Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 9/16/2007

Question
Okay this is kind of a question but the again it kinda aint. but see I've known this guy for ever b/c me and his sister has been bestfriends since 4th grade and now im in 9th grade. and i mean i never really paid any attention to him until this year. my cousin had to take him to the store one day after school and me him and this other guy were in the back seat while my cousin and his girlfriend were in the front. i sat beside the window and my crush sat in the middle and the other guy sat at the other window and before i got out my crush pinched my love handle and at the time i didnt really like him. like i said i never really paid any attention to him until this year and that day when he was getting in the car i took one look at him and was like yea your cute but your just like all the other guys a "player" which he really isn't though. and so after he pinched me i yelled at him. and went in the store. after that i got back in the car and we took him back to school b/c he had football practice. and that next day when i saw him in the hall he came up to me and pretended like he was gonna hit me. this was on tuesday. well i hadnt stayed at his house (with his sister) in forever in like 3 years. so that saturday night me and his sister was already together from where she had came to the birthday party i had. and so i decided to stay with her Saturday night. and he was there and not at one of his friends house. so that day i got a tiny crush on him. and that night me him and his sister had to sleep in the living room. so i was already on the couch when he came into the living room and he was like naw get up thats were i sleep every night. and so i got up and went to the recliner. and OMG he sleep with no shirt on and that mad me like him more b/c he is a total hottie. and the next day i woke up and me and his sister went to ride 4-wheelers and when we got back. he was like lets go riding( to him thats like a really long ways) and everybody was like okay. so then his sister was like shes ridin with me( talking about me) and then zack (thats him) he looked at me and said do you wanna ride with me and i said it dont matter. and his sister knew i had a crush on him and she was like Oh lord. and he didnt understand b/c at that time he didnt know i liked him. so i rode with him. he is a crazy driver so i had to hold on VERY tight. and monday at school he didnt say nothing to me. and by then i had a major crush on him. so i felt bad b/c he ignored me. and i think it was b/c i had told a couple of people i liked him and he found out. so thats what i thought. and this went on for days.then i found out i left my phone charger at his house. so the next week him and his sister planned to bring it to my house. and he was gonna come around 8 at night. and his momma told him no b/c it was too dark and so he was like but i wanna go and give it to her. and his sister was like oh( i found this out b/c his sister told me) but he never brought it. and so that week our county was having a fair. and i sent him a email that said me and a couple of friends are going to the fair do you wanna come with us. and he sent me back uh i dont know but i'll let you know. the next day i called his house to talk to his sister and he answered i asked to speak to her and he said she was in the bathroom so i asked him if he knew if he was going to the fair and he said that he didnt know an we talked for another 3 minutes and then his sister got on the phone and i talked to her. and that week he still ignored me at school. so when Friday came i called him and asked him if he was going with us to the fair and he said probably. and while i had him on the phone i had, had enough of him not knowing for sure that i liked him so i told him and he told me he was already talking to somebody. and i was like ohh. and i was like well i guess I'll see ya at the fair.....and he was like okay. and to my luck it started pouring raining and we didn't go. and that about all lol  thank you for reading i know it was long. but i don't know what do do so can you help me?

Answer
Well you have contact with him, through his sister and all, and he knows you like him, so I would just wait and see what happens.  I would let him do the asking.  

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