| Subject | Date Asked |
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| competition from other women for handsome, successful men? | 11/20/2009 |
Q: Every single guy I like is being stolen away by other women. The moment I like a guy, other women ...
A: You can meet him literally anywhere. You have to make it a high priority though. Why would you ...
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| How do I get the guy I love? | 11/20/2009 |
Q: I have been in love with this guy for months. He is also my bestfriend, so that makes it really hard ...
A: There is no way you can make a guy want to date you. They either do, or they don't. If the glances ...
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| dating | 10/27/2009 |
Q: I'm 29 years old. I have moved back in with my parents for the next 6 months. I've finished my 2nd ...
A: Most people these days are using the online sites, specifically because of the problems you ...
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| Dating a commitment phobe | 10/25/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. He is loving, caring, gentle and sensitive. I was ...
A: You would really benefit from some relationship coaching. This all got off on the wrong foot. I ...
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| Dating a commitment phobe | 10/24/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. He is loving, caring, gentle and sensitive. I was ...
A: Oh my. Well, you could insist that he get counseling/therapy if he wants to continue to see you. ...
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| fell in love too soon, now he wont talk to me | 10/21/2009 |
Q: My problem is that I met this guy whilst on holiday. he was a friends' friend's friend. I did not ...
A: I am sorry to say that once this sort of thing gets going, it is practically impossible to redeem. ...
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| how can i get this guy | 10/18/2009 |
Q: okay so to answer my question i guess you will need to know the background on me: i play field ...
A: Well, why don't you talk to him? Just a light starting conversation, and you have plenty to talk ...
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| How to start and keep a dating life | 10/17/2009 |
Q: I am a 23 year old woman and I have never really had a real boyfriend. Anytime I have ever liked a ...
A: You would be an ideal candidate for coaching. Email meat sdunn@susandunn.cc. To begin with, nobody ...
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| What Should I Do? | 10/17/2009 |
Q: Hey Susan! There is this very good-looking guy that I see occasionally while I'm at school. I don't ...
A: Well, this is a good time for you to work on your social skills to learn how to get around being ...
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| Want my ex back | 10/13/2009 |
Q: Please advice me. My ex broke up with me after having a relationship of a year because he thought I ...
A: I'm sorry you're in this ambivalent position. I guess to "win him back" you could go there and ...
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| Where do I start? | 9/26/2009 |
Q: Okay. We're both twenty and in college. I don't know him very well, but we always say hi and make ...
A: First of all, try and relax. I know it's hard ... You have a great opportunity there where you can ...
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| dating | 9/24/2009 |
Q: Ok, so I'm really into this guy, but i don't know how he feels. I don't know if he likes me, or if ...
A: Whatever it is, he needs to work it out. A man that is ambivalent like that is not a good one for ...
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| How to get his attention | 9/16/2009 |
Q: I've known this guy for a little over a year, and I've been attracted to him for at least 7 months ...
A: So beautifully put, and the thing we all struggle with -- "without making a complete fool of myself ...
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| bf | 9/13/2009 |
Q: I` met my bf on net. he is in usa doinging job nd i m in india.we met 4 times in reall in hotel room ...
A: I know how hard this is. First of all, it is inappropriate to be removing your clothes on cam. ...
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| cosplay | 9/11/2009 |
Q: I really like this guy...he is really handsome, sweet, kind, polite, smart, funny, and cute...he is ...
A: I'm not familiar with this ... I think you'd better go with your instincts (intuition) on this one. ...
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| 9 Year Crush Help.... | 8/30/2009 |
Q: i have known this guy for 9 years ever since i saw him i got that weak of knees feeling me and him ...
A: This is always a sad situation. The way it is, if a guy is interested in dating a woman, he will ...
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| How should I act in this -after 8 months- 2nd date? | 8/25/2009 |
Q: A few months ago ((3/30/2009, under the title "Is he interested? What should I do?")) I wrote you ...
A: Letting him in your house (NOT!) is the first thing. But, yes, to many men eating a meal cooked by ...
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| How should I act in this -after 8 months- 2nd date? | 8/25/2009 |
Q: A few months ago ((3/30/2009, under the title "Is he interested? What should I do?")) I wrote you ...
A: No man should be allowed into your home until way into the relationship and you know his intentions. ...
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| dating in the workplace | 8/11/2009 |
Q: So I just started a new job as a host at an upscale restaurant, I am not planning on staying in this ...
A: That's cute that you caught him doing that. LOL. Now, we gals don't EVER pursue. That's up to the ...
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| Age and Exploration | 8/11/2009 |
Q: I am in a horrible dilemma of being stuck in a lagging phase that has much to do with age. I am 20 ...
A: It is not really a good thing to be an experienced dater. This is particularly true in the case of ...
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| advice | 8/6/2009 |
Q: People keep asking me for relationship advice. I don't know why. Anyway, so now one of my friends ...
A: Oh goodness. This is a sad situation all the way around. You ask me What can I tell her now? ...
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| starting over | 7/22/2009 |
Q: I asked a question a few months ago under a different name, and I wanted to get more help. The guy I ...
A: Back off. As in - slow it down --- it's up to the woman to pace it. Don't answer right away. ...
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| starting over | 7/22/2009 |
Q: I asked a question a few months ago under a different name, and I wanted to get more help. The guy I ...
A: If the chemistry is there, I don't know what you can to do convert it. To wait and see, when you ...
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| Boy trouble | 7/21/2009 |
Q: I'm a freshman and I like this guy there, but I don't know if he likes me, so I want to attract ...
A: Attract is just being nice and friendly, but not pushy, like Skyler. I think he will get tired of ...
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| How to keep the guy | 7/20/2009 |
Q: I've got a confusing situation and i hope u could help me. I met this guy and we were really ...
A: The best thing to do is continue to be good company, but "hard to get, easy to be with." In other ...
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| Confused Guy | 7/16/2009 |
Q: ..I am 25 and my Guy is 24....I had wriiten to you earlier as well...I just wanted to keep you ...
A: Tell him that you and he are after different things, and so you are departing. There is no other ...
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| relationships | 7/11/2009 |
Q: Why is it that I think I really need a guy? It's really most of what I think about. I was married ...
A: Well I think it's normal -- to want one, anyway. It's nature's way. We are not meant to live ...
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| Im a mess. Tough love please! | 7/9/2009 |
Q: I've had three relationships in my life, and so many dates that I can't even count. The first ...
A: I'm sorry to hear this. Sounds like you need a fresh start. Your past issues are one thing - but ...
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| being attacked? | 7/8/2009 |
Q: I need some advice. This keeps happening to me. 99% of the people I meet are totally nice to me. ...
A: Well, there isn't much you can do except put up a plexiglas shield and get through it. Laugh when ...
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| Confused Guy | 7/8/2009 |
Q: ..I am 25 and my Guy is 24....I had wriiten to you earlier as well...I just wanted to keep you ...
A: I think you are doing what is necessary. Why let him just come around every now and then for ...
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| Dating material | 7/2/2009 |
Q: I have a very good male friend whom I've known about a year and am currently roommates with. I know ...
A: I'm going to be blunt about this, since I don't want you to get into the habit of wasting your own ...
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| Shyness | 7/2/2009 |
Q: Hey! I'm 14 and I'm a rising sophomore in high school. As long as I've been in school, I have never ...
A: It is a treat to receive an email from a young person that is well-written, with appropriate grammar ...
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| interested in me | 6/29/2009 |
Q: I am a placement student in my 30s and I have a few weeks left. for this I work for the council and ...
A: I don't ever recommend pursuing a man. Whatever this guy has in mind (and it's never good when ...
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| Nervous to be single again | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I just went through my first breakup (I知 19). It sucks, but I know it痴 for the best. The thing ...
A: Oh, well, it is always a mystery and a miracle when it happens. It could be they way you open a ...
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| i dont know him yet, but i want to meet him | 6/11/2009 |
Q: hey, my name is natalie and i am sixteen years old in my first year of university. i chose to speak ...
A: I am sorry this has happened to you. You are very young - TOO young - to be finding your partner ...
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| ? | 6/10/2009 |
Q: I work in a group of 5 people. I was new to the job. These other people are all senior (despite ...
A: I believe your assessment is correct. You tell me you cannot leave. That eliminates one of your 3 ...
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| The commitment phobic quazi boyfriend | 6/9/2009 |
Q: I've dated this guy twice now, but both times he's backed out out of no where, with no real ...
A: Well I've never had trouble with this. Here's what I do: 1. Do not answer the phone when it's ...
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| I need him | 6/9/2009 |
Q: This is Gayatri from India. I have been dating a guy foo almost 8 months now and have known him for ...
A: Ok, that's an insignificant age difference I say this hoping and praying you are mature because ...
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| I lost my dream guy | 6/8/2009 |
Q: I met my dream guy two weeks ago tomorrow... It was love at first sight for both of us. We had ...
A: I am sorry to hear this on one hand, but on the other, I really do think you may have dodged a ...
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| how to spark him again | 6/6/2009 |
Q: I met a lovely, extremely good looking guy who took me out on two lovely dates and was speaking a ...
A: Sorry he's being this way. Yes, leave him alone and let him make any contact that is made. Beyond ...
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| dating co-worker | 6/4/2009 |
Q: There is a guy at work that I am attracted to. We have spoke on very few occasions. He is single, ...
A: Let the man doing the asking. But first of all - it is tricky to date at work. Any man with any ...
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| I need him | 6/3/2009 |
Q: This is Gayatri from India. I have been dating a guy foo almost 8 months now and have known him for ...
