| Subject | Date Asked |
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| re-attracting the man of my dreams | 11/25/2009 |
Q: I've been seriously dating a guy for almost a year who is 40 and has a 17 yr old son. I'm 43. We ...
A: Renee, Is it possible he ("John") is depressed? He sounds depressed to me since he contradicts ...
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| 29 and single | 8/21/2009 |
Q: i am 29 years old and i am looking for a man dat would like to share his life with me, unfortunately ...
A: Lex, You're not too old to find someone. Lots of people don't find the right match until they're ...
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| how can I meet Mr. Right | 8/13/2009 |
Q: Basically, my subject expresses my question. I have everything in my life. I am pretty, kind, and ...
A: Melany, I don't know how this message got lost, but I just found it. Sorry it's late, but here it ...
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| What do I do? | 7/19/2009 |
Q: I have started to have feelings for one of my good friends. People always tell me that if I like him ...
A: Danielle, I agree that you should tell him, but you could do so in a way that gives him an out if ...
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| Doomed to be a spinster? | 6/14/2009 |
Q: I am 41 and seem to have a big problem with men...I just don't meet any! I was married when I was ...
A: Tricia, I wouldn't suggest a bar - the guys most likely to be interested in a serious, lifelong ...
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| Nervous to be single again | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I just went through my first breakup (I’m 19). It sucks, but I know it’s for the best. The thing ...
A: Sorry your message must have gotten lost - I'm just noticing it. There are many possible places to ...
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| IN LOVE WITH A SHY GUY - | 5/29/2009 |
Q: I have a BIG thing going on. I felt in love with this shy guy, he acts different towards me than ...
A: Sometimes shy guys can't get up the nerve when those hormones are churning - when they are really ...
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| Do he likes me? | 4/30/2009 |
Q: So, i've managed to get approach my crush and get his number and sent him back few times, but, he ...
A: Vaniessa, Since I give advice about life-long monogamous love, I don't think you want to share him ...
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| Attracting a Ladies Man | 4/27/2009 |
Q: I met this guy that I'm incredibly attracted to! I haven't found someone who makes me swoon like ...
A: He could be clueless or he might not be interested. Since you have conversations with him that seems ...
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| Attracting a Ladies Man | 4/25/2009 |
Q: I met this guy that I'm incredibly attracted to! I haven't found someone who makes me swoon like ...
A: Ashley, Do you have any evidence that he calls or texts any other women? If not, I think you're ...
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| Re: the guy that goes to school that every girl likes | 4/5/2009 |
Q: well there is a guy that goes to my school that every girl likes and ironically I like him too. I've ...
A: "I know what you are going to say he's just a guy" - you are guilty of assumption (everyone is ...
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| i like this guy at office | 3/3/2009 |
Q: there is a guy at workplace, it has been an year, we know each other, initially he used to flirt ...
A: Anji, I give advice about life-long relationships. It doesn't sound like this guy is the man you ...
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| A guy that i like | 12/10/2008 |
Q: How do a attract a guy that i like? How would i know if he like me to ? i never know what to say.
A: Kelly, If a guy pays any attention to you, he is liable to like you in some way, though that ...
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| I like this guy and he likes me,but a dozen of other girls also like him | 11/27/2008 |
Q: my name is Daniella and i'm in my last year of high school. I've never had an actual boyfriend and ...
A: Daniella, Sorry I lost your message during the holidays, but I've found it now. It's not easy to ...
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| GET HIS ATTENTION!! | 10/30/2008 |
Q: Well I started becoming friends with this guy from my church, getting to know him he is not like ...
A: You're assuming he's straight. Is there any evidence of that? Even religious people can be gay. ...
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| meeting guys | 10/28/2008 |
Q: i go to an all girls-high school and i just cant seem to meet any new guys to make friends with/get ...
A: There must be guys somewhere around the school. I'm sure there are guys not far away who would like ...
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| Would a girl like this approach & brighten her day ? | 10/16/2008 |
Q: I see this girl in my gym every now and then, who i think is stunning. If i was to randomly go up to ...
A: Dany, Girls are different in their reaction and their thoughts. She might react as if she was ...
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| Is he really that interested living 6 hours away? | 10/15/2008 |
Q: I will try to be as thorough as possible. First, let me say that I have never cheated or strayed. ...
A: HolDC, That was a long story and a complicated one. You asked him not to flirt even though you ...
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| I fell in love with my manager | 7/26/2008 |
Q: I love my manager so much,so i dont know his feeling. Sometimes...it seems he want to see me ...
A: I give advice about how to have a lifelong relationship. Starting a relationship with someone who is ...
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| I want to be accepted as I am | 6/16/2008 |
Q: I recently broke up with a man that I was in a relationship with for three years. I thought he was ...
