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How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/Questions Answered by Expert L.E. Coleman
| Subject | Date Asked |
| I'm overweight... | 6/5/2010 |
| Q: There is a guy in my class.he is a allrounder . He is good in studies,sports but has crude ... A: This question is a no-brainer. Any guy who gets his kicks out of belittling other people isn't fit ... | |
| how to get this guy | 6/3/2010 |
| Q: I'm a Chinese girl at 24. Recently, i met a guy from US at work. I really like him. He's nice, ... A: If you intuitively feel that he's not all that into you why pursue a relationship with him. You're ... | |
| A guy who I like. | 6/1/2010 |
| Q: I'm 20 years old, and only had one serious boyfriend. Recently I've developed a crush on a guy who I ... A: Let's talk a little about the 'Law of Attraction' first. It's called the law of attraction for a ... | |
| Clingy guy or someone I can work with? | 5/26/2010 |
| Q: I went on a date with this man I met online and spoke to for months (he's a slow mover), and he ... A: It's really quite simple and you've already came up with the most polite way to deal with this. That ... | |
| who can i attract | 5/5/2010 |
| Q: I have been divorced 13 years now. I just turned 50 and i cannot seem to find the man i want to ... A: Having the right man show up in your life is not so much about finding him but more about ALLOWING ... | |
| 35 and ready for a relationship | 2/26/2010 |
| Q: I'm 35 and have been single for almost two years. I've never been married and I have no children. ... A: Let's take a look at your questions. (1) Q: will the guy from Saturday ever call (in your ... | |
| Multilingualism/Culturalism: Is It Intimidating To Guys?? | 2/19/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 26-year old self-employed, single female who enjoys the ability to speak Spanish, French, ... A: I think your mother is giving you some bad advice. It is true that some men will be intimidated by ... | |
| A question | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: Well what I've been doing up to this point hasn't really been working for me. I don't attract guys ... A: Did you say, an expert told you to go to the club? Now,that's funny. lol. Listen, the law of ... | |
| I am at my wit's end, she can't decide! | 12/20/2009 |
| Q: Coleman I am the same Mehdi who asked you about his love interest and her reluctance to accept love ... A: You'll have to do what you have not wanted to do all along;break all personal contact with her off ... | |
| Shy | 12/15/2009 |
| Q: Long story short, Im 24, painfully shybut funny once I warm up to a person. Never had a boyfriend, ... A: Let the butterflies loose. The bottom line is this: if he's interested in you--even just a little ... | |
| this guy in my class | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: we got eachother's contacts. first facebook, he approached me more back then(but not like it was so ... A: There are no secrets to the 'law of attraction'. Likewise, there are no techniques,tricks or secrets ... | |
| Will she trample her own heart? | 7/19/2009 |
| Q: Coleman I am a 30-year old male. I think you can help me. After an unsuccessful marriage I have ... A: Something tells me that you are well underway to finding that rest. You are learning a valuable ... | |
| Will she trample her own heart? | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: Coleman I am a 30-year old male. I think you can help me. After an unsuccessful marriage I have ... A: I know that you have already tried to convince her of her mistake. I know this because I know you ... | |
| Will she trample her own heart? | 7/16/2009 |
| Q: Coleman I am a 30-year old male. I think you can help me. After an unsuccessful marriage I have ... A: After all you've said, the final two sentences you wrote are the most telling: "Will I succeed in ... | |
| Law of attraction | 6/5/2009 |
| Q: Coleman, I am so grateful to you to guide me the right way...just have a doubt in my mind so thought ... A: "all I should be doing is to be calm and undisturbed and just have faith in God." Yes, that's it. If ... | |
| My Guy is under pressure | 6/4/2009 |
| Q: This is Gayatri from India. I have been dating a guy foo almost 8 months now and have known him for ... A: Since there may be a vast cultural difference as to how to handle these types of situations, I'll ... | |
| what to do | 5/13/2009 |
| Q: I'm 50 and dating again. I met a man last week while out for my big birthday. Everyone told me he ... A: There is a wonderful paradox at work in the law of attraction--that is, assuming that you really ... | |
| what to do | 5/12/2009 |
| Q: I'm 50 and dating again. I met a man last week while out for my big birthday. Everyone told me he ... A: Of course, you didn't come on too strong. Don't try to second guess yourself with the 'what ifs.' He ... | |
| Getting the Guy | 4/26/2009 |
| Q: E. Coleman, I met this amazing guy that I'm incredibly attracted to! He's a freshman in college ... A: I want you to pay close attention to your own words because they give you a real picture of the ... | |
| Getting the Guy | 4/25/2009 |
| Q: E. Coleman, I met this amazing guy that I'm incredibly attracted to! He's a freshman in college ... A: I guess, the first thing I'd like to ask is: Why haven't you called him? The old ways of ... | |
| how do i attract this guy that takes the same bus as me?? | 3/30/2009 |
| Q: !! So, i kinda have this huge crush on this guy who waits for the same bus as i am at the same bus ... A: This is the easiest question for any of us to answer because you've already answered your own ... | |
| good eve! | 3/19/2009 |
| Q: i have an experienced with a japanese man,he's 27 yrs old.ive known him for 3 months,at the ... A: I know you're hurting right now and there's nothing I can do to take away the pain you're feeling. I ... | |
| Salvation. | 1/23/2009 |
