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i am working in a college as lecturer since last 4 months.in my department my coworker lecturer is very handsome just like my dream boy. firstly i ignored him when he was glare me every where in college but now i am attracted towards him.when i join college i never talk to him.he always set to my another coworker.(friend of both of us) cabin which is front of my cabin and his own cabin is in backside to my cabin.distance between in my cabin and his cabin is 5 minutes to walk.he is shy person.i don't know very much about him and i don't know he like me or not..what i do to know that he is interested me or not??
please help me ?????
i like him very much but i have only 15 days because my parents want me to marry as soon as possible and they searching the buys.and they almost final the two guys. and they forcing me to choose one of them... i am an Indian girl and i am 26 years old and in India it is very big thing that 26 years old girl not married that's why my parents rush for my marry….but i like my coworker.....
one thing is that we have a common co-worker(coworker cabin is in front of my cabin) friend and he knows about all thing of my side but he can't help me?and he also say that to me that this guy is lay it to u?
he tell me he having an affair from last 1 year and his affair at breakup stage and he can't overcome with that?
.i am very confuse what to do can i leave thinking about my co-worker or go to my parents choice?
or how to start talk with him? between me and him no common topic or nothing else is there?
and how i know that he's interested in me or not without talk to him?
and please help what i do????
Hello!
I'm fully aware of arranged marriages. Frankly, I think they are outdated.
Unfortunately, I'm not clear on why you can't talk to him. If you want any sort of chance with him, someone's going to have to break the ice here. Why not just go over and introduce yourself? Yes, I know it seems like a bold move, but what else do you have? If neither of you will approach the other, you're simply going to be stuck marrying one of the guys your parents choose for you.
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