A: This is complicated that's for sure. I wonder are you living at home, and why the two of you have ...
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| SHY GUY LOVE- | 5/29/2009 |
Q: I have a BIG thing going on. I felt in love with this shy guy, he acts different towards me than ...
A: Well, you might look at this -- you like the one who ignores you, and don't like the one who pays ...
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| I dont want to act too desperate! | 5/21/2009 |
Q: Ive recently been talking to a guy (we havent met yet) my friend set us up. Its been a month, he ...
A: It is confusing. It is also counter-intuitive. And - for a woman to make it in the work world ...
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| how to date them | 5/20/2009 |
Q: helo, my name is grace, i,m 19 years old, its my second year in college. i,m very classy, not ...
A: Good for you! Remember that classy guys don't exactly "hit on" you. They are more sophisticated ...
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| Help? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: We're both in college. We've been good friends for about a year. This past year, he dated a girl for ...
A: Well, now that's good news. But if you want to be the girl-friend, make sure you avoid the role of ...
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| Help? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: We're both in college. We've been good friends for about a year. This past year, he dated a girl for ...
A: I'm sorry he hasn't returned your favors. That's always so hard. Well, you have a chance here for ...
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| soulmate | 5/18/2009 |
Q: ..I've been married 10 years, and then 20 years to the same type of men...who put their career above ...
A: My heart goes out to you. Just keep in mind how I would be able to 'guess' so much of this. It's ...
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| soulmate | 5/17/2009 |
Q: ..I've been married 10 years, and then 20 years to the same type of men...who put their career above ...
A: Well, this is difficult to address. Usually opposites attract. It sounds like because these men put ...
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| generation gap | 4/19/2009 |
Q: Belove, I'm a 28 year old woman and I've moved in with my parents for just this one month while I ...
A: You would like me to "side with" you v. your mother-- and your father, too, I'm sure. Why go into ...
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| generation gap | 4/19/2009 |
Q: Belove, I'm a 28 year old woman and I've moved in with my parents for just this one month while I ...
A: What do I think? I think it's time you got a place of your own and kept it. The rest is all ...
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| first impression and serious dating | 4/11/2009 |
Q: A few questions. You know how you get that instant gut feeling that someone is not a nice person? ...
A: I agree with you that intuition is a very important guide for us. It's important to know how your ...
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| arranged marriage | 4/11/2009 |
Q: Being a senior, I'm asking you for advice. I'm a 27 year old woman who has grown up in America and ...
A: It is ironic. It's also "if it isn't one thing, it's another." There are more "arranged marriages" ...
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| should I pursue? | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I am a 28 year old woman. I'm in graduate school pursuing a doctorate. I met an incredibly handsome ...
A: This is how you begin your question, and I want you to remember this while you are still thinking ...
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| Weird | 4/5/2009 |
Q: I also have this problem when it comes to talking to guys I feel ....... Intimidated no matter who ...
A: Because that's kind of the way it is. We all get a little nervous around the opposite sex, if we're ...
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| My Crush | 4/5/2009 |
Q: I don't know what to do. I have a crush on this guy at my school that is a total jerk to me but ...
A: I don't know how to help you with this. Since he's around you, and knows you, and he isn't asking ...
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| Crush | 4/1/2009 |
Q: There's this guy that goes to my school that I have this huge I mean huge crush on. The thing is ...
A: Oh my. I know it's rough when you have a crush on someone who doesn't return your interest. For ...
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| why don't guys approach me? | 3/31/2009 |
Q: why do this always happen.. i see a guy i'm completely attracted to and we're like eyes locked with ...
A: I don't know the full circumstances, but here are some tricks. 1. Disappear. Men fall in love in ...
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| How do i attract this guy that takes the same bus as me? | 3/30/2009 |
Q: !! So, i kinda have this huge crush on this guy who waits for the same bus as i am at the same bus ...
A: It's important to keep in mind that he has all the information and ways of finding out about people ...
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| Is he interested? What should I do? | 3/30/2009 |
Q: I read your site all the time, Iｴve always found it very interesting. I knew this 31 year old guy ...
A: Why they behave this way ... it's more important to see it when it happens, and to act accordingly. ...
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| why don't guys approach me? | 3/23/2009 |
Q: why do this always happen.. i see a guy i'm completely attracted to and we're like eyes locked with ...
A: There is one who will approach you - for all the ones who don't. If he doesn't, it's because he ...
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| i love him!! | 3/15/2009 |
Q: i love a guy since 8 months. he is a great guy but my mom was arguing about it before but we didn't ...
A: Have a talk with him to find out what his concerns are and why he isn't calling you. Tell him how ...
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| challenge | 3/7/2009 |
Q: I'm a 29 year old woman on the dating scene. Lately, a lot of men (mainly the ones out for ...
A: No it means exactly what they say. You are the marrying kind. They aren't interested in marriage. ...
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| Online dating- introduction | 2/28/2009 |
Q: I am interested in a man (Mike)who is a friend of a friend(Joe) on Facebook. The mutual friend ...
A: I'm sure you've noticed the big jump in Facebook lately. It's like it's reached critical mass, and ...
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| sex after marriage | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I understand why it's a good idea to stay a virgin until marriage. But what if after marriage, you ...
A: I find it hard to believe you could spend time with a man, with affection, kissing and hugging and ...
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| What now? | 2/24/2009 |
Q: I was dating a really confused man. Oddly enough, a really confused man with abandonment issues ...
A: You are not the first women I have heard this from. 10 years is a long time to invest in someone, ...
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| marrying kind | 2/21/2009 |
Q: Lately a lot of men have been rejecting me because they see me as too serious, too smart, and the ...
A: It sounds to me like you want to date for marriage and that you are apologizing for it. Don't ...
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| regret | 2/17/2009 |
Q: I lived in an apartment with 2 female roommates. One was a bully and was constantly harassing me, ...
A: She may. The thing about bullies is that they bully. They choose someone who will take it, and ...
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| I am confused with his behavior ! | 2/10/2009 |
Q: I am a long time reader to your web site and today I have my own question and would be really ...
A: Welll, I would question what you are getting out of this, which you call a messy situation. He may ...
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| players | 2/6/2009 |
Q: I'm a female. I liked this gorgeous guy who is a bit of a player. He liked me back too but he didn't ...
A: There is no telling. It could be that the sarcasm warned him not to mess with you. Or that you ...
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| long distance flirt? | 1/29/2009 |
Q: First some background..I met this guy through a mutual friend last summer. This mutual friend and I ...
A: Give it some time and see if he has changed feelings too. If he does, he will act on them. I ...
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| annoyed | 1/27/2009 |
Q: I'm a 27 year old woman and I don't have a boyfriend. I have not had too much experience with men ...
A: Here's a meta-description. When you are looking for marriage, you have to control the pace of the ...
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| Feel Need To Say How I Feel | 1/25/2009 |
Q: Years ago I was attracted to this guy. He was about 10 years older than me and I thought he was ...
A: No, don't write to him. You may be attracted to him, but take a look at what you have written to me. ...
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| attracting decent men | 1/21/2009 |
Q: i have a massive problem with meeting and attracting good looking guys or men i like. to be honest i ...
A: Well, it would be very good to explore what it is that's putting men off. It sounds to me like you ...
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| question | 1/21/2009 |
Q: There was this guy I was interested in and he likes me back, I know he likes me because he told all ...
A: Probably because of what his friends said, and I would listen to them. If he is still in the ...
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| Change of Heart | 1/20/2009 |
Q: Many years ago there was a man interested in me and I was attracted to him. Much more than I wanted ...
A: My goodness. That doesn't sound good, the way he's been behaving. It looks like you may have ...
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| help.. | 1/19/2009 |
Q: How do i start? Im 33yr old seperated mother of a beautiful 5yr old daughter, the last time i dated ...
A: This happens until you meet the right guy. Some men (and woman) are just after sex, romance or ...
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| Is he interested? | 1/18/2009 |
Q: So I met this guy who I think is very attractive at my friends party. I've seen him around at the ...
A: Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants or what he is doing. Whenever a woman is confused, she ...
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| Am I paranoid or is this the dating game? | 1/15/2009 |
Q: Am i being too paranoid or just impatient?I have now been on three dates with this girl - one lunch ...
A: You got it. It's fine if it's a social lie, or "little white lie." She needed the break ... sick, ...
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| Am I Sprouting Horns? | 1/14/2009 |
Q: I知 a college student, and I think horns must start growing out of my head whenever I venture out in ...
A: WILL TRY AND ANSWER THIS WITH THE INFORMATION GIVEN. I知 a college student, and I think horns must ...
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| Should I contact him? | 1/4/2009 |
Q: nice to meet you and it would be glad to get help from you. My name is Ann, I'm 18,f. There are 104 ...
A: No. Do not contact himm. You need to take a break and make a fresh start - like letting him ...
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| crush | 1/1/2009 |
Q: so there's this boy i really like and he's a year older and we're both in highschool. We're both new ...
A: I think EVERYONE is shy with loving. When it matters, we get nervous, because there is something at ...
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| catty bitches | 12/31/2008 |
Q: This isn't a dating question. But I need some advice. I work in an office with some catty ass ...
A: This is a nasty situation indeed. Somehow things got off on the wrong foot, and it's almost ...
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| Should I contact him? | 12/31/2008 |
Q: nice to meet you and it would be glad to get help from you. My name is Ann, I'm 18,f. There are 104 ...
A: I would wait and let him take the first step as to calls and things like that. It doesn't work for ...
