How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/Staying a virgin

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 10/22/2007


Question
I'm 25 and still a virgin. I'm waiting until I meet the right guy to have sex.

I keep getting cheated on and dumped in every single relationship that I'm in because I am not giving them sex. This has been occurring my entire life.

How do I stop this vicious cycle?

Answer
It is not a vicious cycle.  If the guy is interested in YOU, he will wait.  If he is interested in sex, for sex' sake, he will "dump" you and go pester another woman, of which there are thousands willing to do so, and what have you lost?  Not a thing.

One thing you need to do is not get emotionally involved until you are sure.  I question that you use "cheated on" and "dumped."  All dating ends - either in marriage, or in other dating.  That's what dating is all about.  

There's something wrong if you think you are "dating", but he is sleeping with someone else.  There's something you're missing.    

It may be that you are presenting things in a way that is confusing to a guy, or unattractive. I would recommend that you get some coaching, so you can see what's going on, and get clear in your own head.  

Warm regards,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
sdunn@susandunn.cc

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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