A: Elaine, There's definitely nothing wrong with you because you're an individual. You are who you ...
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| ive found the man i want to be with for the rest of my life... now what? | 3/21/2008 |
Q: okay, so i was dating this guy.. and i can honestly see myself with him for the rest of my life. i ...
A: Christy, Is he really in love with you? Well, I don't think that's the question, because he calls ...
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| kissing | 2/26/2008 |
Q: i was woundering am i freak the fact i am 26 yaer old girl who never be kissed is normal.but i am so ...
A: I don't mean to be rude, but I'm wondering if you're from a different culture because of the way you ...
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| older man | 2/13/2008 |
Q: "i was wondering how would i attract an older man about 36 or 37 years of age i am 26 years.guys my ...
A: Louise, I used that example from my own experience to show that age doesn't make a difference. It ...
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| older man | 2/12/2008 |
Q: "i was wondering how would i attract an older man about 36 or 37 years of age i am 26 years.guys my ...
A: Louise, I really don't think age matters unless is somehow affects other qualities you're looking ...
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| help | 1/7/2008 |
Q: my name is louise kelly ,i live in ireland. i am 5ft2" not exactly a supermodel.fat and ugly and ...
A: Louise, STOP BEATING UP ON YOURSELF! If you say you're ugly, old, etc., then you'll act that way. ...
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| a man | 12/6/2007 |
Q: Hello I would like to know how do I find a man of my dreams that i can fall in love with that is ...
A: Lorraine, If you go out with a man whom you know is taken, they that makes him a cheater. Would you ...
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| help | 12/1/2007 |
Q: i sadi after without no scuess of find a boyfreind after 10 years .i am 26 years old.do you think i ...
A: Louise, Give up active looking? Or give up on finding anyone ever in your life? If you meant the ...
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| help | 11/9/2007 |
Q: and how does a guy know if a girl him or not?
A: Louise, If you're dressed half naked and pushing your body close to him, he would rightly think ...
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| Did i make a mistake ? | 10/15/2007 |
Q: Im a 28 and maybe shocking for you to hear that i'm a virgin but that has happened according to the ...
A: Lida, I don't think you made a mistake. You were honest as you could be about your feelings and ...
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| stood up | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I met a very nice gentleman I was interested in and he asked for my number and gave me his. He was ...
A: Elaina, Maybe you've heard from him by now? With a good explanation, I hope. Don't stereotype ...
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| THE MAN I LOVE | 7/14/2007 |
Q: THE MAN THAT I LOVE IS ALSO MY BEST FRIEND WE'VE BEEN FRIENDS SINCE 8TH GRADE THE MOMENT THAT I MET ...
A: Angela, Best friends talk to each other. Usually when someone is hurt they need time to heal and ...
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| How do I get him? | 5/26/2007 |
Q: I live a couple minutes away from a carry-out restuarant and I go there every once in while. Well ...
A: I suggest that you slip him a note or your business/calling card with your phone number and/or ...
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| ex | 5/6/2007 |
Q: I ran into my ex boyfriend yesterday. I still have a lot of feelings for him despite him coldly ...
A: Ana, First, I think you should get over the idea of trying not to get hurt. Certainly you don't ...
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| what to do | 3/17/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a couple months. We were really happy together, laughed every moment we ...
A: No, you love him, dammit (sorry for cursing) - you need to be able to see him and express your ...
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| getting back together? | 3/10/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I work together but not in the same department. He told me about a month ago that ...
A: It's hard to tell on the world wide web, but the "Subway" remark makes it sound like we're from the ...
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| I need advice | 3/7/2007 |
Q: My name is Nathalie and I'm 14 year old. I have this crush on a guy who is older than me-probably 15 ...
A: It is hard to start a conversation with someone who is always surrounded by friends. I met my ...
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| getting a man;s attention | 1/26/2007 |
Q: sweet and loving , but the only thins is that i recently found out that he is famous.. but he ...
A: Allison, It doesn't matter if he was famous. He probably wants to be liked for who he is and not ...
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| get me noticed! | 1/25/2007 |
Q: I work in construction. Occassionally I go to site. There is a guy there I would like to get to ...
A: Petrina, You don't know where he goes after work and you don't want to approach him during work? I ...
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| cant help fallin in love | 1/14/2007 |
Q: hey miss jean m a 20yr old woman who really likes this guy in my college.we have common frens and ...
A: Prerna, Yes I think you've done the right thing. If he likes you enough to try to forget the friend ...
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| I can't tell if he's married or not | 11/17/2006 |
Q: I really like this guy and I want to ask him out, but I don't know if he's married or not. He's ...
A: Christine, A wedding ring is worn on the left hand. A ring on the right hand could mean anything or ...