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| crush | 12/29/2008 |
Q: so there's this boy i really like and he's a year older and we're both in highschool. We're both new ...
A: Maybe it would help you to work on your social skills and emotional intelligence. It's confusing to ...
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| post traumatic stress | 12/29/2008 |
Q: About a year ago, I had two roommates. One day, my former roommate screamed at me at the top of her ...
A: Anything that you let go on, that you let fester, will get worse. And worse than it is. In the ...
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| crush | 12/28/2008 |
Q: so there's this boy i really like and he's a year older and we're both in highschool. We're both new ...
A: The bottom line to all this is that if he were interested in you, he would ask you out. Or, since ...
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| What I should do to attract him? | 12/27/2008 |
Q: nice to meet you and it would be glad to get help from you. My name is Ann, I'm 18,f. There are 104 ...
A: One thing for sure - be who you are. It doesn't work to try and change to get a man, because sooner ...
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| post traumatic stress | 12/27/2008 |
Q: About a year ago, I had two roommates. One day, my former roommate screamed at me at the top of her ...
A: I'm sorry to hear about this. I'm glad you had the sense to get out of it. Depending upon the ...
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| Work Relationship | 12/13/2008 |
Q: I'm 36 year old single mom , who hasn't has a date in about 10 months . I met Jason who is 23 at ...
A: You know that song ... people always know. But what is it they "know"? Physical attraction or ...
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| Dating Progression | 12/12/2008 |
Q: I met a very nice man online several weeks ago. Since that time, we致e had some wonderful ...
A: Good for you for anticipating those advancing interactive forms of communication. Besides the fact ...
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| never had a boyfriend before | 12/10/2008 |
Q: everyone i know, even those that's way younger than me, had at least 1 or 2 relationships before. ...
A: I'm sorry you haven't been able to have a good relationship yet. I wonder if you have considered ...
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| i like a guy online | 12/5/2008 |
Q: hey.I like a guy who ive been talkin to for about 2-3 weeks now.How do i attract him ?? an recently ...
A: That's neat that you've met someone you'd like to get to know better. You can attract by continuing ...
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| does he still like me? | 11/29/2008 |
Q: I started liking this guy last year or the year before and we both live in the same court, one day i ...
A: I'm sorry this has happened to you. It's very confusing that he came on to you but then was mean to ...
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| Hopeless at love | 11/29/2008 |
Q: my name Karisma! I would say when it comes to love I'm completely hopeless but when it comes to ...
A: You have courage to go and find out ... and then get on with your life. For the next one, there ...
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| Hopeless at love | 11/28/2008 |
Q: my name Karisma! I would say when it comes to love I'm completely hopeless but when it comes to ...
A: He told you he is getting married. How do you know he doesn't want to, he's just being loyal? One ...
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| Attracting a healthy, spiritual guy | 11/26/2008 |
Q: I read the post about the woman who keeps attracting the totally dysfunctional men....it coulda been ...
A: The way you do this is to get it straight in your head what are the red flags -- in general (like a ...
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| Friends To Lovers | 11/25/2008 |
Q: I met this guy about 15 years ago. We started out dating but it grew into a great friendship. I ...
A: Believe me, this is hard to write. I wish this would work out for you, and that it had some good ...
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| Hopeless at love | 11/24/2008 |
Q: my name Karisma! I would say when it comes to love I'm completely hopeless but when it comes to ...
A: I don't see why you say you are "hopeless" at love. It's still very early in the game! Dating ...
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| Friends To Lovers | 11/24/2008 |
Q: I met this guy about 15 years ago. We started out dating but it grew into a great friendship. I ...
A: Hmmm. This is a tricky situation. I have to think there's a reason why it didn't work out in the ...
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| PLZ HELP!!! | 11/19/2008 |
Q: Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and it was great until now. We're ...
A: To answer the questions you ask ... but first, this guy sounds awfully controlling. Are you sure ...
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| A guy situation | 11/18/2008 |
Q: Last year I've met a guy in college who I did not particularly like at first but I've noticed he was ...
A: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPS, BECAUSE THAT'S MY ONLY ALTERNATIVE. First of all, thank you very much for ...
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| life time of hurt and rejection | 11/17/2008 |
Q: a guy hurted me 2 yaers ago and rejectd me and he didn,t want to been with me,when he was drunk he ...
A: I'm really sorry to hear about this, and I know you have written before. There is little I can do ...
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| confusing guy | 11/17/2008 |
Q: I have been talking to this guy for about 8months now...we've been hanging out and just having fun ...
A: I never like saying this, but I think you are confused because you are refusing to see what you see. ...
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| help! What went wrong? | 11/16/2008 |
Q: I started dating this guy about 8 months ago. In the begining everything went great. We get along ...
A: I'm so sorry this happened. It sounds like he wasn't really ready and also that it went too far too ...
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| A guy situation | 11/15/2008 |
Q: Last year I've met a guy in college who I did not particularly like at first but I've noticed he was ...
A: Most men won't mess with a married woman, for obvious reasons. You need to get clear on what you ...
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| how to show my interest | 11/14/2008 |
Q: I recently met a guy on the job that I am attracted to. He seems like a great guy to get to know. We ...
A: You have already shown him you are interested, by txt msging him, asking him to hang out, etc. It ...
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| I've met the one, now how can i make him be interested? | 10/31/2008 |
Q: I really like a guy... and my psychic sense tells me he is the one. but he is acting really cold ...
A: It's always frustrating when this happens. I think the guys are giving you good advice, because ...
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| hello | 10/28/2008 |
Q: Okay I am 19 and haven't dated anyone for a really long time. im in college and am busy and i also ...
A: Dating is kind of like that until you find the right one! You can't force feelings. You can't make ...
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| this one guy | 10/6/2008 |
Q: okay there's a guy a really like who kinda knows i like him (this itch told him) and still he acts ...
A: Attraction is a subtle thing - being friendly when around him, flirting lightly (look up flirting on ...
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| Early Stages in dating | 9/24/2008 |
Q: . How are you? It is hard to organize my thoughts because I have so many but please bare with me. I ...
A: I'm fine. Thanks for asking. Sadly I am the complicated, emotional type, therefore have a rough ...
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| Ugh what to do? | 9/14/2008 |
Q: I am in a long distance relationship with my babys father. And right now he is messing up and ...
A: Think about what you are saying here. He is indeed messing up his life - HAS messed it up. You ...
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| Exhusband | 9/11/2008 |
Q: My ex-husband and I were married in 2002. Last year in July his mother died unexpectantly - they ...
A: I'm sorry this has all happened. Marriages can take a toll when many crises happen at once. My ...
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| rejection yet again | 9/4/2008 |
Q: the guy i was telling you did go out exterme amount of girls he country lad living in the city .when ...
A: I know it is hurtful. It's best to move on and not try and figure these things out. Sometimes ...
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| 3 Eager Fiance's = 1 Big Problem | 8/27/2008 |
Q: Let me start off by saying that it wasn't my intention for this quandry to happen. I've gone from a ...
A: Well that's quite a dilemma, a host of riches. Except it seems to me that if any of them had ...
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| How can I find my dream man? | 8/26/2008 |
Q: I just recently broke up with my daughter's father because he put his hands on me. And before I got ...
A: I'm not sure what kind of time frame you're talking about when you say "recently." Time is the big ...
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| How do i find him | 8/25/2008 |
Q: I'm a 29 year old female and etxtremely lonely. Being single is starting to depress me. I do get hit ...
A: This isn't an easy or quick thing to do. No one's going to appeal to you, I don't think, until you ...
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| I messed up in the first stages of dating - can I win him back? | 8/16/2008 |
Q: The short version : I met a wonderful man who was head over heels in love me and I liked him too, ...
A: First of all I'm sorry this happened, but you may have dodged a bullet. I can't believe you behaved ...
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| Should I keep goin with the flow? | 8/12/2008 |
Q: Ok so here is my situation. I have liked this man for about two years now on and off for both of us. ...
A: It sounds to me like he is not emotionally capable/available. It's not a good idea to get hooked on ...
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| dating | 7/25/2008 |
Q: How to get a date with a guy? I am a little bit shy ... so it is hard for me to ask a guy out. The ...
A: First of all, if you read my column here, you know that I don't recommend asking guys out. I ...
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| what do i do next | 7/21/2008 |
Q: i have been using a dating website now for sometime and i have met some lovely guys, and i have met ...
A: We can't really know his reasons for this ... and I love that phrase "pear-shaped". What's for sure ...
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| Does the "one" mean looks good one paper.. no spark | 7/16/2008 |
Q: .. I am 40 and am single.... But believe or not.. I am actually fine being single... I have a great ...
A: I will answer in CAPS, because that's the only way I can on this site! Hi... I am 40 and am ...
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| boys | 7/9/2008 |
Q: How do I get a boyfriend? I am 17 years old and I have NEVER had a bf. Why is this? I asked this one ...
A: Doesn't really work to ask guys out ... the 'embarassment' can remind you that it doesn't work well, ...
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| impression? | 7/7/2008 |
Q: There was one guy I liked a lot, and I made it very clear that I was interested in him. We were ...
A: A couple of things here ... Many young men DO realize they aren't 'ready' for marriage yet, and so ...
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| how to attract a man i don't often meet | 7/6/2008 |
Q: i have a crush on my father's doctor. i have no chance to oftenly meet him. i only call him when i ...
A: If he is interested, he will do something. That's the way men are. He's in a tricky situation, ...
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| men being stolen from me | 7/4/2008 |
Q: It seems that other women are all getting the guys I'm interested in. If there is a guy I like who ...
