How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/how do i get the boy???

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 4/26/2007


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Theres this boy I like at school and I dont think he likes me the same way. I jus want to know if theres a way to get him to like me more and ask me out???

Answer
Dear Crissy,

No, that would be like having a magic potion or magic wand or something.  

The nature of dating is that before you find the boy you love you loves you in return, there will be boys like this that you like who won't ask you out, and also boys you don't like who do ask you out.  

You can encourage him with smiles, and by being pleasant, etc.  In other words, if he's undecided, don't do anything that would drive him off.  But you can't manufacture feelings and make someone else do what you want if they don't want to.

I hope he will.  Meanwhile, good luck!
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc

P. S.  Remember what this feels like, so you are kind when you have to decline boys you don't want to date.  It happens to all of us.

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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