How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/How to atract

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Hallo there,
i feel silly asking someone else this, but how exacly does
one find the guy of her dreams? My prblem is that i  am very
shy, and like a lot of things that most wouldnt(that I meet
anyways) and i also model.  I feel that guys i mostly meet
are just interested in me looks and  nothing else. Ho w
exacly do I find a guy that cares about me for once,instead
of wanting me to jump into bed with him?
Thanks!
Samantha

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actually i think this isn't a very good category, as there really is no magical means of "attracting" anyone; all you really can do is always strive to become a better person, BE that person, and continue to meet men with the hope that eventually one of them will fulfill all of your requirements and enough of your preferences, to have a happy, healthy relationship..  

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