A: Several things to consider here. First of all, we all sometimes lose a guy to someone else, or ...
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| drive | 7/3/2008 |
Q: i have completely lost in men and i have no sex drive what so ever,i just don,t have any interst any ...
A: I am sorry to hear this, and I encourage you not to be so discouraged. Sometimes it takes time. ...
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| how to attract a man i don't often meet | 7/3/2008 |
Q: i have a crush on my father's doctor. i have no chance to oftenly meet him. i only call him when i ...
A: How not to misinterpret? Well, when we women are interested, we read something into everything. ...
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| follow up | 7/1/2008 |
Q: Why is sex such a powerful bond between a married couple? Why is it so important to keep up this ...
A: I don't know how Angelina Jolie stole Brad Pitt from Jennifer Aniston, or even that she did. I ...
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| Sex and Marriage | 7/1/2008 |
Q: Why is sex such a powerful bond between a married couple? Why is it so important to keep up this ...
A: Yes, there is a male dating coach (or two) that use that phrase "investing." But what are you ...
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| shy crush | 7/1/2008 |
Q: There's this guy at work (I'm 18, he's 21) that I like very much. The only problem is that he's ...
A: Yes, keep going about your business - great way to put it. Women make a mistake in flirting overtly ...
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| shy crush | 6/30/2008 |
Q: There's this guy at work (I'm 18, he's 21) that I like very much. The only problem is that he's ...
A: Dating at work is tricky . It's right in front of everyone, can jeopardize your job, men are ...
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| Sex and Marriage | 6/29/2008 |
Q: Why is sex such a powerful bond between a married couple? Why is it so important to keep up this ...
A: If you're dating for marriage, put off sex for as long as you possibly can. And there's nothing ...
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| Sex and Marriage | 6/28/2008 |
Q: Why is sex such a powerful bond between a married couple? Why is it so important to keep up this ...
A: To briefly treat a deep subject ... Well, because it sets off THE bonding chemical. It's designed ...
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| online dating | 6/28/2008 |
Q: ANSWER: I think he knows you like him. He would probably ask you out of something if he wanted you ...
A: Well, I'm always saying to let the guy take the lead and do all the work. There's no way to drop a ...
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| crushes | 6/27/2008 |
Q: -) can you help me??? love zoe
A: He's probably shy too! Crushes are hard when you have to wait and see, but that's what you have to ...
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| dating | 6/26/2008 |
Q: 1. Why is it that really beautiful women with nice personalities and successful careers ... seem to ...
A: I don't think this is a serious question, is it? Why do you think they would act that way? You ...
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| finding the right one | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I am having a hard time trying to find a man that wants a relationship. I am 25 years old and every ...
A: Something is wrong with a pattern here. Not sure what. Or else you need to "go" other places in ...
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| online dating | 6/25/2008 |
Q: hi theres a boy i speak to on msn and he goes to my old high school hes 17 and I'm 14 i really like ...
A: I think he knows you like him. He would probably ask you out of something if he wanted you for a ...
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| sleazy guys and low class & shallow guys | 6/21/2008 |
Q: some i end up like guys who obviously don,t like me at all. i am overweight i try lossiing weight ...
A: You've written me about this before and I know how hard it's been for you. I've suggested that you ...
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| I want to be accepted as I am | 6/16/2008 |
Q: there. I recently broke up with a man that I was in a relationship with for three years. I thought ...
A: It is possible to change one's core beliefs ... believe it or not. Sometimes life insists upon ...
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| I want to be accepted as I am | 6/16/2008 |
Q: there. I recently broke up with a man that I was in a relationship with for three years. I thought ...
A: Well, I'm sorry that guy turned the way he did. You're lucky you found out early on. I also ...
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| dating | 6/9/2008 |
Q: I have a question that I hope you can help me with. I am 40 years old and going to be 41 soon. I ...
A: Well, you are going to have to change your strategy, because, as you can see, it does not work. ...
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| more than firends | 6/8/2008 |
Q: i used to be realy good friends with this guy joel. him and i started being friends back in january ...
A: You can be firm without being ugly. For one thing, just don't answer his calls, I mean don't pick up ...
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| roommates | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I'm 27 years old and I have 2 roommates, one is 22 and the other 24. Back in February they both ...
A: Well, you must admit it wasn't cool that you didn't hold up your part of the agreement and clean ...
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| dating | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I've noticed lately that the current dating scene for men and women is very sad and bleak. Take a ...
A: THAT'S WHY I'M A DATING COACH AND HELP SO MANY PEOPLE. As to the video ... um, one of the problems ...
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| I Need Help! | 6/1/2008 |
Q: There's this guy I've liked for a year now, he's my neighbour, but I just don't have the courage to ...
A: I can tell how much you like this guy and how frustrating it is. There are several things you say ...
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| Dating in 2008 | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I have noticed lately that when I meet a man, I have to do all the work. Such as asking him for his ...
A: I do a lot of dating coaching with men in theirs 40s, 50s, 60s and on. Lots of women too, of ...
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| attraction | 5/27/2008 |
Q: i ask a woman on the attarction of men she said men are attacted to bithces who are good looking ...
A: Please sign up for my dating coaching so you can get professional instruction on this. ...
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| dating | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the world? This ...
A: As the lawyers would say ... "I was not aware that ..." So you are already dating? I mean real ...
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| sex and dating | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Sex is a primary, basic human instinct. Both men and women were designed with sexual desire at the ...
A: Because men still set the rules? I don't know, and I don't know that it is "prohibited." My ...
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| dating | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the world? This ...
A: He "seems." Don't let lost in fantasies until you experience the Real Deal. That is why we have ...
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| dating | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the world? This ...
A: Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the world? This ...
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| advice | 5/23/2008 |
Q: i think romance and love isn,t for me.because i have been rejcted 11 yaers in a row .guys aren,t ...
A: I'm sorry this has happened to you, as I've said before. It's a good time to concentrate on other ...
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| how to let him know I'm interested | 5/14/2008 |
Q: I'm in year 12 at school and there's a guy in my class whom I really like, but I don't know how to ...
A: Well at least catch eye, smile and look down (like a flirt), or if you're near him say "hi" and ask ...
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| confused | 5/9/2008 |
Q: I have met a really great guy. Its almost of the dreams kind of feeling in all aspects but one, he ...
A: This is a tough one. He COULD be just affectionate and expressive - no doubt one of the reasons why ...
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| rejcet | 5/8/2008 |
Q: i am 27 yaers old and i never had a boyfreind inmy life .i can,t make like me ,so i thnk i should ...
A: It has been said that if you want something too much you won't have it. you put a desperate drive ...
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| I already know who the man of my dreams IS! | 5/6/2008 |
Q: ugh....where do I start? His name is Jason. I used to talk to him when I was a sophomore in High ...
A: Don't worry about making it perfect, just be yourself. I don't know what the regulations are, but ...
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| Mixed Signals | 5/2/2008 |
Q: I started a new job and the person training me is a gentlemen and quite charming. I am married, so ...
A: Good for you. Whatever he's doing, you have to keep in mind your values and what you want. Many ...
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| worreid -follow up | 4/30/2008 |
Q: Well, kissing is sort of a basic instinct, and not much of a problem! You need to be dating. I ...
A: Louise, Love comes when you least expect it. If you keep concentrating on all this NEGATIVE that's ...
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| worried | 4/28/2008 |
Q: i am 27 yaers and i never had a boyfreind and i am worried i never will.i meet a lot who boot about ...
A: Well, kissing is sort of a basic instinct, and not much of a problem! You need to be dating. I ...
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| disinterested or shy? | 4/28/2008 |
Q: There is an exceedingly handsome gentleman that I am interested in. He has a very nice personality ...
A: Well, just wait it out. Be pleasant and receptive when he is around, but DO NOT PURSUE. There is ...
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| grin | 4/27/2008 |
Q: I like this guy at school. He was talking to his guy buddies about a porn movie he had seen. I ...
A: Look at the reaction you got. Is this what you want? It has to do with your 'reputation' at large. ...
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| Reading confusing men | 4/26/2008 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old female who cannot for the life of me read a guy I'm interested in. I met him ...
A: Do NOT get stuck on 'proving that you're worth a shot.' This man is confused .. anyone who says ...
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| Confused! | 4/26/2008 |
Q: I am a 41-year-old woman who has had very few relationships. I am attractive, intelligent, flirty, ...
A: I really recommend dating coaching for you to get this straightened out. It is not a good habit to ...
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| How. | 4/23/2008 |
Q: How do i know when i have found "The right one"?
A: It's a feeling of being sure, intuition. Some people describe it as feeling like you've come home - ...
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| Hot Men Ugly Women | 4/22/2008 |
Q: I've noticed something. I've seen that very very sexy men, such as those guys that are typically ...
A: There are some men who do this. Why is a long question, but you can see it isn't a very successful ...
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| am i different from other girls? | 4/7/2008 |
Q: I really like this guy and I know our time together is short (we leave for different colleges in ...
A: Yes, it's a way of demanding respect. You will get treated about the way you expect to be treated. ...
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| am i different from other girls? | 4/1/2008 |
Q: I really like this guy and I know our time together is short (we leave for different colleges in ...
A: I'd give you a big "uh oh" on this one. You say he has never had a girl friend ... and the txt msg ...
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| Relationships | 3/31/2008 |
Q: Ok here it goes have read several of the questions placed on your message board and need help! ...
A: It is simply not smart to get involved with a married man. Or when he's your boss, for that matter. ...
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| I need ergent help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 3/25/2008 |
Q: i wonder if u can answer my question. Well, my story is dat there's this blond girl (popular) who ...
