How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/How do I attract him?

Advertisement


Question
Hey,

I've been getting tutored by this guy for a couple of weeks now.  I really like him.  However, I don't have that many opportunities to talk to him and attract him because most of the time he is helping me with my physics.  Is there a silent way of attracting him or some way to break a non-physics conversation with him?


Answer
there must be some moments either before or after where you can ask him something personal like what he does in his spare time?, does he date?, etc...looking him right in the eye, along with a half-smile, can't hurt either..at some point, when you feel quite confident, you could just tell him that he seems like a real nice guy, and you were wondering if there was a way you could get to know each other better outside of the tutoring...don't let your anxiety prevent you from expressing yourself, and remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained...az  

How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams

All Answers


Answers by Expert:


Ask Experts

Volunteer


Azure

Expertise

expertise: over 6000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work; technical editor, "dating for dummies" by dr joy browne...thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available uponrequest...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks

Experience

see above

©2012 About.com, a part of The New York Times Company. All rights reserved.