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| I've lost the man of my dreams...how to get him back? | 10/18/2009 |
Q: and thanks so much in advance for trying to help me. I'll try to give you the short version. My ...
A: "get him back.."?...not exactly the healthy mindset at this point, and indicative of ...
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| Too Picky/ Lack of interest after knowing person | 3/25/2009 |
Q: My question/concern is about being too picky and/or ending up being less attracted to a guy once I ...
A: first, there's nothing wrong with being discriminating; the more you interact, the greater the ...
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| theres this guy that i like, but im nervous to see him later | 2/6/2009 |
Q: Alright, kind of a long story here. Me and my ex broke up about 3 weeks ago. Well, about 2 or 3 ...
A: if you're interested in quick, casual, no strings sex, do it--if you're interested in perhaps ...
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| Dick Sucking Lips | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm in grade 8 at my high school and I really like a boy who's in one of ...
A: the boy, like ALL boys, has a mainly sexual interest--these guys are way too young to know about or ...
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| Very new interest | 9/26/2008 |
Q: I am sick of messing up, while learning on my own what men like and what they don't. They ...
A: you don't need a dating coach, except perhaps for occasional guidance; it's not supposed to be ...
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| Confused,what's should I do next? | 9/8/2008 |
Q: Dr, PLEASE HELP! I have dating my BF for a year, he was the perfect boyfriend, sweet , attentive, ...
A: it's over--in his opinion, you weren't good enough; chasing him, seeing him, having sex, hoping ...
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| What should I do? | 6/17/2008 |
Q: I am in quite the predicament here and I hope you can offer me some advice. I am a proud and strong ...
A: i think each person should tell the other what their REQUIREMENTS are for being in a committed ...
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| What should I do? | 6/16/2008 |
Q: I am in quite the predicament here and I hope you can offer me some advice. I am a proud and strong ...
A: first off, prison can certainly affect one's belief system--he made have adopted this approach just ...
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| Help | 2/10/2008 |
Q: I broke my neck nearly ten years ago. As a result, I never thought I could find love again. After ...
A: just because he was "good to you" (his choice), doesn't mean he gets a pass on all loving behavior, ...
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| Help | 2/10/2008 |
Q: I broke my neck nearly ten years ago. As a result, I never thought I could find love again. After ...
A: it's amazing you stayed with him THIS long, as it's been over for a long time; what's "another ...
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| dating a married older man | 1/20/2008 |
Q: I have a question that seems obviouse, but please read everything. I am dating this 65 yr old man ...
A: imput: not sure what your question is; essentially, you are a "kept woman"--the barter is you give ...
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| I'm fallin in love with a guy at work who has a girlfriend | 1/16/2008 |
Q: Five months ago a new guy was employed at my workplace, and at the very first sight I liked him. At ...
A: there's an ending, not sure about "happy"; the guy was at least sufficiently honest to tell you what ...
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| how to find a boyfriend | 8/19/2007 |
Q: I'm pretty but I can't get a boyfriend, i think i am just too desperate but I just cannot find a guy ...
A: at 16, no need to get your panties all in a wad over it; stay patient, positive, prepared, pick and ...
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| Please Help!!! | 8/7/2007 |
Q: I had a crush on this guy i worked with, we flirted but nothing more, cause i had a b/f. But then a ...
A: being the "chaser" and the one who likes the other more, isn't the spot you want to be in; this guy ...
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| Confused but determined | 7/10/2007 |
Q: There is this guy I met back in October that I'm beginning to care about. He is my best friend's ...
A: no need to "do" anything, especially seeing he's not gonna be around for long; if he's interested in ...
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| Chance Encounter - Should I Follow-Up | 6/17/2007 |
Q: Here's my situation/question. I would appreciate any advice you can offer. I was on a business ...
A: "the one..??"...let's all settle down...send a card with your return address--anything else is ...
