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I have been in a relationship for 3yrs and i am engaged and going to get married April now what i want to know is how can i keep the passion burning or the romance after marriage.
keep doing what you're hopefully doing now; let there be spaces in your togetherness, don't get too comfortable, introduce new things to your sex life, stay healthy and fit, keep part of the time as a "date"--(example; on a saturday, stop the afternoon activity around 5 or 6, separate for awhile, reconvene for your date at 8)...even if having dinner at home, dress up nicely, prepare a great meal, nice wine, soft music...pay attn to the details, it's the essence of romance..
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