With the prospects of "we will see what happens in the fall." He
was even quite teary when he gave me a formal "goodbye." I have been keeping in touch with him- and he responded well af first. Now, his communications
have become one worded answers or two worded questions.
I feel that hes communicating that he'd like to be left alone. Which I have done.

Can you give me advice on how to spark his interest
again in the fall and what to do generally now?
(Im guessing the best remedy is to STOP saying hallo
every four days or so?) Please also explain what you think
is going on in his head.

Answer
Hi Kelley,
Sorry he's being this way.
Yes, leave him alone and let him make any contact that is made.  
Beyond that, "be easy to be with but hard to get."  Once back in school, he will know how to get in touch with you.  If he is interested, he will.  

If not, then let it go, and be available to men who are available and interested in you.  That's how it works best!

Susan Dunn, M.A.

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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