Expert: Azure - 10/2/2010

Question
Im not sure if im in the right category and if im not i am sorry but ill try anyway here is my story

i met a guy recently online we can call him joe. we talked online/phone/facebook for about two weeks.  finally he asked for a date.  the date went very very well and since then we have gone out 5 times total.  we have daily email chats while he is at work all day long.  he has told me many times that he does not want to jump into anything and i understand that.  he doesnt want to get hurt again. he was in a 7 year relationship (engaged) that ended because he was in a car accident and was bed ridden for a long time.  i know i cant promise him that i would never hurt him since i cannot predict the future but he knows i would never do anything on purpose.  i have very recently actually met his parents and apparently he has told them about me prior to the meeting.  but my question is could this all be a "just friends" relationship for him or more.  he enjoys talking about himself and his past and he is always asking me about mine.  but it has been almost 2 months though and when i ask that question "if he thinks we could be more than friends" all he says is "we will see how it goes" or "maybe".  i dont want to be pushy and then turn him off but his "silence" is killing me.  also we have been intimate.  and that should be the deciding factor as to weather he wants more but he is totally ok with having sex with friends so to him that could be all it was.  also he wasnt ashamed of telling his friends who were bothering him what he was doing and with who at the time. i mean i know guys wouldnt be but if he was just wanting to be friends i would imagine he wouldn't tell his buddies that info. i guess i just dont know the signs of when a guy is playing hard to get or just wanting sex with a friend/new person.  

i know this is probably pretty confusing but i have trouble expressing myself. i usually just ramble on and on im sorry if you cant help i understand but any bit of advice will be awesome.  even if it is just how to tell him what i am feeling just so he knows.

Answer
could be you're giving away the sex much too easily here--this isn't "hard to get", this is a guy more than willing to have no strings sex; if you want/need more than that, write down what you REQUIRE from him in order to continue, then tell him, and don't settle for less than u deserve...if he can't give you what you need, look elsewhere..