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Hi Susan'
I've got a confusing situation and i hope u could help me. I met this guy and we were really attracted to each other. It started off with flirting and text messages and i've known him for almost 3 months now and there is not a single day when he does not call me. We speak everyday even if its just for a few minutes. He likes holding me, teasing me and when in public tries to sit next to me. I know he is attracted to me and we have got a little physical, not all the way though. Now i want to keep him interested and i'm so scared of loosing him, pushing him away. Could you please help me? Please advise me what to do to keep him interested as i really like him so much and would like something stable with him. Thanks.
Dear Rani,
Thank you for writing.
The best thing to do is continue to be good company, but "hard to get, easy to be with." In other words, don't be TOO available. Let him wait a little, let him ask. Be busy. No guy likes a woman who seems desperate. I'm not saying you are, but just that you don't want to APPEAR that way.
All the best,
Susan Dunn, M.A.
www.susandunn.cc
http://datingcoachblog.blogspot.com
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
Expertise
I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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