How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/how can we get closer

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Expert: - 3/17/2004


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my boy friend claims he loves me we have not made love yet, his girl friend died about four months ago, he states he wants to get on with his life. To me he seem to be slowing up on making love, but claims he want us to be together. What is up with him? I about to pull out my hair

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it could be the girl who died, it could be something else; if you're tired of waiting, tell him that perhaps it's a good idea to put the whole relationship on hold until he's ready to proceed in a loving, passionate way...this will hopefully force him to get beyond whatever is holding him back, or let you know that it's time to leave him to his mourning and get on with your life..

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