How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/boyfriend takes ex on vacation

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 3/29/2010


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I've been dating this man for 3 months now. He is great but recently mentioned he was taking his kids to Florida for vacation. He then sprung it on me that his ex is going along for the ride because she has relatives she is going to visit. He says she will not be with them except for the ride there and back. Am I a fool for believing this? How should I respond?

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Dear Kim,

It could be true.  I know of a great number of exes who really, honestly, truly, do NOT want to have a thing to do with one another any more sexually or emotionally.  They just "parent" together.

Wait and see when he gets back.  Your female intuition should tell you what's going on.  At any rate, it matter what happens when he gets back.

Again, I wouldn't PER SE be "jealous" of an ex.  You can't believe how much some of them do not like each other!!

All the best,
Susan Dunn, MA
www.susandunn.cc

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