Expert: Azure - 10/22/2004

Question
Hello, my name is Natalie and I'm a 23 year old college student. I need your advice badly, you see I'm attracted to and have a crush on my Doctor. He is extremely gorgeous, young, kind, and single!! The first time we meet, I felt like we both locked eyes and had these big smiles on our faces, I felt a chemistry. Every time I see him I get nervous, not so much anymore, because I don't want to make a fool of my self, but I still have a big crush on him. I'm myself, I joke around with him, start conversations, and I don't think he realize that I'm interested in him, does he? He seems shy, because it seems like he doesn't want to conversate with me, and he seems to be in a hurry all the time. Every time I look for signs, to see if he shows interest. When he was going on vacation, I asked where he was going, and he told me the place and then started mentioning the people going with him;mom, dad, sister, and his brother inlaw, and no girlfriend!!! Was he trying to hint me something there? I'm not sure because I also have to consider his profession, he is my Doctor and he might not want to cross that line, because he might be thinking about possible law suits, in which I wouldn't, I'm over here wishing he will one day ask me out. Should I say something to him, considering his situation he can't really cross that barrier, right? What should I do, I really would love to go out with him and get to know him? Thank You so much for your time.

Answer
this is no more than a fantasy on your part, not his; don't confuse it with the reality, which is a) he's your doctor, which would discourage any involvement on his part, and b), if he was really interested despite that, he'd let you know; leave it alone..