Expert: Azure - 10/28/2004

Question
Hi,
  I am attracted to a guy at work.This guy is in one of the seniormost positions.
I am 5 years younger to him. This has been going on for almost 5 months.We have not talked to each other much.
    It all started like this, without my own concious
one day when I was talking to someother guy I was
looking into this guys eyes. The next day while I
was walking , he stopped by to say "Hi" to me.
I did say hi to him. Then slowly he would come
everyday to talk to a person who sits beside me.
During which once I realised that he was looking into
my eyes. Feeling a little shy I put my head down.
   He would sometimes see me in the cafteria and
would say "Hi".
   Since I did like him, I would always look into
his eyes whenever I passed by him. Also in the meantime I made it a regular pattern to leave work
the same time that he left, thinking he would understand that I am interested him and would ask me
out. But this did not happen. He just keeps on looking
into my eyes.
   In the meantime, last week I could not bear this
thing going on forever, so I made it a point to
leave work a little earlier than him and wait for him
in the car. I did wait for him in my car, he was
so shocked to see me waiting there. Later he started
his car and we went our own ways back home.
   The next day , I wanted to find out his intensions,all that he did was to look at my eyes and
nothing else. The next day, I did not want to leave at the same time that he left work. Since I thought that I would be pressurizing him.
   Later after a couple of days , he once again
saw me in cafteria, but did not say the as usual "Hi"
that he would always say,but still keeps looking into
my eyes whenever I pass through his desk.
    
      First thing , I want to know "Is this guy
really interested in me". If so how do I every make
him ask me out.

thanks

Answer
you're getting too hung up on eye contact; if a guy is interested in you, he'll let you know, usually by asking you out; until then, assume he's not that interested, even if he stares at you the whole day..ps you don't "make" him ask you out; just go about your business without trying to wait for him or otherwise gain his attention; he knows you're there; anything more is up to HIM..