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| his in into me or not | 11/10/2006 |
Q: In spring I ran into an old boyfriend from high school. We went out for lunch that week. I had a ...
A: Desiree, He obviously likes you a lot. Men don't usually talk with women that much unless there's ...
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| Why he does not say hi to me anymore | 10/14/2006 |
Q: Actually, I have a crush on him. Since I have not seen him, I wrote a letter to him. The letter ...
A: Janelle, I guess by now he read the letter. I don't know what you said in it. If you were very ...
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| I'm READY! | 10/10/2006 |
Q: My name is Gretchen. I am a 21 year old college student. I have spent those entire 21 years ...
A: To figure out where you can find your ideal mate, first you need to figure out what qualities you're ...
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| Getting noticed | 10/5/2006 |
Q: I started working with a new group of people these past few months. One guy in particular has ...
A: Mona, It can be hard to tell if a guy is interested in the way you want him to be. These days ...
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| Why he does not say hi to me anymore | 10/3/2006 |
Q: I do not know what it is. One day I got on the bus to go workout. You see there was this guy on the ...
A: Janelle, Sorry your message got lost; I'm just seeing it now. He was friendly the first day and ...
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| Im in love with my manager, and he doesnt know. | 10/2/2006 |
Q: I started woking at this company for a few months now. and i got out of a bad relationship with my ...
A: Katherine, He can't date you. Dating workers is against harrassment policy and can cause serious ...
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| I need to be 100% sure?? | 8/15/2006 |
Q: I broke up with my ex about 8 months ago. We were together for 7 years, but he treated me really ...
A: LingC, I hope you're not my son's girlfriend using a fake name. :-D The situation sounds like his. ...
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| taking frienship to romance | 7/20/2006 |
Q: I have been in a three year relationship that is coming to a slow and painful end. It is me that is ...
A: Az, How do you know your present relationship is really over? Your old high school friend knows ...
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| relationship trouble | 7/17/2006 |
Q: I was dating a guy for about seven months before we broke up. For the past five months, we've been ...
A: I do know how hard this can be. It happened to me, too; here's the story: My husband didn't want to ...
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| i think i found the man of my dreams | 7/16/2006 |
Q: Hey, I've been talking to this guy or watever for awhile just as friends though. we talk everynight ...
A: Sarah, When you can have a friendly conversation, which it sounds like you're able to do quite ...
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| a guy | 5/26/2006 |
Q: anyways the other day he came in and he cut in front of everyone...there are three registers but ...
A: There are several possible ways to "make a move".: * If you have time the next time he comes in, ...
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| How to get him to notice me .. | 4/26/2006 |
Q: I work at large company and I have been making eye contact with this really handsome guy that works ...
A: You need to either ask around to find out about him or find out about him on your own. You need to ...
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| Need some advice!! | 1/15/2006 |
Q: hes been through alot and so have I , we totally get along great and things have been great on xmas ...
A: Alina, I think trust is important in a long-term relationship. Not blind, foolish trust, but ...
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| will I forget him? | 11/4/2005 |
Q: I have a bf but we are far from each other the only way that we communicate is through chatting in ...
A: No one knows the future. He's being realistic. It doesn't mean that he doesn't like, or even love, ...
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| Making the Move | 11/2/2005 |
Q: I have this guy in my English class who I really like . We have assigned seating so he sits besides ...
A: He definately likes you. If he didn't, he wouldn't have to talk to you; he could easily avoid you if ...
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| Is love possible in the internet? | 11/1/2005 |
Q: have met a very nice man in the internet and before, I dont want to be in love in the net because I ...
A: Cheron, " I know that there are no real people in the internet" Well, that's not true. You're on ...
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| one night stand 2yr relationship | 9/25/2005 |
Q: ) I was in an abusive relationship for 2years and after all was said and done i met the person of ...
A: It's unfortunate that people get hurt and rejected, but it's part of life. If that happens, think of ...
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| smiling at girls/women or girls in hallways | 7/15/2005 |
Q: "You should also share a bit with her about yourself so it doesn't seem like you're drilling her for ...
A: Brian, Flirting and cologne preferences vary a lot between individuals. My husband is an ...
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| smiling at girls/women or girls in hallways | 7/14/2005 |
Q: hey, how about how would you ask a girl out? For example, i broke up with my girlfriend 5 years ago. ...
A: Brian, I think your plan about asking her to coffee would be good. What "move" you make "depends" - ...
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| smiling at girls/women or girls in hallways | 7/13/2005 |
Q: ohhh so i guess its your eye contact that counts. Would u smile before you make eye contact or eye ...
A: Brian, Hopefully you're smiling before the eye contact, but if not, smile quickly. Don't worry ...
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| smiling at girls/women or girls in hallways | 7/9/2005 |
Q: I have this problem of not knowing how to smile in front of girls/female strangers on streets or ...