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| question | 6/7/2007 |
Q: How do you know if a guy likes you for more than just your body? They say not to sleep with men too ...
A: don't discount the value of being discriminating, not accepting less than you deserve; physical ...
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| The Serial Girlfriend | 6/5/2007 |
Q: Since the age of 17 I've been seeking to develop only relationships that will lead to marriage. ...
A: not sure what your actual question is, so i'll just make some general observations; the reason ...
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| boyfreind | 4/16/2007 |
Q: Azure, I really love my boyfriend very much and when we're together, he is always smiling and ...
A: he's in denial--if you're not a steady girlfriend, what are you, an oral sex partner?..does that ...
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| Getting back together after a breakup | 4/11/2007 |
Q: If someone has broken up with you in the past for whatever circumstance, and that someone treated ...
A: depends--you have to revisit the reasons the thing ended and see if new understandings can be ...
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| men and why do they have to be so confusing | 3/30/2007 |
Q: well I have a couple of questions for you...well to start I'm talkin to this guy that I use to date ...
A: where's the confusion? there's no doubt getting inside your panties is a goal---the question is, is ...
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| relations | 3/22/2007 |
Q: I sm 18 years old and im very attracted to a guy who is 24. he travels around a lot and so we have ...
A: he likes you, but his main goal is getting into your pants, then panties; "as a friend" is a dead ...
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| breakup | 3/5/2007 |
Q: Ok well after he broke up with me, I completely cut off all communication with him. I do not email ...
A: 1.yes 2. it depends how you feel about him at that point; but if you still think he's boyfriend ...
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| I wish... | 1/5/2007 |
Q: I'm 20 years old and I'm not good at knowing if a guy likes me or not. At all. My sister was ...
A: depends how assertive you care to be; you can wait for him to show interest (if he indeed has any), ...
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| How to make him notice me | 11/1/2006 |
Q: I have strong feelings for my children's pediatrician. He is divorced, and I am almost divorced. The ...
A: under the circumstances, you'll need to be a tad more proactive than counting on him to not only ...
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| too young | 10/25/2006 |
Q: i am a 18 year old senior in high school and i hate it. i am only attracted to men who are around ...
A: you shouldn't have to look very far--most older guys would LOVE to see a cute young thing like you; ...
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| How do I get him to like me | 10/16/2006 |
Q: I noted that you said you aren't big on 'initiating' anything. Does that mean that I should ...
A: i believe you've already have done some initiating; if you want to chase him, be my guest, but my ...
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| How do I get him to like me | 10/15/2006 |
Q: I am currently about to turn 20 yrs old and I'm a sophomore at a small university. Last year I had ...
A: i'm not big on the "get" concept, nor your having to "initiate"; both illustrate low self-esteem and ...
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| Problems with opening up | 10/14/2006 |
Q: Do you really think that I sound that lame? I mean I was only asking him as a friend those ...
A: asking as a "friend" or not, he a) refused most, if not all your requests, and b), apparently hasn't ...
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| Problems with opening up | 10/13/2006 |
Q: So being myself is really easy and it seems like we have some kind of friendship....but whenever I ...
A: my advice would be to have NEVER asked him, and certainly to not CONTINUE to; where's your self ...
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| why do i think i need a guy in my life? | 9/25/2006 |
Q: i feel lonley. on one hand the thought of a relationship seems so much work and being a free ...
A: it IS possible to be free, independent and have a relationship--it depends how you set it up; some ...
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| Forbidden Interest | 9/2/2006 |
Q: I am in the military and we have fraternization policies. The one that applies to my situation is ...
A: the "outside the box" verdict is for you to stay in the box--you spelled it out--there's no where to ...
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| Advice | 8/17/2006 |
Q: I have a need for some advice on what to do about my current situation. Myself and a girlfriend of ...
A: the "error" was in artificially tampering with the natural flow/direction of just dating, and trying ...
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| Help | 8/8/2006 |
Q: So you would not suggest at this moment to do what I have to do to land this man ? Within the next ...
