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wel ders one boy whum i realy lyk n i stay online 2 tok 2 him almost all day long.bt wat i get in return is nt wat im suppouse 2.i mean i jst one 2 good n nice words bt i get nothin lyk tht.to say he avoids me.i dnt gt enough attention.
Does he write the same way you do, i mean lyk dis? It might be turning him off that you don't write proper English. If he writes the same way you do, then that's not it and you have found a kindred spirit. If he doesn't, try writing proper English and see what happens. It could indicate a more serious intent.
Aside from that, my advice is always - never sit by the phone waiting for a guy. It doesn't work. He knows where to find you. If he wanted to interact with you, he would find you if you moved to another planet and disconnected your Internet service.
If you're not getting enough attention, then the best thing to do is abandon this and find someone who does give you enough attention.
Sometimes abandoning it, leaving the guy totally alone, works, because men fall in love in the spaces. This is of course exactly the opposite of how women fall in love, so, it ain't easy. That MIGHT work. But pursuing him will NOT work.
Good luck!
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
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MA in Clinical Psychology.
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