How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/Getting Guys To Notice You

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Expert: - 10/1/2005


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Hi Azure,
I'm an 18 year old girl. I was in love once but he broke my heart...Now i'm in college and i want to find a way to get guys to notice me. I'm really shy, and scared of there response. I'm not a bad looking girl. my friends all say i'm pretty but i don't know any thing about really being in a relationship or how to get guys to notice me. What should i do to get guys to notice me and like me?

- Amanda D.

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as pretty as you are, try to look even better, and wear nice clothes, nice perfume; be feminine, funny, considerate, complimentary sexy, REAL, genuine; join clubs, groups where you can interact with guys; make sure you go where guys can notice you; don't be afraid to be assertive, make the first move; be confident; realize, nothing ventured, nothing gained; remain patient, positive, prepared; ask me to be your "dating coach.."  

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expertise: over 6000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work; technical editor, "dating for dummies" by dr joy browne...thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available uponrequest...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks

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