A: "do what you have to do to land him"??; sounds a tad manipulative; in my opinion, you be who you ...
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| finding a man | 7/18/2006 |
Q: I am a 55 yr-old black and indian heritage female. I am 5'9", very attractive, very fit, excellent ...
A: the online stuff is one option; with a good picture, you should get hundreds to choose from; ...
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| How to make a guy comfortable, about an uneasy situation. | 7/14/2006 |
Q: I have recently gone out with this guy who I thought was not at all my type. I have really enjoyed ...
A: it's really between him and the brother; he should tell, not ask, the brother as to his dating you, ...
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| Help me to win him. | 7/11/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question - I am a 16 year old girl who has a crush on the boy next door. He is three ...
A: i'm TRYING to help..want me to write him about you?? as to my thought, most guys his age will think ...
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| Help me to win him. | 7/11/2006 |
Q: I am a 16 year old girl who has a crush on the boy next door. He is three or four years older than ...
A: i suppose you can tell him/write him about how you feel, but you'd really be setting yourself up for ...
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| man troubles | 7/11/2006 |
Q: I like this guy that i use to go out with about 4 years ago and we have now started talking again ...
A: i see no point in limiting yourself; date who you choose non-exclusively until your PREFERENCE is to ...
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| Help me to win him. | 7/7/2006 |
Q: I am a 16 year old girl who has a crush on the boy next door. He is three or four years older than ...
A: hate to throw water on your fantasy guy, bu he probably barely knows you exist; lower expectations ...
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| So confused | 7/3/2006 |
Q: I have been best friends with this guy since high school. We grew up down the street from each ...
A: what's stopping you from ASKING him these reasonable questions?..whatever he answers, i'd be ...
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| Now What | 7/2/2006 |
Q: Ok, this may be a problem. I'm trolling for younger men (35-45) and lots of them seem to want a 50 ...
A: try not to get too hung up on the age number, and generalities--there's exceptions, pros/cons, to ...
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| How do I get his attention | 7/1/2006 |
Q: I work with a guy, that I am extremely attracted. Lately we have had to work very closely because ...
A: if you like him, he should be able to pick it up without you doing anything over the top; ...
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| Understanding men | 6/21/2006 |
Q: Why do men think woman just want to get married, have kids and control them soon as she becomes ...
A: what you said was entirely different in meaning than what you hoped to express; most men would ...
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| iam going crazy | 5/26/2006 |
Q: iam not sure if my question is within your area , but i will just ask and see.iam 25 years old and i ...
A: you're allowing a fantasy to ruin your life; you're engaged and he has a girlfriend, and you think ...
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| how to move forward with a man who is scared | 5/8/2006 |
Q: There is this guy that I really like. He was married for 12 years. I have been married too. We ...
A: since you've known more than 6 months, there's no reason you shouldn't be able to express your ...
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| I need advice. | 4/26/2006 |
Q: I've known my ex-fiance for many many years (more then 6). We dated for 2 years and were engaged for ...
A: i wouldn't worry about the other girl; at this point, it's HIS business; plus, if he's THAT easily ...
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| Help! | 4/24/2006 |
Q: Hey, I'm really into this guy and he is really into me. We have already hooked up. I can pretty ...
A: telling him in 7 different ways how you're gonna suck his cock isn't gonna take this to any higher ...
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| What am I to do?! | 1/21/2006 |
Q: I am 18 nearly 19 and I have never had a boyfriend. It is a sad statement to say, but it is the ...
A: it may seem that way to you, but at 18+, you've nothing to worry about; in some ways, you're BETTER ...
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| Romance | 1/18/2006 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for 3yrs and i am engaged and going to get married April now what i ...
A: keep doing what you're hopefully doing now; let there be spaces in your togetherness, don't get too ...
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| Love gone wrong | 12/21/2005 |
Q: I met a man online...we only had a few dates and he pushed to move in with me right away. Just ...
