Expert: Azure - 11/1/2004

Question
hi,
i joined a gym in august and go at least once a week.
there is an instructor who works there who im so attracted to. ive spoken to him once but i get the same feeling off him that he fancies me to, eg he always looks at me when he comes in but he doesnt do it to other people, and ive seen him checking me out often.
im too shy to go up to him and start speaking and ive never been in a serious relationship before but there is something about him that i totally lust after! how do i go about attracting him as i cant make the first move!
thanks  

Answer
reasons why you should forget it; a) say you do go out with him and it doesn't work out; depending on how it ends, it could be at least awkward; at most, you may not feel comfortable going there at all; b)..looks mean little; if he's interested, he'll eventually show it by chatting you up, asking you out; if he doesn't, he's not all that interested; appreciate the eye contact if you choose, just be yourself, workout, smile, leave, and don't let your sexual fantasy interfere with your better judgment..az