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ive been with my current boyfriend for a little over ayear and we both are having difficulties in the relationship we fight over the stupidest things and i was wondering is it even worth all the pain to continue seeing him?

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Hello Kellista!

Not if you don't find out what's really causing all this fighting.

After a while being together and not getting along - especially if you fight over ridiculous things - there's something else underlying all of it that isn't being dealt with. This nagging problem causes even the smallest things to seem far larger than they are.

You need to figure out what that is (and it's likely things both of you share!) and get it fixed. When that happens, you can recommit to the relationship and make it work - without all the fighting.

Best regards...

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Literally, any question related to finding and meeting the man of your dreams. I am the top-rated expert in "General Dating Questions", "How to Attract the Man/Woman of your Dreams" and "Places to Meet People". In fact, over the past few years, I've answered over 32,000 letters from readers, have written over 700 articles, written numerous books, recorded CD's and DVD's, done hundreds of radio and tv shows and have millions of readers all over the world. If your question is particularly sensitive you can also write to me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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I've written many books on every aspect of dating, sex and relationships. My new book, "How Women Can Approach Men" is already quickly becoming one of our best-sellers! Women have many tools at their disposal and shouldn't have to wait for "Mr. Right" to come along! After reading some of the advice the women in this section are getting from other women, I think it's a good idea to offer a man's perspective.

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