Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 3/24/2010

Question
Hello :),

I have two questions, one has to do with the topic in your expertise and i don't really know how the other one.

#1 Are there any tips you can give me? Anything! Anything in general? :)

#2 Okay, so I don't know if you can answer this question. Hopefully you can. This guy i know, i don't talk to him at all, I know him from being in the play last year. Anyway, he stares at me, a lot! But it's off and on, so some days i notice it, and others i don't really (I'm trying not to look at him). Anyway, yesterday, I was in my moms car talking to her after school and he was walking by with his friend, and her stared at me randomly :|. Today although, he did stare at all (or i didn't notice) and some other times he will start staring at me randomly. My question is, uh, why is he staring at me randomly? He's a year older than me, and i go to a small school, but the grades in my school don't interact together much so..yeah. :)

if you can't answer this, can you recommend someone who will, i searched the site for someone who is available and will answer this question, but couldn't find someone.

Thanks :)

Answer
Hello Victoria!

I have two answers! I sure hope they're to your questions!

#1 About what?

#2 I don't know why he stares at you. Maybe he has a blinking problem.

Here's what I do know: you like this guy. You have "context" with him. Why in the hell don't you go say "hi" to him? I know, you're terrified.

Don't be.

That context I mentioned? You were in a play with him! Don't you think that's a good reason to go say hello? Here's how you do it (and trust me, it's easy!)

Go right up to him the very next time you see him and say, "Hey! You and I were in that play last year. Remember? Are you going to act in this year's play again?"

There you go - you broke the ice. It's done and nobody died (except Hamlet!) See how easy that is? Then, you simply get him talking.

When you've reached a point where things are going really well (and they will - trust me) then, you say, "Hey, I have to run, but why don't you call me sometime and let's talk acting?"

Then, you write down your digits and put them in his hand.

Wow...so easy!

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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