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Hello. I am a very attractive african-american female and I have a thing for white guys. I will date any race, depending on if we "click" or not.
I love the guys with the polo shirts and flip-flops/ flipped up hair. What should I do to Get that type of guy to notice me or not be scared to approach me?  

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you don't "do" anything too differenty..just live your life and be who you are; if that's attractive to them, fine; if not, they're not for you; if you're in a proactive mood, you could initiate contact toward those you're attracted to, as on various internet dating sites..  

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