How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/how do i get him to talk to me

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Expert: - 9/29/2009


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I wanna give some background on my question here. So i have a best friend and just found out a few months ago that she had a brother who i find extremely attractive. thing is a few months ago i was in a relationship and kind of blew him off when he had asked me out and since then i havn't really associated with him at all. now i am single and a few nights ago i was at my friend's house and had a few drinks. i didnt want to drive home seeing as how i had a few drinks so i spent the night. So i know that this was probably wrong but i ended up sleeping with him that night...dont even know how that ended up happening but now i'm trying to get closer to him i dont want this to just end up as some 1 night stand and his sister is my best friend so obviously i would see him often and that would just be ackward. hes not very talkative and neither am i but we like eachother. so how can i get him to talk to me more or what kind of things ahould i say tho get hiim to open up to me or likewise??

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Hello Ally!

Start dating him!

Ok, you've gotten the sex out of the way. That's actually a very good thing in that it's now over with and you can move on to more connection between you.

Why not invite him out for a drink or over for a meal? You already have many things in common with him due to your friendship with his sister, but be careful to separate these connections. Save time for him and for his sister separately.

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