| Q: So are you aying that I am or not saved? I also gto saved because I was interested in getting ... A: My one last answer is this. Follow your own heart and use your own mind. You can't listen to ... | |
| ..... | 1/21/2009 |
| Q: And to be honest,none of this is even real.I am really 13 and I know what you are thinking."This is ... A: I'll answer some of these questions but after you read them I want you to talk to somebody who you ... | |
| interest | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: E Coleman, So I met this guy who I think is very attractive at my friends party. I've seen him ... A: The truth of the matter is that you're never going to know what's on his mind if you don't ask him. ... | |
| What does this really mean? | 1/18/2009 |
| Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ... A: If, for some reason you and your husband have lost a little bit of closeness, there's a reason for ... | |
| What does this really mean? | 1/18/2009 |
| Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ... A: There's nothing to worry about. And right now your operating emotionally from a state of fear. ... | |
| how to answer a simple question | 1/4/2009 |
| Q: Coleman. it's Cassie again. This time my question is much simpler. Before I ask I want to give ... A: Here are some quickies for you. And you're right--there is no easy answer for this question because ... | |
| Does he want to me more than friends | 12/30/2008 |
| Q: I am a 36 year old black professional female and I am legally separated from my husband and ... A: You've probably heard this one before--but if I were you, I'd take my time on this one--that is, a ... | |
| Why did I do that????? | 12/23/2008 |
| Q: .. i am a very attractive, 30 year old single mom of a 7 year old boy. I have a hard time dating. ... A: Of course, I believe in soul mates, my friend. You don't really think the divorce rate is well ... | |
| Why did I do that????? | 12/22/2008 |
| Q: .. i am a very attractive, 30 year old single mom of a 7 year old boy. I have a hard time dating. ... A: Since I'm a firm believer in the Law of Attraction--that is to say, that we attract into our life ... | |
| Friend or More?? | 12/8/2008 |
| Q: I kind of like him. I don't know if he likes me back though?? We talk all the time and he tells me ... A: There is no way around being yourself. If you beat around the bush with your friend you'll never ... | |
| Did I attract him? | 11/6/2008 |
| Q: Before I knew about LOA I was in a not-so-good relationship and trying to work it out. I thought ... A: Once you set your intention of having a soul mate, and that intention is not fear or need based, ... | |
| Soulmate? | 10/29/2008 |
| Q: I am impressed by your profile. My question may be a challenge. I do no believe in soulamtes (not ... A: You are the proof you've been looking for regarding this whole matter concerning the law of ... | |
| hello | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: Okay I am 19 and haven't dated anyone for a really long time. im in college and am busy and i also ... A: What are your intentions right now, Miss Kitty? And by 'intentions,' I mean, what are your primary ... | |
| Would a girl like this approach & brighten her day ? | 10/16/2008 |
| Q: I see this girl in my gym every now and then, who i think is stunning. If i was to randomly go up to ... A: A simple answer, Dani.... A compliment of this kind is really not a rare thing. If you think she's ... | |
| Is he really that interested living 6 hours away? | 10/15/2008 |
| Q: I will try to be as thorough as possible. I am 34 and he (RBS) is 36. An old romantic interest back ... A: I think you already know the answer to your question because all the tale-tell red flags are there. ... | |
| Why were the 2 girls looking at me ? | 8/12/2008 |
| Q: I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a ... A: There's actually no way to tell what either one of these girls were thinking when they looked at ... | |
How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams
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L.E. Coleman
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Expertise
I can answer questions regarding the dynamics of the laws of attraction regarding attracting a soul mate"
Experience
I have worked in numerous social service and mental health agencies in the private and public sector for the past 25 years. I've worked directly with men and women under the supervision of various mental health and social services professional, i.e. psychologists, psychiatrist, nurses and addictions counselors. I've held numerous positions with the Indiana Family and Social Services in the area of public assistance and mental health. The broad training and experiences I received dealing face to face with individuals, families and their various problems has allowed me to merge the practical with the spiritual to help them come up with solutions for their specific problems. I have written books on this subject as well as books for non-custodial parents to help them deal with the dynamics of being a single parent. I am the author of "How to Avoid a Stupid Man: A Woman's Guide to Attracting Her Soul Mate which takes women on a exploration of self discovery in order that they might attract the right man.
Publications
I am the co-founder of Crowner-Coleman Publishing, a publisher of self-help and motivation books for men and women
Education/Credentials
I attended Ivy Tech Community College and Indiana/Purdue University at Indianapolis and I've have numerous credit hours in psychology, sociology, etc. I received Highest Honors for academinc exellence from Indiana/Purdue University at Indianapolis during the spring of 1998. I've also attended classes the School of Metaphysics.
Awards and Honors
Highest Honors for academinc excellence in 1998 from IUPUI
USA Book News Best Book 2007 Award Finalist in the self-help/motivation catagory for the audiobook The Black Man's Little Book of Success Secrets
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