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It seems most good looking girls go out with good looking guys and they go to clubs, socialize with cool people and many girls say they like the "bad boys" so they can goof around with and have fun. Yet just about every girl I've heard or spoken to says what they realy want is is nice guy to be their friend, to listen to them and be faithful. So what is the real answer!
for best results, you need a little of both..first a little "edge"; not "bad boy" as such, but confidence without arrogance, mystery, cool, unaffected, independent, secure....to balance, women like tenderness, humor, compassion, empathy, consideration, kindness, without being overbearing or appearing needy...size up the situation, stay patient, positive, prepared, and show the side that makes sense for the particular moment/mood..do this, and they'll be all over you like flies on sherbert..az
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