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there is this boy in my saturday tutor class. i hav a major crush on him but i'm the sort who's too shy to admit i like him. well, there's this movie, Saw III, on the cinemas and it's rated MA15+. i'm 13 years old, but he's fifteen. i want to ask him to watch it with me but i'm scared. i mean, i bet he doesn't know I've got the hots for him. qw usually talk a lot about moviestars and music though, and we seem to have a lot in common in such areas. but what i'm afraid of is that he goes to a co-ed school, and he might already have a girldfriend. it would be embarrassing if i ask him out, and he doesn't want to. please help me!!!
Well, it might be a litte bit embarassing if he says "no" but think what fun you would have if he said "yes." If he's got good manners, which I hope he ddoes, and he has to say "no", he'll do it as nicely as possible. (And you do the same when some boys asks you. Remember how it feels!) It's part of dating, so just go ahead and ask and see what he says. You can handle it. You'll learn all about it.
Good luck,
Susan
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
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MA in Clinical Psychology.
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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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