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There is a man at work that I am very interested in.  he is divorced with 2 daughters.  He has full custody.  He is 35 and I am 42.  look very young for my age.  I just moved to this area and my coworkers thought I was in my late 20's or early 30's.  We work together very closely.  We have a lot in common.  I am overweight and working on losing this wait.  but in the mean time i would like to cause him to be interested in me. I think he is interested in me but I am not really sure.  It is funny how much we have in common what we like to do, music, religon, politics, we enjoy the same kind of work.  i believe we flirt a lot.  I am very attractive but over wieght.  i have a lot to offer...  

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Dear Bev,
Well it sounds like you have the perfect opportunity just to be around him and let it grow, which is the best way.  You do sound very concerned about your weight, and since you are, why not do something about it?  It's a nice diversion, and a win-win.  He might care, he might not about your weight, but it sounds like you do, so take action!
Enjoy being with him and seeing what happens.  It might just unfold into something marvelous, and I hope it does!  It is just the best way to get to know someone in the course of daily events, just being around them, so go for it!
Best,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc  

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

Experience

I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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