How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/why do i attract young men

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Expert: - 4/11/2011


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I am a recently single 24 (turning 25) year old women. I am working in my studied career, and have gotten out of a four year relationship. I always ten to be in a relationship, and this year I just want to be single! So i go out clubbing, and majority of the guys who hit on me are 18-21! I am pretty good looking, but i just want to attract older guys around my age, good looking ones. Its like they dont see me, and im hot! am i dressing too young, i dont think so, i just like to look intriging. How do i attract men my age.

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Hello Lisa!

Not knowing how you look or how you dress, it's impossible for me to comment on either of those issues. Further, if you're going to clubs where there are 18-21 year-old's; do you think THAT might be the problem???

You may simply look way younger than your age. As I said before, there's no way for me to tell.

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