A: Your way of writing is very difficult to read. Since you have the chance to be around him, if he ...
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| ugly duckling syndrome | 3/17/2008 |
Q: what is ugly duckling syndrome because i have i think. i know how the ugly duckling felt in the ...
A: Of course there is. Everyone is beautiful in some way. COncentrate on your good points. And also, ...
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| How do I attract a slightly older man? | 3/17/2008 |
Q: this is a pretty amazing service you're providing here! I'm 20 years old and attend dance classes ...
A: It is always best to let the man pursue. They know how to do that, and enjoy it. You don't want to ...
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| Only been on one date. | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I am 28 years old, and I have a hard time making/keeping eye contact, having conversations, and ...
A: The longer you wait, the harder it's going to get. Read up on all the free stuff on the internet ...
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| How do I attract a slightly older man? | 3/11/2008 |
Q: this is a pretty amazing service you're providing here! I'm 20 years old and attend dance classes ...
A: That's a good question. Well put. "Attraction' is like a magnet thing. There is NO WAY you can ...
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| trouble | 3/10/2008 |
Q: i always like the wrong guy.i want avoid the wrong .this is what i mean, 1)ladies man 2)players ...
A: There are nice guys out there. Focus on the positive and keep open to possibilities. If you prefer ...
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| ex girlfriend | 3/7/2008 |
Q: Dunn, This question is broader than the category, but you seemed like the most qualified expert, ...
A: So much for assumptions.1. when she said the bath thing, if i remember correctly, i said 'why do we ...
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| ex girlfriend | 3/6/2008 |
Q: Dunn, This question is broader than the category, but you seemed like the most qualified expert, ...
A: Just some gut notes here as we go along. I will write in caps as that's the only way I can ...
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| attract? | 3/5/2008 |
Q: i like a guy in my class room and am quite sure he dosent like me infact kind of dislikes or hates ...
A: It's a sad fact that not everyone is going to like us. If he doesn't like you, there's nothing you ...
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| mens behavior | 3/3/2008 |
Q: I went out to a bar the other night. I was dressed conservatively (jeans, sweater). I wasn't ...
A: Re: Is there a way that I should act so that men like this don't approach me, but regular NORMAL ...
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| clueless | 3/1/2008 |
Q: I am a 20 year old college student and single, of course. :)My problem is that I am completely ...
A: Well, now's a good time to start learning. It's the same way you show an interest in anyone else - ...
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| We argued and now he's cold towards me | 2/29/2008 |
Q: Susan,i really need your help. I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two months.The first ...
A: It sounds like he isn't ready for a relationship. Also there's a proverb - what begins wild, ends ...
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| re | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I like this guy at school, we get along great, have a lot in common, similar interests in music, ...
A: That's a nice-sounding guy, to want to get his education, finances and career settled first. You ...
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| Second chance | 2/13/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of 13 months had broken up with me because he fell out of love with me. We are each ...
A: The answer to that is that it will take time, and you will have to earn his trust back by changing ...
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| what should i do now? | 2/8/2008 |
Q: There is a guy that I have met on 3 occasions now. He is a friend of one of my friends. The first 2 ...
A: He could be interested, and probably best he didn't kiss you at that point, actually. You don't ...
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| Attracting someone I want | 2/7/2008 |
Q: Recently, while taking my car in for some work, I ran into a man I had known when we were growing ...
A: Well just start up a conversation with him and see how it goes. You could even mention getting ...
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| Why? | 2/6/2008 |
Q: I'm a smart, not bad looking gal with a great career. My problem is that I have no problem ...
A: I'm sorry this has happened to you -- Almost every guy I have dated or hung out with has only done ...
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| Getting back with my boyfriend? | 2/3/2008 |
Q: I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago. He became quiet and suddenly decided he didn't want ...
A: Wait and see if he comes back around. If he does, the relationship must be on your terms, as he was ...
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| A guy I like in school | 2/1/2008 |
Q: Okay, so I like this boy in my school. Like a lot of people I get mixed signals. One day he's ...
A: Wait and see what happens. For one thing, if people call you lovebirds, this sort of teaching will ...
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| How do I attract avaible men? | 1/22/2008 |
Q: I'm 35, have a full time (good)job, own my own home. I'm told I'm attractive and I'm really not shy. ...
A: I'm glad you've decided to get back into the dating scene. It is confusing to start in again and I ...
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| seduce | 1/19/2008 |
Q: I have recently started a new job. There is a guy who works there who I'm extremely attracted to. We ...
A: Well this is the good news and the bad news. The good news is that you have the perfect ...
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| I'm fallin in love with a guy at work who has a girlfriend | 1/16/2008 |
Q: Five months ago a new guy was employed at my workplace, and at the very first sight I liked him. At ...
A: Wanting to kiss you and wanting to have a relationship with you, and being emotionally available to ...
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| i don,t understand | 1/15/2008 |
Q: i find some just aren,t attracted to certain girls,i pick all the wrong guys my age and older o,d ...
A: That there are other things in life besides men. I'm sorry you've had bad experiences with men, ...
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| How can I start attracting "healthier" men? (in order to start dating again) | 1/12/2008 |
Q: Dunn, I am a forty-year-old woman who has never married for various reasons (I never had a ...
A: You've nailed this one right, that there's some old neuronal pattern in your brain that's stuck in a ...
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| Dating!!! | 1/9/2008 |
Q: I have always known that woman mature faster then men. Most of the relationships i have been never ...
A: You attract what you think about. It's tricky to quit thinking he's going to disappoint you, but if ...
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| unlucky in love. | 1/2/2008 |
Q: how do i work on my social skills like how do i do that.i feel bad because i am not good looking ...
A: You work on them one step at a time. There's plenty of free advice on the Internet. Shy and quiet? ...
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| Is this a game or is he genuine? | 1/2/2008 |
Q: I met this guy recently who is very caring, sweet, kind and respectful. We met, had instant ...
A: Whatever it is, it isn't good. He tells you not to fall in love with him, which means if you do, ...
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| help! | 12/31/2007 |
Q: There is a boy i like, he is one year older than me, so 15, and lives down the road from me. We go ...
A: You can't make someone like you ... but here you have a great opportunity because you get to be ...
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| looks | 12/29/2007 |
Q: men don,t like plain looking ,fat girls like me ..espeically when there older like me they want ...
A: You need to work on your self-esteem. Why do you feel so bad about yourself? If you think you are ...
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| How can I woo him over?? | 12/29/2007 |
Q: I am in highschool and I go to an all-girls private school. I went to elementary school with this ...
A: It is always better when the guy makes the moves. You need to find a way to get around him, so he ...
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| help | 12/20/2007 |
Q: okay so theres this guy in my high school hes a junior and im a freshman (but im 15 so its not that ...
A: This is a great time for you to learn about social skills in genral. Making conversation ... people ...
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| help | 12/20/2007 |
Q: no body under stands my hurt and pain becuase have sucessful relaionships .i am so very lonly i wish ...
A: Do you think you might be suffering from depression? You seem awfullly down about things. What's ...
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| how to attract the man i love | 12/15/2007 |
Q: i loved him from three years i dont know how this was happen but this is the true , the problem is ...
A: When you ask for advice and then direct that advice, it is not a good sign. You can't force ...
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| rejecton | 12/10/2007 |
Q: how do you get over pain and rejection that has beeing there for 10 yeras.
A: With a good coach!!! It's bad enough, the rejection, but to let it rule your life for so long, is ...
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| single me | 12/7/2007 |
Q: i really enjoyed reading the answers that you had gave..:) so okay, here's my questian: i'm a very ...
A: Well, it sounds like you could be a bit more outgoing, as fits your personality. It's fine to make ...
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| how do i get a bf? | 12/3/2007 |
Q: i know its wrong to want a boyfriend because everyone else has one but I'm desperate to have one. i ...
A: Keep being friendly when you meet guys. Allow for the fact that sometimes they are shy and nervous ...
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| How To Get Him Interested In Me Again | 12/2/2007 |
Q: I have a BIG problem. I had met this man about 4 months ago. He was really interested in me. I have ...
A: Well, I hope he will give you a second chance, and that you've worked out your issues that were ...
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| marriage | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I am a 29 year old woman currently in my last year of medical school, will be getting my M.D. this ...
A: I will anwer in caps, because that's all I can do. Oh yeah, and I look like Eva Longoria, so most ...
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| drew | 11/27/2007 |
Q: i really like this guy, I have only liked him for a few months but I dont care because i want to be ...
A: Well, unfortunately there isn't a magic wand to make this happen. You can "attract" but you can't ...
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| contacting an angry ex | 11/22/2007 |
Q: could you help ? I was in a long distance relationship with a 39 yr old single mom , ( I'm 41 and a ...
A: I do not know why she would do that. Whenever you are confused in a relationship, it's not a good ...
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| contacting an angry ex | 11/22/2007 |
Q: could you help ? I was in a long distance relationship with a 39 yr old single mom , ( I'm 41 and a ...
A: I'm sorry to hear about this and about your illness. I hope the surgery corrects it. There are ...
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| what should i do?? | 11/21/2007 |
Q: Hey Susan, im hoping you can help me with this. Im 19 years old and just came out of a 4 year ...
A: Why don't you have a talk with him one of those times when you see him. Everyone deserves a second ...
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| Please- Advice needed! | 11/20/2007 |
Q: I'm in My mid thirties, divorced for several years now with 3 kids. There is a man (my age) that I ...
A: Well, there's nothing wrong with striking up a conversation ... but if he won't let you get near ...