A: what can i say that haven't already heard??..even YOU, despite your addiction to him, know it has to ...
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| my best friend turned the tables | 12/17/2005 |
Q: i think i'm in love with my best friend and i'd really like him to notice me. However, our history ...
A: your choices are to just be a friend and wait until if/when he breaks up, then tell him how you ...
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| Men | 12/11/2005 |
Q: Where do I meet them? I am a single 45 year old woman who looks alot younger. I never get asked out ...
A: it's 50 percent seeking/finding, 50 percent attitude; where to look: internet dating sites, work, ...
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| I dont know if he is in love with me | 10/31/2005 |
Q: I have met a very nice man in the internet and before, I dont want to be in love in the net because ...
A: you should have trusted your original instincts about "no real people", so you wouldn't have trapped ...
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| Getting Guys To Notice You | 10/1/2005 |
Q: I'm an 18 year old girl. I was in love once but he broke my heart...Now i'm in college and i want to ...
A: as pretty as you are, try to look even better, and wear nice clothes, nice perfume; be feminine, ...
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| one night stand 2year relationship | 9/24/2005 |
Q: ) I was in an abusive relationship for 2years and after all was said and done i met the person of ...
A: depends on how much you want to hear his lame excuses; in either case, the bottom line is it's ...
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| PLEASE help?? | 9/3/2005 |
Q: Hi me and my bf Cameron have been dating for awhile now last month we were engaged he got cold feet ...
A: sure; first, you didn't "scare him off.."..for whatever reason, he's simply not ready to make such ...
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| Need help!!! | 8/18/2005 |
Q: Azure, I've been engaged 1 1/2 years. We are happy together but I have serious abandonment issues ...
A: you're not doing enough to get his attention--if you were, he wouldn't be getting away with saying ...
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| How to tell him I really like him without sounding desperate. | 7/30/2005 |
Q: I met this man through a mutual friend. At one time he was even considered my landlord but not ...
A: in most cases, i wouldn't recommend making the first move, unless you're unconcerned about possible ...
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| I want him back | 7/19/2005 |
Q: I have known this guy for about 4 years, the first two were great. We fell in love, i knew him but ...
A: you say you want to "go back to romance"..guess your definition of romance is different than mine; ...
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| I want him back | 7/18/2005 |
Q: I have known this guy for about 4 years, the first two were great. We fell in love, i knew him but ...
A: if you havn't even met, you haven't had anything CLOSE to real romance; these internet things only ...
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| attracting and dating older men | 6/19/2005 |
Q: I have a question. First let me point out that I am 18. I have a friend whose older, he's 24, which ...
A: without faking it, you can't; what you are is what you are; 6 yrs age difference isn't alot when ...
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| Dating | 6/19/2005 |
Q: I am a 35 year old straight female and I have become very attracted to a gay man. I think about him ...
A: he's not changing; that means, unless you want to live a life of quiet desperation, your emotions ...
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| charming | 5/14/2005 |
Q: I want to be more attractive. I am full figured and I don't think that I am very pretty. I just ...
A: a) keep working on getting in shape; the better you look, the better you'll feel about yourself, the ...
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| So there's this guy...but he's my manager. | 5/12/2005 |
Q: I don't know what to do. I really like this guy at work...but he's my manager. I don't really work ...
A: if you don't care about him being your mgr, that's fine; but the bottom line is, if he's interested, ...
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| the real one | 5/8/2005 |
Q: attracting the man of my dreams. how can i do that when I am a black female, ugly and overweight ...
A: you say you want respect, but it will be hard to gain it when you're perceived as not havng respect ...
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| the real one | 5/8/2005 |
Q: attracting the man of my dreams. how can i do that when I am a black female, ugly and overweight ...
A: to attract nicer guys, you have to appear attractive; if you're not willing to do what it takes, you ...
