Expert: Azure - 9/30/2004

Question
Hi,liz,i hope you can help me,i'm a 33 divorced woman,my ex husband was an addicted man and we had too many problems,i tried to help him quit but it didn't work so i got divorced.
After a while i found a man with him i have too many things in common :he is divorced beacause too many problems he has had with his ex wife.
we are born in the same date,i mean the same day,month and year.
after 6 months i thought that i've been felt in  love with him.i told him that "we have too many things in common and we can uderstand eachother",his answer was : "dont be hurry,our relation will find it's own way ! "
After 2 or 3 months later,i told him ,that "i love you!"and his answer was : "you are a right woman who i was looking for,but,it's too soon to decide about this relation,dont be in rush,it will find it's way !"
After about 1 month later,i emailed him again,and i said that "i cant be patient more than that,i love you and i ignored any other opportunities that i've had just beacause of you",,, i just wanted to make him understand that how much i love him,but his answer was : " we better to define our relation,i'm not goint to hurt you,you have too many opportunities and i know that,eventhough you are a perfect woamn,i have too many problems at present,and i'm not going to make you lose your chance for me."
and finaly i broke up... several months passed and i emailed him again and apologized and told that "i wasnt' in a logical mood at that time and my behaviour wasnt good and i want to be still your friend,he told "welcome back to me",and we started to be "friends" for each other and we still are...but the truth is that i really love him but dont show it at all,i dont know what was wrong with me,i just told what i was feeling about him,and i really really want to be with him,i need to know if he really care about me,i know it's impossible to make somone love you,but i really need to know if there is any solution or any way to attract him,he doenst show any thing and i'm really confused,i dont know  if i should still wait for him or if i mention to my feeling again.
We have a so respectfully and "friendly" relation at present and i know that he really trust me and knows that he is my trustable man.so,please help me,what i can do.
Thank you so much and hope your answer works for me.  

Answer
easy one; you definitely should tell him how you feel, see if he feels the same, and see if he has any plan for a future with you; you need to know, because if he's not interested beyond friends, you need to put this romantic fantasy away for good and move on..ps, i'm not liz, i'm azure..