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In my lesson, there is this girl who lately ALWAYS teases me, get rly cheeky with me and can be so sarcastic. I don't know why. She is shy / nice / kind with EVERYONE else but not with me. She gives me cheeky glances whenever we make eye contact. When lessons first started, she was rly shy & wouldn't speak much, but as time went on, i wanted her to be confortable & soon we both started gettin cheeky with each other - in a friendly / teasing way.
But lately she's treating me differently from everyone else. She criticizes my clothes, jokingly made a plan, in front of me with my mate to meet up, then said she wouldn't want to go out with me....
WHY is she behaving like this ?
Well, I would say she wanted you to ask her out and you didn't, so she's upping the level. Wouldn't you say she's being provocative? Trying to provoke you. I can't be sure. Also, that isn't exactly going to get her what she wants. Maybe she doesn't know quite what she wants. And certainly not how to go about it. Girls can be confusing! So can guys! She's kind of gone from too shy to too "something else". Some people go overboard on ther cheeky, friendly/teasing stuff. Looks like she has!
Warm regards,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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