How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/Relationships

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I'm currently dating a gentleman...  how do I know if he's the right one?  How can I tell how he feels about me?  What is he doens't feel the same way?  I'm divorced, and don't want to go thru the hurt again, but I'm tired of being alone and lonely.  I care about this guy... does he care about me?
Thanks.
my d.o.b. 08/06/1959
His name:  Tim, d.o.b.: 02/23/1958


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no guarantees susan; all you can do is use your instincts, perceptive powers, and good judgment to size him up as to what his values are, how he treats you, what qualities he brings to the table..do you agree on what's important in a relationship?..does he enlarge and enrich your life? do you laugh together; just have fun hanging out?...if you can answer yes to all of them, it may have some potential... there's always a risk it won't work, but nothing ventured, nothing gained...think positive and take it one day at a time; if it doesn't work, it's not the end of your world...life will go on..az

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