Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/9/2010

Question
i met this awesome guy in a seminar. we clicked instantly. between the 2 weeks of knowing him, we Im and text alot with each other. There were sure to be a text message from him everyday. He even declared that he likes me alot.
But things start to change after the 3rd week. His test messages became less and at one message he asked me not to misunderstand him as he says i deserve someone better.
Being a self confident person that i am, i didn give in to this remarks. Instead i told him that everything can be worked out if we both have mutual liking for each other.
Now the problem is, his text are still and is getting lesser. i would normally be the 1st to text him nowadays. I don't want to look desperate by always being the 1st to call or text. But i do not want to loose this awesome guy too.  

Answer
Hello Merissa!

Looking desperate? How often do I hear this ridiculous fear from women? (Answer: almost every day!)

Merissa, you won't look desperate. Us guys simply don't think that way. YOU do! Stop wasting your time on that ridiculous fear and ether get in the game and do something with this or realize you're losing him entirely.

It's unfortunate, but he simply doesn't know how to move this forward. He's obviously waiting for YOU to do it. Yes, I know it's not your job, but he doesn't know that. So, you have a choice: either hold out for what you want while he cools way, WAY off and eventually fades away, or go get what you want.

Ask him to meet you for coffee or a drink or SOMETHING and then, turn on the charm already!

Best regards...

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