How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/Wanting a relationship..

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 10/31/2006


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I have a guy friend in whih I searched for for 6 years and found we've become intimate since January, I first asked in February to become serious he said he wasn't ready to be ina relatioship, and I asked him again recently and he says no time soon? Is it me? How can I get him to see I'm a great catch? I truly care for this person and it's easier said the done when tryiing to let him go?


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There is something wrong with a man who is intimitate with you an then says he is not ready to be in a relationship.  There is no question YOU are a great catch, but HE is not.  It is hard to let go once you have become intimate with a man.  It does not work the same way with a man.  So next time, ask the question first -- does he want a relationship.  Or better yet, let him show you that he does my treating you well.  With a man, look at their actions, not as much what they say.  For your own sake start the letting go process and learn from this sad experience.
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Susan Dunn
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

Experience

I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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