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hi, i have a few questions about how to treat a guy that I'm talking with. i just know him from the Internet. we met eachother by the net. now he talk through phone but sometimes i feel like i have nothing to talk about. so my question is what I'm i suppose to talk with a guy that him just getting to know? and since i really like and he actually says the same how can i do to attract him more?
...thanks!!
Hi Sunny,
The Internet is so neat and a great place to meet people, and there are all types of people out there looking on the Internet. Some are, alas, Internet junkies, and don't carry it in to reality. It can go on -- delightfully - for a long time that way. It's like a fantasy.
If you want something real with this guy, start changing what's going on. Be less available on the net, and even on the phone. Chat on the phone yes, but be the one to hang up, and have it in your mind that you will meet. (Use precautions for your safety of course.)
Talk lightly about the usual stuff - your day, the weather, movies, books, music -- then hang up after 15 mins. He must ask you out, so don't make yourself so available any more by phone and email.
Believe it or not, you have to give less to get more. You must be 'pushing' for him to ask you out, otherwise, it's just short, brief, up beat nice little phone chats, and you have to go because you're busy. And you're WAY too busy to keep on with the Internet stuff.
See how it works?
Good luck,
Susan
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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