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| I can't get him out of my mind | 4/23/2005 |
Q: I met this guy almost a year ago at a conference. I liked him from the first sight, but I did not ...
A: it's like ANY relationship; you decide you like each other, you see each other, you see what ...
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| how should i act | 4/19/2005 |
Q: Im 21 and I met this guy online, he lives 4 hours away, and we havent seen each other yet. He is ...
A: first, relax, be yourself, lower your expectations, and don't get so addicted to someone you haven't ...
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| Help! At 38 years old I only had 1 real boyfriend...and I'm very pretty! | 4/7/2005 |
Q: I have two teens now at 38. I never married. My kids father was my only boyfriend and he was very ...
A: if i knew you better i could provide better insights; certainly having a job isn't a requirement for ...
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| the boy of my dreams...am i being? | 4/6/2005 |
Q: okay well theres this guy in my grade and i've liked him 4 three years and he knows it. he is very ...
A: it's pretty normal stuff; i call it "teenarama"; when talking to him, just be youself; it sounds ...
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| I am a woman. I am curious... | 3/3/2005 |
Q: I am a woman. I am curious about some insight into the male mind. There is a man I like (he is one ...
A: first we need to examine your conclusions of his great interest/lust for you; to me, one needs more ...
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| can i get this man back | 2/22/2005 |
Q: i am a very attractive 37 year old who had been seeing a younger guy(27) for 9 months every ...
A: sure; you can tell him he sees you all weekend or he doesn't see you at all, but i doubt it'll work; ...
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| i want him to know that i want him | 2/12/2005 |
Q: okay i am not trying to be conceded but this is how it is.. i know i am attractive i could have ...
A: usually if a guy is interested, he'll figure out a way to ask you out; if he's SO timid that he ...
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| Hello. I am a very attractive... | 1/19/2005 |
Q: I am a very attractive african-american female and I have a thing for white guys. I will date any ...
A: you don't "do" anything too differenty..just live your life and be who you are; if that's attractive ...
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| I come from a country in the... | 1/18/2005 |
Q: I come from a country in the Middle East where dating is not considered a norm, which means that if ...
A: i assume that when he was advising you he KNEW you were the same person that's been catching his ...
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| Hes going to be 18 and i just turned 15 HELP | 12/29/2004 |
Q: "Hi my name is Jen and there is this boy Ronald, well we met over the summer and hung out all the ...
A: when the girl is 15 and the guy is 18, it's a problem; he likes you, but is rightfully reluctant to ...
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| Are there any good ones left? | 12/28/2004 |
Q: I was reading some of the others questions and decided I would ask one of my own. I'm 41 years old a ...
A: it may have more to do with YOU than you think; my hunch is you're not commanding the respect from ...
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| Help - can't seem to find the right one | 12/23/2004 |
Q: but I already tried the internet dating thing and it was not a very good experience. Any other ...
A: as with most things, the responsibility for lack of "success" rests not only with hard to control ...
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| Relationships-Romance | 12/4/2004 |
Q: What in heck is wrong with me? For years when I have been attracted to a woman, I maintain my ...
A: don't know you well enough to really answer; could be fear of intimacy/commitment; could be you just ...
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| please help me figure this guy's behavior... | 11/6/2004 |
Q: could you please give me some insight on this situation? Thanks. I've gotten close with this really ...
A: you need to see this more realistically; obviously, you're far more into him than vice-versa; don't ...
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| hi,
i joined a gym in august... | 11/1/2004 |
Q: i joined a gym in august and go at least once a week. there is an instructor who works there who im ...
A: reasons why you should forget it; a) say you do go out with him and it doesn't work out; depending ...
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| Guy at work | 10/28/2004 |
Q: I am attracted to a guy at work.This guy is in one of the seniormost positions. I am 5 years younger ...
A: you're getting too hung up on eye contact; if a guy is interested in you, he'll let you know, ...
