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Well its been well almost a year since I've made it known I like him he's given me his number but I'm afraid to call I've given him mine number and he hasn't called infact I think I've given him my number to him three times am I stupid to keep pursuing this guy!!!! I know he is somewhat attracted to me cause he flirts he got my number three times I'm confused if he likes me wouldn't he pursue me!!!! I think i made a mistake one time letting him know how full of myself I was.... i was like if I wanted to I could take any guy home but i want you!!!! Could that have turned him off???? he smiles alot when I give him things to think about and he always atempts to compliment me like the other day he said I see your maintaining your physiques so what is it that your doing... and another he said who you dressed up so cute for I said u and he said good answer with a smile I know its the little things that count and I'm not trying to rush things but do you think its crazy to keep pursuing and let him know I'm hot for him HELP PLEASE!!!!
Dear Holly,
Well, perhaps you have been too aggressive, or appeared to be. From what I read and hear this sort of thing is a turnoff to a guy - "I could take any guy home but i want you!!!!"
Men like to pursue, and to have a game of it, and you just gave it all away. As I say in the first chapter of my ebook, DATING SUCCESS MANUAL FOR WOMEN, you took all the fun out of it. Men don't generally like aggressive women. It's hard to come back from that position.
There is no man, no matter how shy, who won't go after a woman he wants (who lets him). You might consider your approach and style a bit. (See my ebook for more - http://tinyurl.com/6ny55)
Warm regards,
Susan Dunn
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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