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well, this is kind of weird haha sorry but umm i go to school with this guy i like him a lot and want to impress him but i need to know a couple of things first!!
#1 how do i now if he really likes me in that way?
#2 what should i were for him if he does like me in that way?
should i wear short shorts, and a cute black shirt? or a pair of jeans that make my but look good, and a shirt that goes down low?
or better yet, what do you think!!!! please help me
Lauren Backa
Hello Lauren!
DO NOT try to impress him! All you'll wind up doing is looking like you're working too hard. Instead, find out about him. Get him to talk. Use open-ended questions and SHOW your interest in him instead. You can learn more about how to do this from my FAQ's. Check out: http://BeingAMan.com and click on "Articles".
To your questions:
#1 By showing him you're interested and letting him respond back to you. You need to be available and engaging with him. If he invites you to spend time with him, the answer is "yes".
#2 I'm no fashion expert, however guys usually want girls to look like girls. I suggest a skirt or dress, but either way, you want to dress your age - and dress up somewhat. I'm not talking about a cocktail dress/gown or anything like that. Just dress it up and look sexy, but appropriate to what you're going to do.
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