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| I WANT HIM.... | 10/22/2004 |
Q: my name is Natalie and I'm a 23 year old college student. I need your advice badly, you see I'm ...
A: this is no more than a fantasy on your part, not his; don't confuse it with the reality, which is a) ...
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| i hope you can help me | 9/30/2004 |
Q: liz,i hope you can help me,i'm a 33 divorced woman,my ex husband was an addicted man and we had too ...
A: easy one; you definitely should tell him how you feel, see if he feels the same, and see if he has ...
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| pushy or assertive | 9/15/2004 |
Q: I met this guy online with the intention of just being a casual relationship. Two weeks into it, I ...
A: you did nothing wrong; you just miscalculated the potential pitfalls of internet romance; i don't ...
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| should I risk rejection | 8/31/2004 |
Q: This past year,I resolved to search for a lasting love and met/dated numerous men. I became involved ...
A: i think you should call; since even with your explanation, i don't quite understand what happened, ...
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| How to atract | 8/14/2004 |
Q: Hallo there, i feel silly asking someone else this, but how exacly does one find the guy of her ...
A: actually i think this isn't a very good category, as there really is no magical means of ...
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| Please help me | 7/21/2004 |
Q: You see the problem is that he doesn't know who I am. We've just been looking at each other in the ...
A: you asked my advice, i gave it; it's not a guessing game; didn't you ask for a pen once? perhaps ...
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| Please help me | 7/21/2004 |
Q: Yes it sounds good. But do you think he will guess who I am or that he'll wonder who is writing to ...
A: just tell him who you are, ask if he remembers you, how you got the address, and that you're writing ...
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| Why am I still single? | 7/20/2004 |
Q: I have been waiting for a relationship for 2 years, since I broke up with my last boyfriend. I have ...
A: seriously, we both know since i really know nothing about you or your history with guys, there's no ...
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| Depression in a Relationship | 6/28/2004 |
Q: I have a couple questions regarding my current relationship. My boyfriend is depressed and has been ...
A: your fears, translated into reasonable future concerns, are justified; make sure you know what ...
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| do - overs? | 6/16/2004 |
Q: How can I maintain a relationship with a man that my 2 children don't like? They can't give any ...
A: there's no decision here; you can't allow your kids determine who you spend your time with; it's ...
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| I am in love with a younger guy.. | 6/13/2004 |
Q: Please help me, I'm separated. I met a new man. I knew this 25 yrs young man for two years now. He ...
A: you've beome addicted to his attention; it's eating away at your emotions and distracting you from ...
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| love life problems | 6/8/2004 |
Q: I am a teenager in 7th grade. There is this girl in my math class that i have a crush on, but right ...
A: the feelings are natural, and we ALL go through them; why not just start by trying to talk to ...
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| How to tell or ask him? | 6/8/2004 |
Q: both of us are in united arab emirates....n as far as how often he calls me is concerned...well its ...
A: your country may have different customs that i'm not aware of, but here it's not uncommon for guys ...
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| Trying hard to hold on to what I have. | 5/25/2004 |
Q: I too am a volunteer on Allexperts but I have run into a problem that I just can't seem to figure ...
A: being the one with the stronger feelings isn't the best position to be in; it depletes your ...
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| Please help! | 5/24/2004 |
Q: I am having some trouble. I was wondering how I can make this guy fall even more in love with me ...
A: i don't subscribe to the premise that you "make" someone fall in love with you; if you possess ...
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| asking a guy out | 5/9/2004 |
Q: There is this really hot guy that works at my gym, but he only works 2 days a week. My friend also ...
A: nothing ventured, nothing gained, or how bout, "he who hesitates is lost"?..just go up and start a ...
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| I Like this guy but I work with him | 4/28/2004 |
Q: I really like this guy at work and have for quite some time now. We are friends and talk about ...
A: the only way to know is to look at the behavior; if he's interested, he'll let you know; if he ...