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| backing off | 11/20/2007 |
Q: ive had four great dates with a man over the past 2 months he txts, flirts an we make each other ...
A: Sounds like he's backing off for some reason. Do not initiate something like hotel. Don't contact ...
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| Attracting a man | 11/19/2007 |
Q: Hey Susan, I have a bit of a problem. I'm 20, currently attend university and am incredibly single ...
A: Congratulations on the weight loss. That's much to be proud of. Do you have a nice new wardrobe? ...
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| Starting to date, again | 11/18/2007 |
Q: I am 22 and recently came out of a two year relationship with a guy that I really cared about ...
A: Don't pal around with them too much ... let them ask you for a date. Otherwise, you're "busy" and ...
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| Attracting guys my age and avoiding older men | 11/16/2007 |
Q: I am 19 years old and my problem is that I seem to attract much older men (mid 30's - 40's) but guys ...
A: I do not know why you attract older men. It may be that for some reason they are more appealing to ...
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| younger men | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm a 25 year old woman and I live in Chicago, Illinois. I think in Illinois you have to be 18 to ...
A: You'd have to check with a lawyer for the legal stuff, sorry. Generally speaking, it's good to ...
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| Crush | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm 14 and i like this guy a lot, he's 13 but theres only 6 months or so difference. I've known him ...
A: Sounds nice. Learning to 'make' conversation is something that will serve you well throughout your ...
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| Crush | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm 14 and i like this guy a lot, he's 13 but theres only 6 months or so difference. I've known him ...
A: I don't blame you at all for asking, I'm glad you did. I would not wear that - it's not ladylike! ...
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| Crush | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm 14 and i like this guy a lot, he's 13 but theres only 6 months or so difference. I've known him ...
A: Sounds like fun. Who contacted who online ... best to let him begin things. Well when you go Friday ...
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| Getting mixed signals , from co-worker | 11/11/2007 |
Q: So I've been working with this co-worker for over a year. We've talked in the past 3 months ...
A: It is tricky to date a co-worker, and he is right to be giving it careful consideration. From what ...
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| How can I stand out? | 11/10/2007 |
Q: My roommate/best friend and I love going out together, however it gets depressing when all the guys ...
A: She's your friend ... IF you are intent on meeting guys, it might be better for you to go out with ...
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| rejection | 11/9/2007 |
Q: how do you deal being rejected by a loy of guys who don,t even bothering getting to know me.therer ...
A: I think some kind of coaching would be good for you. Then we could go into some of these things and ...
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| help | 11/9/2007 |
Q: i an never met a nice guy guy who likes me all i meet is guys who rejectd me ,have no interst in ...
A: First of all stop being so down on yourself. If there's something you are doing wrong, change that. ...
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| Is There Any Hope of More Than Friendship? | 11/7/2007 |
Q: I met a man this summer and we dated a few times. He is about a year out of a 6 year relationship ...
A: Yes, relationships do start out as friendships, but not in this sort of way - where they begin with ...
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| Young Single mom of one attracted to Older man | 11/7/2007 |
Q: This may sound crazy... but here goes; I am 22 years old and have been through a divorce with sole ...
A: Yes it is. Generally speaking marriages work better between two people around the same age, say ...
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| Young Single mom of one attracted to Older man | 11/7/2007 |
Q: This may sound crazy... but here goes; I am 22 years old and have been through a divorce with sole ...
A: Hard as it is, the best thing to do it to tell him to get back to you when he gets over that stage ...
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| love | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I am a single mother with 3 children and would like to know how to attract a man who will not only ...
A: Well, you have to be able to meet guys, and the best way to do that is to keep doing the things you ...
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| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ...
A: What on earth were you thinking? Well, obviously, as you say, you were NOT thinking. You start ...
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| question | 11/3/2007 |
Q: My parents are immigrants in the US but I grew up in america so I'm pretty much americanized. I know ...
A: I'm tempted to say all parents are immigrants, while their children are Americanized ... by that, I ...
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| Please Help!!!! | 11/3/2007 |
Q: 7 to be exact. I have had a crush in him since we worked together about a year ago. A few months ...
A: Well it doesn't sound too promising. When a guy says he's not interested in a girl friend, ...
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| please help me | 11/2/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing this guy for a couple months. He has been married for 8 years and his ex cheated ...
A: You did not forward the initial correspondence, so I could not trace the trail from what you ...
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| Dating | 11/2/2007 |
Q: was dating a guy who back off and after four months he contacted saying"your a great gal, smart , ...
A: Well you could see if he is willing to change and how it goes. I wouldn't put too much into it. ...
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| relatoinships with men | 11/2/2007 |
Q: What are some things women can do to make a man happy? (Assuming this is a man that genuinely loves ...
A: If you are a virgin, is it a good idea to date and/or marry a man who is a virgin? It is harder and ...
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| Confused about a friend | 10/27/2007 |
Q: Is it unrealistic to try and remain friends with a man I once dated? His girlfriend hates me and she ...
A: Well, it' hard to let go of relationships that were once good. It's a personal decision, but once ...
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| left for another | 10/24/2007 |
Q: From your experience, what causes a man to leave his wife for another woman? Such as Tom Cruise ...
A: Well we can't know for sure, and I don't follow their lives that closely. The lives of movie stars ...
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| Staying a virgin | 10/22/2007 |
Q: I'm 25 and still a virgin. I'm waiting until I meet the right guy to have sex. I keep getting ...
A: It is not a vicious cycle. If the guy is interested in YOU, he will wait. If he is interested in ...
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| Sitting on a fence? | 10/19/2007 |
Q: Susan, I need your advice! I am currently in a theatrical production with a cutie. The first ...
A: I know the feeling. There's no way of telling. I would recommending making no more overtures, and ...
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| Why is this girl being mean / cheeky to me ? | 10/19/2007 |
Q: In my lesson, there is this girl who lately ALWAYS teases me, get rly cheeky with me and can be so ...
A: Well, I would say she wanted you to ask her out and you didn't, so she's upping the level. Wouldn't ...
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| Patience | 10/16/2007 |
Q: I need your help. I made the mistake of asking a guy out in my office. It was over email. I asked ...
A: All may be not be lost. However, should this turn out to be a "learning experience," let me make ...
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| nutcase? | 10/11/2007 |
Q: I went on a date with this guy. During dinner, he was telling me stories about all these girls ...
A: He is not someone I would even want to be around, whatever you want to call it and would certainly ...
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| nutcase? | 10/10/2007 |
Q: I went on a date with this guy. During dinner, he was telling me stories about all these girls ...
A: What on earth appeals to you about this man? Warm regards, Susan Dunn www.susandunn.cc Coaching, ...
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| winning back his heart | 10/10/2007 |
Q: My partner for nearly four years left me yesterday. I asked him what i did wrong and he said ...
A: It is sad that he seems to think it's a zero-sum universe where love is concerned. Actually, the ...
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| help! | 10/9/2007 |
Q: i'm 26 yrs. old. & have been 'very' religous in the past, just coming out of all of that, 'into my ...
A: You are in a transition here, and have a lot of things to learn. In your position, I really ...
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| Im really confused!!!! | 10/8/2007 |
Q: Well its been well almost a year since I've made it known I like him he's given me his number but ...
A: Well, perhaps you have been too aggressive, or appeared to be. From what I read and hear this sort ...
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| stood up | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I met a very nice gentleman I was interested in and he asked for my number and gave me his. He was ...
A: Hmmm, I see you are still trying to figure it out. What's up with that? I do not know, but it's ...
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| stood up | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I met a very nice gentleman I was interested in and he asked for my number and gave me his. He was ...
A: Strange ... I don't know why, but there are erratic signs there. Txt msg for a date at 11:30 pm on ...
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| dating | 10/5/2007 |
Q: I met a nice gentleman last Thursday evening at the shopping center and we chatted a bit and he ...
A: Well, you got me on this -- "he does seem like an intellectual from our in person conversations...he ...
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| does he like me | 10/3/2007 |
Q: hello there is this boy in my school who is in year 9 while I'm in year 8 i really like him and i ...
A: Well, he could. Have you tried talking with him? Just be friendly and see what happens. Best, ...
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| call back | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Let's say a guy gives you his phone number and you give him his, and he says he'll call you. Let's ...
A: As you know, if you read this column regularly, I do not advocate calling men. Practically under no ...
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| call back | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Let's say a guy gives you his phone number and you give him his, and he says he'll call you. Let's ...
A: You could give him one "bump" and see what happens. He could've lost your phone number ... Guys ...
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| call back | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Let's say a guy gives you his phone number and you give him his, and he says he'll call you. Let's ...
A: Well I would kind of put it out of my mind if he doesn't call within a week or so, yes. Then you ...
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| soulmate is taken | 9/23/2007 |
Q: I could use some advice. I like a guy at work who is involved with someone and has two little kids. ...
A: Well I can understand how you feel. I'm not clear here, whose children are the 2 little kids. At ...
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| question | 9/22/2007 |
Q: I met this guy in my class. Well actually I saw him from afar and admired him lol. I observed him ...
A: It's always better to let the guy make the approach. You have initiated several things, he knows ...
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| question | 9/22/2007 |
Q: I met this guy in my class. Well actually I saw him from afar and admired him lol. I observed him ...
A: Well, it's hard to tell. I guess you'll just have to wait and see. I wouldn't do anything else ...
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| FINDING MR. RIGHT | 9/21/2007 |
Q: I need help, I'm 22 yrs old and in college and I'm having no luck in finding a boyfriend, it seems ...