A: I just got a message from AllExperts that your message was here - it apparently got lost somehow. ...
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| Relationships-Romance | 12/4/2004 |
Q: SyL, what in heck is wrong with me? For years when I have been attracted to a woman, I maintain my ...
A: Mike, I can't give you a diagnosis as I'm not a doctor. I'm not even a psychologist. There's been a ...
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| Getting a relationship started | 11/16/2004 |
Q: my name is Lara. I am friends with this guy in my class and like i asked him out the other day and ...
A: I don't know how friendly you are with him. Long-lasting relationships often start with being ...
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| Get noticed | 11/15/2004 |
Q: I wanna get noticed by my crush. How do I send him messages that I'm interested, but not be too ...
A: You didn't tell me anything about yourself or your crush, so it's hard for me to give you specific ...
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| how do i know? | 8/10/2004 |
Q: i just wanted to ask,how would i know if he was the perfect guy? i think i just let mr.right slip ...
A: Tiffanee, That's definately two different questions. I'll start with the second one first. I ...
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| is my mind playing tricks on me? | 7/28/2004 |
Q: I'm sorry but I think this is gonna be long--today's the first time I've never tried asking ...
A: Dreamer, Realistically, you have 3 choices: do something totally different and not hang around ...
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| Hello. Well i have been dating... | 7/27/2004 |
Q: Well i have been dating what i thought was the man on my dreams for a little over 2 years.We have a ...
A: Liz, What a conundrum! I do believe that religion is important. You don't need the exact same ...
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| Please let meknow what to do | 7/26/2004 |
Q: Your advice is amazing. But I really lack self-esteem right now, I feel that if he read what I sent ...
A: Maria, You said: it was too embarassing for me to write "I heard your name then looked it up on the ...
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| Please let meknow what to do | 7/25/2004 |
Q: I sent him an e-mail three days ago, but he still hasn't replied :( I feel confused now, not to ...
A: Maria, "Good day" would look like spam to me and spammer often start by introducing themselves, ...
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| Please let meknow what to do | 7/21/2004 |
Q: I'm a first year uni student in the UK, but I'm from France. This year I've been attracted to only ...
A: Maria, How could writing him hurt? If you don't write him, you may never see him again, right? You ...
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| How do i find the right man? | 7/12/2004 |
Q: I have been married 3 times, have been divorced and alone for nearly 3 years and would like to start ...
A: If I were you, I'd start by looking back at the last 3 marriages and figure out what went wrong. ...
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| i like him | 11/18/2003 |
Q: i am 32 yr old female-people say i am beautiful-recently divorced. discovered a man in my area who ...
A: Kristie, I think there is a chance. I don't think you should feel ashamed about calling him and I ...
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| How to catch him | 10/22/2003 |
Q: I have been interested in this guy that I met a few weeks ago through my brother playing cards at a ...
A: Priscilla, There are a lot of aspects to look for if you're trying to determine not only if he ...
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| Why did he like me before and not now? | 7/31/2002 |
Q: I had started talking to this guy and after getting to know each other a little bit we went out on a ...
A: Kris, Love can be so complicated. You sound suspicious of his reason for breaking off with you and ...
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| Shy Man | 7/17/2002 |
Q: How do I seduce a man? I'm absolutely in love with the man but he is very shy. I have seen him be ...
A: Celeste, I don't know anything about your relationship with him. Since he's shy, I guess you ...
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| Can this work | 4/12/2002 |
Q: I am a 23 year old female who has recently met a 32 year old man who I find to be drop dead sexy, ...
A: Amina, 10 years should not be a problem and the dating situation should not be that much different ...
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| Standing at a Cross Road | 4/7/2002 |
Q: I have a major problem right now, and I don't know how to cope with it. I met a guy about a year ...
A: MZ, Would it really be so hard to wait until the end of summer to see what happens? Don't wait ...
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| ? | 3/28/2002 |
Q: How can I attract my crush? Thanks for your time!
A: Assuming that you already have someone in mind that would be well-suited for you, here's what I ...
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| I need a nice man | 9/21/2001 |
Q: I have been divorced for 4 years. My boyfriend was killed 2 years ago. And my last relationship he ...
A: Church is the best place to find someone with the same values as yours. Gently give hints to your ...
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| What to do next | 9/19/2001 |
Q: I'm 52. Married unhappily for 34 years, to an alcholic. Time has come to move on, and I've know this ...
A: Sandy, You are in a co-dependent relationship. "Co" means cooperative - it takes two. Your ...
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| Attracting a man | 8/22/2001 |
Q: when do you know whether to pursue or let go of a man? I had my eye on this guy about three months, ...
A: I'd say to go with your gut feelings. If you don't think you should give up, then keep pursuing him ...
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