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| Man of your dreams | 4/27/2004 |
Q: I can change. Please give me a second chance. I will Change my name to my middle name if that is ...
A: you're pretty funny, which is the ONLY reason i'm continuing to respond; t-bone is the name of a ...
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| How to attract a man ? | 4/26/2004 |
Q: I commute by train to work everyday. For quite some time I have seen this attractive man take the ...
A: agreed it's easier to have the man make the initial contact, but the question is, what to do if he ...
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| How can I get to know him?? | 4/25/2004 |
Q: I accept what you said that I may need to go up and introduce myself to him, but I really don't have ...
A: you go up to him, put out your hand, and say "hi, i'm irene, and i just wanted to introduce myself, ...
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| How can I get to know him?? | 4/24/2004 |
Q: I thought this is a web service that will help us when we have problems in love? I am sending my ...
A: you're not listening; i can't go up and start talking to him for you; my suggestion was from the ...
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| How can I get to know him?? | 4/24/2004 |
Q: Well, I agree what you said that I should make the first move to know him so that we can at least ...
A: you don't get to know someone through the words of some friend; that information doesn't mean alot; ...
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| How can I get to know him?? | 4/23/2004 |
Q: Irene here. I've been bordered by this emotion feeling for such a long time. I hope you can help me ...
A: first you need to regain control of your emotions; this isn't junior high school; this is a guy you ...
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| getting a long-term relationship out of a platonic one | 4/21/2004 |
Q: what do you mean improve myself? How? Why?
A: why??..isn't that part of what life is about?..as for practical reasons, you'll feel better about ...
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| getting a long-term relationship out of a platonic one | 4/21/2004 |
Q: Since my last relationship which was a living together one which lasted 1 year and I supported the ...
A: you only spoke of two men, both of whom you should forget about; these relationships are no longer ...
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| How can I get him to ask me on a date? | 4/21/2004 |
Q: I just met this guy who works at my college and I'm so attracted to him. I do not know if he is ...
A: if you don't want to take the lead, you're pretty much dependent on him to make a move; if he's ...
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| how to get started | 3/27/2004 |
Q: I am a widow of two years. I am middle aged and have not dated in over 35 years. I recently joined ...
A: you'll get alot more attention/response with a picture, assuming it's one guys will generally find ...
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| why dont guys like perfect women | 3/24/2004 |
Q: i like petite men most people think of as "nerds" i have a hobby of japanese animation/ video games ...
A: "perfect women"???...that's your problem right there...men can sense vanity/arrogance, and it ...
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| man of my dreams | 3/18/2004 |
Q: Hey there, i'm SO SO SO glad you're on allexperts. I need you so bad lol... ok there's this guy i've ...
A: you don't need help, sabrina; you seem to be doing just fine getting his attention just by being ...
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| how can we get closer | 3/17/2004 |
Q: my boy friend claims he loves me we have not made love yet, his girl friend died about four months ...
A: it could be the girl who died, it could be something else; if you're tired of waiting, tell him that ...
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| i love him | 3/12/2004 |
Q: I'm in love wif this 17-yr-old boy in my school. At first i hardly noticed him then slowly my ...
A: you could have one final conversation with him, asking straight out if he's interested in some form ...
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| being a hopeless dreamer... | 3/3/2004 |
Q: I've seen many questions concerning the same topic that I'm about to ask about...but somehow I felt ...
A: astrid; nice name...it all depends on how assertive you want to be...your choices are to wait, ...
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| Someone I really like | 2/26/2004 |
Q: I really hope you can help me. A guy I like working as a bouncer at a club I go to. I always thought ...
A: this will help u learn that men are notorious for saying one thing, doing another, and generally not ...
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| Someone I really like | 2/26/2004 |
Q: I really hope you can help me. A guy I like working as a bouncer at a club I go to. I always thought ...
A: this isn't the basket you want to put alot of eggs in; at best, he's confused, emotionally ...