A: Then there are the ones where you are not their "type," or they're already dating someone, or you ...
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| man | 9/19/2007 |
Q: i wanted to ask about how to attract this guy that i like in college. i don't know him and he is one ...
A: Well, I don't know the situation at your particular college, but let me give you some examples, and ...
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| i have a crush on this guy | 9/17/2007 |
Q: i have a crush on this guy, but ive never been sure if he likes me or not, anyways i haven't seen ...
A: You mean he won't talk to you when you see him in person? Well you could try once more. Tell him ...
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| This guy i like. | 9/16/2007 |
Q: Okay this is kind of a question but the again it kinda aint. but see I've known this guy for ever ...
A: Well you have contact with him, through his sister and all, and he knows you like him, so I would ...
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| Is he worth my efforts? | 9/8/2007 |
Q: I met a man in June 2006...first date was August 2006...he and I are both divorced, with teenaged ...
A: Believe me, my heart goes out to you. These ones are hard. He acts as if you had a relationship, ...
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| Is he worth my efforts? | 9/8/2007 |
Q: I met a man in June 2006...first date was August 2006...he and I are both divorced, with teenaged ...
A: I know that this is sad and frustrating. People are different, and take different routes in healing ...
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| the man of my dreams ;) | 9/1/2007 |
Q: Ok susan, I really need some help. I really like this guy. his names Greg. I've talked to him a ...
A: Wow! You must like him a lot. Nervous is kind of excited, look at it that way. So ... do what we ...
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| What happened? | 8/31/2007 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He is 27 was divorced a year and a half ago. (I ...
A: I'm behind you 100% ... and I like the way you simply state that you don't think you are ready to ...
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| What happened? | 8/30/2007 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He is 27 was divorced a year and a half ago. (I ...
A: Wow ... and ouch. I'm sorry to hear about this one. Best-case scenario, it had a good impact on ...
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| complex questions | 8/28/2007 |
Q: I have some complex questions. 1. Why do you think there is so much divorce nowadays? Why aren't ...
A: Such big questions. It's kind of like you are answering them for yourself, but I'll take a swing at ...
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| dating not the same any more | 8/28/2007 |
Q: Dunn, I am 28 years old and am waiting until marriage to have sex. This is leading me to getting ...
A: Well, he's the one who said it: "Now, here's where I REALLY get arrogant." This gentleman you ...
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| Help! Stuck between the two | 8/27/2007 |
Q: I was seeing a man that I wasnt too interested in but he made so much effort- phoning exactly when ...
A: I haven't a clue ... and it would be confusing to the guys as well, I would think. I'd go lightly ...
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| sad story | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I was dating a man I was very much in love with. Him and I had a lot in common, same music, movies, ...
A: Oh my. Well, that's the $10 million question, isn't it. I know you don't really want to know why ...
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| He pulls back | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing a man for about nine months now. I love him, I love being around him. He knows ...
A: Gosh, I hear a version of this a lot. Well lets see, to answer your questions: One year is a ...
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| Is he interested in me? | 8/23/2007 |
Q: There's a man I took classes with all year last year and I am absolutely smitten with him. I would ...
A: Ah, welcome to the dating world. We've been waiting for you! :-) Yes, there's a lot to learn, and ...
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| Is he interested in me? | 8/23/2007 |
Q: There's a man I took classes with all year last year and I am absolutely smitten with him. I would ...
A: It's just really hard to tell. He's interested, but that's not the same thing as taking direct ...
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| Is he interested in me? | 8/23/2007 |
Q: There's a man I took classes with all year last year and I am absolutely smitten with him. I would ...
A: Well ATTRACT does not mean ATTACK. We all get so excited when we find a guy we're really attracted ...
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| cute guy | 8/21/2007 |
Q: my best friend is getting married in november. the guy who she paired me up with is her fiancee's ...
A: You shouldn't have to do anything particular except be yourself, be friendly, receptive and a little ...
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| Ex and Me | 8/21/2007 |
Q: My ex of 1 1/2 year broke up with me two months ago before I left for summer vacation. He never gave ...
A: Just the way you are doing, and I congratulate you on your aplomb. He's doing some good things here ...
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| i want my ex back... | 8/21/2007 |
Q: . i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me ...
A: Sounds more like a rant and rave here, not really a questions, but that's OK too. And also what ...
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| How can i get him interested in me | 8/17/2007 |
Q: Im a South African living in Gauteng and i went to visit a friend in Cape Town (about 1200 km away) ...
A: I don't know the 'whys' but it looks like you really need to take a look at what's going on in your ...
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| How can i get him interested in me | 8/17/2007 |
Q: Im a South African living in Gauteng and i went to visit a friend in Cape Town (about 1200 km away) ...
A: Bless your heart, I know how that is! The first thing I want you to notice is how obsessed you've ...
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| my ex and I | 8/8/2007 |
Q: My Ex Boyfreind and I just broke up like a week and half ago. Since then I have been depressed and ...
A: I'm sorry this happened to you, and I can tell you are heartbroken. I wish I could make it better. ...
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| Please Help!!! | 8/6/2007 |
Q: I had a crush on this guy i worked with, we flirted but nothing more, cause i had a b/f. But then a ...
A: Lint in a guy's hair isn't stupid!! Now ... convincing a guy of something NEVER WORKS. And consider ...
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| Right or wrong? | 7/29/2007 |
Q: I asked you a question a while ago which you responded to. I cut and pasted my question to another ...
A: I would strongly recommend that you get individualized coaching because you are asking very complex ...
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| Give him space | 7/27/2007 |
Q: I've been seeing a guy for about two months. His ex (who he was in love with even though they were ...
A: Why would you want to salvage a friendship? The thing is that if they can't give a straight answer ...
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| players | 7/27/2007 |
Q: I am a virgin and the guy I was dating was not, although he definitely knew I desired him very much. ...
A: I wish I knew. I really wish I did. It's heartbreaking and so hard to understand. Sometimes I ...
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| Give him space | 7/25/2007 |
Q: I've been seeing a guy for about two months. His ex (who he was in love with even though they were ...
A: I wouldn't give it too long, and I would have to see some major, major changes. To be so involved ...
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| Follow Up | 7/24/2007 |
Q: I watched the Edith Piaf and Bocelli videos about heartbreak, they are very sad. Now here are ...
A: They are beautiful, aren't they. They can help work through the grief and get us on with our lives. ...
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| Love Dreams | 7/20/2007 |
Q: Ive been having these dreams alot recently that me and my ex are back together and trying to work ...
A: Oh, those dreams. It's hard to say WHY ... maybe something came up that reminded you of him? Or ...
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| being cheated on | 7/19/2007 |
Q: Five months ago I was cheated on and left for the other woman. I am very sad. How do I get over ...
A: OF COURSE he will regret it. You are quite a prize and he blew it. Someone like you doesn't come ...
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| why is he acting like this | 7/17/2007 |
Q: I was in love with a man whom I suppose didn't love me back, although I thought he did. He was very ...
A: Now he's doing it because he knows you're moving to another country. Now he can be *really* safe. ...
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| She changed his mindset | 7/17/2007 |
Q: You hear of men that are players/womanizers/cheaters, they spend their entire life being jerks to ...
A: Fascinating, isn't it. I've seen it happen, you've seen it happen. They change like Dr. Jekyl and ...
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| Desperate for advice!!!!!!! | 7/15/2007 |
Q: im going mad after one guy named ed! we dated 2 years ago until i left the country for college but ...
A: I love my work. We all delude ourselves when we are in love, there's not a person on earth who ...
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| Time to get out? | 7/15/2007 |
Q: I recently started dating this guy, he seemed very kind and generous. Then on one of our dates, he ...
A: Well it would give me the creeps to hear something like that. And twice? Fool me once, shame on ...
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| Desperate for advice!!!!!!! | 7/15/2007 |
Q: im going mad after one guy named ed! we dated 2 years ago until i left the country for college but ...
A: It is the hardest thing in the world to understand, and the saddest thing in the world to deal with. ...
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| Desperate for advice!!!!!!! | 7/15/2007 |
Q: im going mad after one guy named ed! we dated 2 years ago until i left the country for college but ...
A: It sounds like he is not interested at this time and is just being polite and mannerly. It's not a ...
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| Desperate for advice!!!!!!! | 7/9/2007 |
Q: im going mad after one guy named ed! we dated 2 years ago until i left the country for college but ...
A: Well, you can't blame him for thinking that you're kind of unpredictable. Since you've already had ...
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| oh help | 7/7/2007 |
Q: i went out with this guy for a week and then dumped him i told him it was coz my bro dint want me ...
A: Well it sounds to me like you have done everything you can. It got off to a bad start. For one ...
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| Messy situation | 7/5/2007 |
Q: I have a confusing situation I was hoping you could help me out with. It is a long letter and ...
A: Yes a messy situation. Now go back over it and identify when you got "bad vibes." Fot starters - ...
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| Waiting until marriage | 7/3/2007 |
Q: I'm waiting until I'm married to have sex. However, I keep getting dumped. This is heartbreaking and ...
A: It is up to you that you not allow this to erode your self-esteem. Glad you wrote me. Hope you ...
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| love or lust? | 6/29/2007 |
Q: I just started going to school at my new college and I have meet this guy named John. We seem to be ...
A: Smart girl. Don't put your heart on the line when you're, um, getting a line. On the other hand, ...
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| I don't know what to do at all. | 6/28/2007 |
Q: A girl has been telling my friend things about the boy I知 care for so he told me, i asked him if ...
