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I have a BIG problem. I had met this man about 4 months ago. He was really interested in me. I have had a very bad relationship in the past. Somehow, at times I put of a wall to protect my heart from getting broken again. Anyway we would make plans to meet and I would always end up cancelling the date. He feel that I am too dependent on my family and friends. Which I feel that I am. I often let others decide for me. My problem is that he became upset with me because at times I am not upfront and honest with him. I am now ready to do what I can to make this relationship work out but now he will not return my calls. I really care about him and I would do whatever I can to make him happy. We have not spoken in about 4 weeks. How can I make him interested in me again? He was really attracted to me and I to him but the last time we spoke he told me when I am ready to grow up to contact him. I hope that I have not messed up the future of a great and happy relationship. What am I to do?
Well, I hope he will give you a second chance, and that you've worked out your issues that were complicating things. You can't blame him for getting fed up with the "push pull." He said when you were ready to grow up, and I think you know what he meant by that. Getting on a steady course with him.
Wait a little bit and then contact him with that in mind. He said to contact him when you were ready, so get ready, and then do it!
All the best,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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