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| Does He like Me? | 2/10/2004 |
Q: Ok I joined a gym a couple weeks ago and met my personal trainer for 2 sessions now. The first ...
A: in my opinion, it's still up to the guy to make the move...he's already noticed you; if he's ...
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| Relationships | 2/4/2004 |
Q: I'm currently dating a gentleman... how do I know if he's the right one? How can I tell how he ...
A: no guarantees susan; all you can do is use your instincts, perceptive powers, and good judgment to ...
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| Single...again. | 2/4/2004 |
Q: I am a 28 year old single mom. I have just ended a 2 year relationship with yet another "wrong" guy. ...
A: you have to fine tune what you want; start by laying out, in your head, what are your relationship ...
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| I don't want to look like a fool | 1/28/2004 |
Q: I am interested, like, this one guy but I dont know if he feels the same way about me. I known him ...
A: well your choices are keep waiting, talk to him, or forget it...i wouldn't think you had much to ...
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| A frustrating case | 11/15/2003 |
Q: I am in a pickle and I need some advice. I am head-over-heels for one of my coworkers. We deliver ...
A: there's only two choices; telling him your feelings or waiting for him to possibly make a move...i ...
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| Love | 10/27/2003 |
Q: I was wondering whether you could help me out please - there's this guy I really like (he's 29, I'm ...
A: c'mon ang; how about holding on to some measure of self-esteem and forgetting about it?...when you ...
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| Riding it out | 10/17/2003 |
Q: I've been seeing the same man for about five years now (although we have dated others a bit during ...
A: unless you're going on 60, it's not time to settle for less than you deserve...common values as to ...
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| How to turn tables | 7/31/2003 |
Q: I have a boyfirend/ex/boyfriend/ex who likes to break up with me all the time, and then tell me not ...
A: he's too sure of you to the point of complacency...i wouldn't call it "trust"; he just figures he ...
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| This is my story...i feel... | 5/31/2003 |
Q: This is my story...i feel "in love" with this guy, and we were dating for abotu 4 months. I thought ...
A: first, lose the "i'm better" attitude; (didn't u see "American Beauty"?)...and don't underestimate ...
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| how can I find a man? | 4/18/2003 |
Q: I don't know where to start. I am a 32 year-old, black, single mother who has recently earned my ...
A: if finding someone is a priority, the first thing is to instead of "trying" to lose weight, just ...
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| Does he like me??? | 4/16/2003 |
Q: I'll try to make a long story short - back in November I met a friend of my cousin's at a bar. We ...
A: with guys, don't waste your time trying to deeply analyze their behavior or try to figure out their ...
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| dating | 2/21/2003 |
Q: It seems most good looking girls go out with good looking guys and they go to clubs, socialize with ...
A: for best results, you need a little of both..first a little "edge"; not "bad boy" as such, but ...
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| How to break a pattern? | 1/4/2003 |
Q: I realized I have a pattern in my relatinships. I meet a guy, we have a great time together, ...
A: it's a little of both; not knowing more about you, it's hard to say why these guys appear ...
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| all i think about | 1/4/2003 |
Q: i need help on how to win a guy over, well more then win him over, i want him to think about me as ...
A: the first problem is your insecurity...otherwise you wouldn't be asking the questions...i don't care ...
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| How do I attract him? | 11/17/2002 |
Q: Hey, I've been getting tutored by this guy for a couple of weeks now. I really like him. However, ...
A: there must be some moments either before or after where you can ask him something personal like what ...
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| Where are all the nice guys? | 10/17/2002 |
Q: I'm a 19-year-old chick and about a year ago I ended a two year relationship, because I just wasn't ...
A: some online stuff is close to free; Dreammates only charges per your response, but if you're female, ...
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| confused | 10/8/2002 |
Q: Three weeks ago I met this really hot guy while I was working at a cocktail lounge, through this ...
A: i suppose if you were idealistic you could think he lost your number, but it's doubtful...under the ...
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