Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 4/19/2010

Question
Hi,

You have said that very few women in this world are good in bed. Less than 15%. Can you explain what it was that they were doing in bed that made them so great? Was it just attitude, enthusiasm, willing to try different positions and take risks?

Or were you referring to actual SKILL that these women possessed in sex, blow jobs, hand jobs, etc.

Can you explain why relationships with these women did not work out?

Do you think women (and men) sucking in bed is the main reason for divorce?

Answer
Hello Christina!

Great question!

In fact, it's all of these things. Enthusiasm, attitude and skill are the major players as well as other things like communication, comfort and openness and more.

Women are far more complicated sexually than men are. Sex comes naturally (to a degree) to men whereas women need to learn even basic things about themselves. That takes experience and practice.

People get divorced (or break up) for many different reasons. However, I'll say this: even bad relationships or marriages that have great sex lives often stay together, but those with lousy sex lives that are otherwise good rarely do. I've seen many relationships go way beyond their shelf lives simply because the sex was great.

There's a great article you will want to read on my website, "10 Ways Women Can Be Lousy in Bed" that will give you some more information on this. Check it out at http://BeingAMan.com then click on "self help", then "search" and  look for the keyword "lousy" in titles.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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