How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/how to find a boyfriend

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QUESTION: I'm pretty but I can't get a boyfriend, i think i am just too desperate but I just cannot find a guy that doesn't just want me for sex! I never give into them because I want one that will love me and last for ages! it's so depressing, it gets in the way of my whole life thinking of jerks that try and use me or make up lies about me when I thought they liked me, please help me. what shall i do??

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QUESTION:  I'm pretty but I can't get a boyfriend, i think i am just too desperate but I just cannot find a guy that doesn't just want me for sex! I never give into them because I want one that will love me and last for ages! it's so depressing, it gets in the way of my whole life thinking of jerks that try and use me or make up lies about me when I thought they liked me, please help me. what shall i do??
im 16

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at 16, no need to get your panties all in a wad over it; stay patient, positive, prepared, pick and choose who you like, stay away from the rest; having a boyfriend isn't always better than NOT having one...when the time is right, your dreams will get closer to reality...

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