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okay well theres this guy in my grade and i've liked him 4 three years and he knows it. he is very smart, cool, sexy, and he loves playing sports. what i'm really wanting to ask you is if i'm ubsessed with him. for ex. i know where he lives, i wrote down a piece of his poetry(he didn't give it to me), i carved his name in my skin(don't worry i'm not suicidal), i check him out when he turns around,etc. and i was also wondering if you could tell me how to talk to him without just saying yes or no as an answer.it is really hard to talk to him cuz i don't want him to think that something i said was stupid. please help me? i don't know what to do with myself!

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it's pretty normal stuff; i call it "teenarama"; when talking to him, just be youself; it sounds more stupid to not say anything, or say something that's not really you; remember, he's no better than you, and if he's gonna judge you by how you say something, what good is he??..keep your confidence and self-esteem high--just be who you are, and if he doesn't get you, consider it HIS loss..

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