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Dear

Can you please tell me why do (some) men want just to chat on the msn for hours, or texting without setting a date??

Pls tell me why they "need" to (JUST) talk on the msn...
I need to know this, since itīs a current trap for us women these days..!

Best,

Dolores

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Dear Dolores,

There are any number of reasons.  Fear, unavailable emotionally, getting turned on my writing on the Internet ... what is important is that you follow the dating rules, and learn to eliminate these men very rapidly.  YOU are not going to CHANGE THEM.  That is one of the traps that "we women" fall into these days.  

You could benefit from the dating coaching that I offer.  I give you the rules.  I teach you how to eliminate the losers/players/creeps/unavailables rapidly and get on to someone viable.  

You must know by now, actually, what the "signs" are, so ... quit emailing or msg'ing them.  In fact, don't even reply to a "wink" or a request to "chat" on the dating sites.  If you do that, do you think you "might miss someone?"  No, you will quit wasting your valuable time.  A true man, one who wants a relationship, will move it rapidly from txt, to phone, to real date.  Trust me on that one.

P.S.  For coaching, email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc .  I can tell you need help with this.  

All the best,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
THE DATING COACH

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

Experience

I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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