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hello i dont know why the type of men i like dont ask me out im a tall very light blond haired scandinavian model i study philosophy/science/history/mythology/psychology/ german/japanese/and french ok i may be vain but the only men who ask me out are the type most women like but i do not. i like petite men  most people think of as "nerds" i have a hobby of japanese animation/ video games /horror films/ and i like to go to conventions but for reasons unkwown they think im just one of the guys and just because im apathetic it dosent mean i dont wonder  

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"perfect women"???...that's your problem right there...men can sense vanity/arrogance, and it usually translates into "unapproachable"...if you're really that self-confident (unless it's just a cover for low self-esteem), why not approach and ask THEM out??..  

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