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Dear Susan,
My ex of 1 1/2 year broke up with me two months ago before I left for summer vacation. He never gave me back my keys and even offered to take care of my apartment while I was away. I came back, and he asked me to dinner. We went out to dinner and had a nice time but didn't discuss our relationship. He also gave me a present from his mother who came to visit him not too long ago. After dinner, he asked me out again for a movie this weekend and had mentioned other outings with me in the upcoming weeks. It seems as if he's interested in me again, but I can't tell exactly what he wants. How should I proceed?
Confused
Just the way you are doing, and I congratulate you on your aplomb. He's doing some good things here - asking you out in advance, talking about "the future." Wait and see.
It's usually best to live it, not talk about it. He may not be able to say how he felt or why he broke up with you at the time. He's sure acting like he wants a relationship with you. This may come out. If you enjoy him, keep seeing him. To get back into the relationships, it should be on your terms at this point.
Good luck!
Susan
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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