How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/cant help fallin in love

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hey miss jean m a 20yr old woman who really likes this guy in my college.we have common frens and got introduced to each other two months back.we meet in college frequently.he seems to be a really nice guy but just a few days back i came to know he still has feelings for one of his best frens from school who's already going out wid some other guy.he says he doesnt want to fall in love nor make a commitment rite now but he certainly wants me to be his good fren.m in a diliema i really like this guy n m scared of falling in love wid him n end up hurting myself inspite of knowing he loves somebody else.thats y i have decided to step back of the friendship.he has no idea bout my decision.do u think i have taken the right step?? i still like him

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Prerna,

Yes I think you've done the right thing. If he likes you enough to try to forget the friend that's dating someone else, maybe he'll go to you, but you can't wait around and being with him when he cares for someone else can be too much pain for you. Good luck!

- Joyce

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