Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 8/16/2010

Question
I am totally still into the guy! I sent him a voice message this time because he didn't pick up and apologized and hope he could give me another chance. And then I told him how wonderful I can be and told him why I like him. But he still never called or responded and I don't want to overdo it. If he deleted this message should I just go over to his place? I was going thinking of going over there, but I don't want to come off as a crazy psycho or anything. I was just going to maybe go over there and get him a small gift and apologize in person and leave, unless he wants me to stay. If that doesn't work then I'll get over it. But I don't want to give up that easily and would probably be the bravest thing I've ever done.
This time I wasn't subtle at all. I told him how I felt and everything.
-Laura  

Answer
Hello Laura!

First of all, you're assuming I remember what we've talked about in the past. I'm sorry to say, I don't. I get TONS of these messages every single day - sometimes 50 or 60 of them - EVERY SINGLE DAY. I can't possibly remember what we've talked about if you don't include the previous messages.

Second, if you've contacted him and told him all of this and he doesn't respond, it's time to let it go. DO NOT go over there! DO NOT stalk him! This is close to (if not exactly) crazy stalker activity.

You've put things out there and now it's his job to respond. If he doesn't respond, you have an answer and it's time to move on.

Best regards...

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