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Ok, so I'm really into this guy, but i don't know how he feels. I don't know if he likes me, or if he just likes to play games. I'm so comfortable when i hang out with him, and i want it to go somewhere. He'll text me for a few days, and then i won't hear from him for a few. When we hang out, though, his hand doesn't leave me, my leg,my back, my arm, and my shoulder. I know he might just want a hook-up, but he hasn't tried to make a move in that direction, so i don't know. How do i know if he likes me, or if he's interested without just going straight out and asking him?
Dear Kaycee,
Whatever it is, he needs to work it out. A man that is ambivalent like that is not a good one for you. You will know he likes you if he asks you out, is consistent and reliable. It's fine if he doesn't write or call for a couple of days at first - just let him get it sorted out. Do NOT be the one to initiate by writing or calling him. Wait and see. If you wait and let him take the lead, then your question will be answered about his intentions. That's why it works the way it does!
All the best,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
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Answers by Expert:
Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
Expertise
I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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