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Hi,
Men like Jesse James married to Sandra Bullock, and Tiger Woods married to Elin Nodergren, end up having about a million sex partners after marriage.
Jesse's was not hard to predict, but Tiger's was surprising.
How can you be so sure that the man you are marrying is not cheating on you after marriage? There are many people who stayed virgins until marriage but even after that the men are cheating.
yes women cheat just as much too...but the men do it more.
Most men cannot resist a woman who wants to have sex with him. All day long men are tempted by other women.
So what to do?
Dear Ana,
It has to do with what is called "character." Just like women, individual men are different, and have been raised differently. First of all, I would look for a man whose father did not cheat (or hit women). That sort of thing gets passed on.
Test to see if he ogles women when you are dating. If he cannot control that, he cannot control any part of the "sex" process.
Check out his family history. Look at his friends. Birds of a feather flock together.
I know whole social groups where the spouses are faithful, good parents, don't cheat, and pay their taxes.
BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER.
All the best,
Susan Dunn, MA
www.susandunn.cc
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
Expertise
I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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