How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/FINDING MR. RIGHT

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Hi Susan,
I need help, I'm 22 yrs old and in college and I'm having no luck in finding a boyfriend, it seems that guys either think of me as a girl who's "one of the boys" or as a girl who they are afraid of, how can I have a more girly image in order to attract a nice guy or what am I doing wrong when it comes to boys? Thanks.

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Hi Lillie,
Then there are the ones where you are not their "type," or they're already dating someone, or you don't get along ... it just takes a while!  You are not necessarily doing something wrong.  It sounds like you dislike what you call "girly image," and you might consider why.  You could try being less of a "pal" to guys and observe what you call "girly image" and do more of that.  But you want to continue to be you, because you will be YOU once in the relationship.  If you want to write me offline (sdunn@susandunn.cc) and go over some of the things you have questions about, please do.

Warm regards,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc

Dating coach, Internet courses, ebooks, www.webstrategies.cc/ebooklibrary.html .  Coaching for career, relationships, dating, resilience, stress management, leadership and emotional intelligence.  

Email sdunn@susandunn.cc for more information.

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

Expertise

I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

Experience

I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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