A: Well, hope you get a new beginning on this. A lot has been said -- that can be water under the ...
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| My ex | 6/28/2007 |
Q: I read some of your old responses and realized you went through a very similar situation as the one ...
A: B., It's just sad, isn't it. Generally in psychology/human behavior, the answer to the question -- ...
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| I don't know what to do at all. | 6/28/2007 |
Q: A girl has been telling my friend things about the boy I知 care for so he told me, i asked him if ...
A: I know it hurts ... it's probably happened to all of us one time or another. I can't really ...
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| confused about how he feels | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I met a guy at college and we hung out and kissed a few times, and although we kept intouch usually ...
A: When a man says he does not want to have a relationship in college, hear what he says, believe it, ...
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| Cruel joke | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I was madly in love with a guy named Marc, who it turns out was cheating on me with a girl named ...
A: That's probably as good a way as any. I'm not one for retaliation. You did something relatively ...
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| Dating dilemma | 6/22/2007 |
Q: Susan, I am currently dating a guy that I think is extremely cool but seems to think he is a ladies ...
A: Uh oh. Doesn't sound good to me. Sounds to me like women "leave him" in less than a week because ...
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| Out of my league | 6/21/2007 |
Q: I saw this guy around my local mall a few times a couple of months ago and totally fell for him!! I ...
A: Why don't you start by finding a way to strike up a conversation with him and see what happens. ...
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| I really want to be noticed | 6/19/2007 |
Q: I don't know how to get this one guy to notice but i am a tomboy so i hang out with him a lot and ...
A: I don't know of anything you can do if the guy isn't interested in you. Be comfortable with who you ...
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| random contact | 6/18/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a short while, whom I really loved very much, and it seemed that he loved ...
A: I'm sorry this happened to you. I hear about this sort of thing all the time, and it has also ...
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| Dating an American - casual or committed? | 6/15/2007 |
Q: just found this website and I have to say it is really intersting, I love your advices. So let`s ...
A: Yes, we are taught this as well, plus I think it is innate in women-- See how different cultures ...
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| Dating an American - casual or committed? | 6/15/2007 |
Q: just found this website and I have to say it is really intersting, I love your advices. So let`s ...
A: You are welcome. I love my work! BTW my mother's side of the family was German. Stolterfoht, ...
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| Dating an American - casual or committed? | 6/15/2007 |
Q: just found this website and I have to say it is really intersting, I love your advices. So let`s ...
A: Everybody says this to me. I talk to people all over the world. That it's different where they ...
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| Marrying outside | 6/13/2007 |
Q: Is it better to marry someone of your own race, religion, culture, traditions, and political beliefs ...
A: My responses in caps just cuz there's no other way to to do it. __________________ Thanks for the ...
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| Marrying outside | 6/12/2007 |
Q: Is it better to marry someone of your own race, religion, culture, traditions, and political beliefs ...
A: I'd look very hard for one, if I were you. And I'm only half joking. It has never worked for me ...
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| Marrying outside | 6/12/2007 |
Q: Is it better to marry someone of your own race, religion, culture, traditions, and political beliefs ...
A: Is it better to marry someone of your own race, religion, culture, traditions, and political beliefs ...
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| Help reading possible signs/initiating--- | 6/11/2007 |
Q: So i have found i am really good at reading people, except when it comes to someone I'm interested ...
A: No one's real good at reading things when emotionally involved, so you aren't alone, and when we ...
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| question | 6/7/2007 |
Q: How do you know if a guy likes you for more than just your body? They say not to sleep with men too ...
A: b., I am not Dennis. However, I will reply. You are doing yourself a favor by screening out the ...
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| Is there any way i can make him my BF?? | 6/7/2007 |
Q: ..I met my childhood friend on orkut around 7 months ago, we had been classmates from 6th to 8th ...
A: Well, you broke the courtship Rules. Too much, too soon. Saying you loved him. We don't use the M ...
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| Why did he contact me now? | 6/6/2007 |
Q: In graduate school I dated a man for about two months, fell very much in love with him but never ...
A: Cheated on you when? You only went with him for 2 mos. you said. Did he ask for an exclusive ...
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| Serial Girlfriend (Always the bridesmaid, Never the bride) | 6/5/2007 |
Q: Since the age of 17 I've been seeking to develop only relationships that will lead to marriage. ...
A: Yes, there is something they are doing that you're not doing, and something you are not doing that ...
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| Why did he contact me now? | 6/4/2007 |
Q: In graduate school I dated a man for about two months, fell very much in love with him but never ...
A: He is young. He loved you, but may not really know how to love yet. Men mature very late! You may ...
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| Why did he contact me now? | 6/3/2007 |
Q: In graduate school I dated a man for about two months, fell very much in love with him but never ...
A: These things are always so sad. I'm sorry this happened to you. The wise thing to do? Get closure ...
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| Moving from casual to committed | 5/25/2007 |
Q: My husband passed away 3 months ago. I have been very lonely for companionship, so I placed a inet ...
A: Then stop right now. Pay attention! He has told you he is not dating you and not interested in ...
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| hello | 5/20/2007 |
Q: i have a few questions about how to treat a guy that I'm talking with. i just know him from the ...
A: The Internet is so neat and a great place to meet people, and there are all types of people out ...
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| is he heading for a deeper connection? | 5/16/2007 |
Q: so ive met this guy online, through a music forum. he lives not far away from me and so after ...
A: Shared taste in music is one of the strongest redictors for a lasting relationship -- you are off to ...
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| missonary | 5/14/2007 |
Q: "there is this missionary that i like soo much and he is actually going to baptize me in the church ...
A: If he's interested in you, in that way, sooner or later, he'll let you know. You can do some subtle ...
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| ive forced the love of my life to not want to be with me.. | 5/11/2007 |
Q: i have been with my gf for about a yr in which she has been through some major trauma within this ...
A: You sound like a great guy with a good sense of humor. I hope she'll take you back. Ask her what ...
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| ex | 5/6/2007 |
Q: I ran into my ex boyfriend yesterday. I still have a lot of feelings for him despite him coldly ...
A: This is always so sad, this kind of heartbreak. Most of us have to go through it before we meet the ...
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| this guy at work | 5/3/2007 |
Q: Some of my coworkers have been trying to set me up with "Jack", one of the guys at work. I know ...
A: I would avoid this like the plague. I am very serious. I would also, not verbally, but ...
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| head turn | 4/30/2007 |
Q: I ran into my ex the other day (he broke up with me, but I still have a lot of feelings for him) ...
A: Don't be mistaken, even if he did the breaking up, there were feelings. I have broken up with guys ...
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| how do i get the boy??? | 4/26/2007 |
Q: Theres this boy I like at school and I dont think he likes me the same way. I jus want to know if ...
A: No, that would be like having a magic potion or magic wand or something. The nature of dating is ...
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| Confused | 4/22/2007 |
Q: The problem is i fell in love with him a few years ago i have never said any thing to him and dont ...
A: If there's one truth in this world it is this: If the man wants "more" in a relationship, he will ...
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| This is complicated.... | 4/22/2007 |
Q: I have read prior questions and i beleive they all give great advice. I have some of the same ...
A: I quit reading your note after a couple of paragraphs because -- and I want you to GET THIS -- the ...
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| i want to marry my friend .... | 4/17/2007 |
Q: you are doing excellent job and that makes me to write you.although its not easy to put in words ...
A: I love my work and helping people. You want your friend to fall in love with you and marry you ... ...
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| boyfriend | 4/16/2007 |
Q: Susan, I really love my boyfriend very much and when we're together, he is always smiling and ...
A: Listen to what he said. Not only does he say he is committment-phobic, he is acting like it. You ...
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| question | 4/12/2007 |
Q: I need an honest opinion, please tell me if I'm over-reacting or something. I have an online ...
A: Kate, he is being callous about your feelings. You are reading that one correctly. He sounds like ...
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| what the hell | 4/10/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I really loved each other a lot, and he used to go out of his way to make me ...
A: That is a very confusing story indeed. I don't know what you are after here. Are you wanting ...
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| Falling in love | 4/10/2007 |
Q: Dunn, I have been told by many people that sometimes when men (especially men who are either young ...
A: The only thing worse than having a man run from you, is having one come straight at it. "Love" is ...
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| profile | 4/10/2007 |
Q: I was reading your profile. It says you can help "get men back when they run away" and "how to get ...
A: I can't tell you much briefly. It's a big topic. I work with people individually, and for quite a ...
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| not sure | 4/10/2007 |
Q: Ok. If he comes back, what is a good way to make him want to build a successful, serious ...
A: Ok. If he comes back, what is a good way to make him want to build a successful, serious ...
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| not sure | 4/8/2007 |
Q: Recently my boyfriend (we go to law school together) told me "we need a break" because his boards ...
A: Yes I've seen some ones similar to this work out. You have to get your head on straight when/if he ...
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| not sure | 4/5/2007 |
Q: Recently my boyfriend (we go to law school together) told me "we need a break" because his boards ...
A: If he does try and come back, I suppose you might as well level with him. Certainly you have ...
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| not sure | 4/5/2007 |
Q: Recently my boyfriend (we go to law school together) told me "we need a break" because his boards ...
A: Not as long as it just amounts to whenever you run into him, he takes you along for the ride. And ...
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| ? | 3/31/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a while, we were really happy together, we would talk for hours about ...
A: Linda, You poor thing. Good grief. Your question is -- should you take him back. Hmmm Well, let's ...
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| men | 3/30/2007 |
Q: Ok, well this guy that I use to date looked me up on the internet,and I haven't spoke to him in 6 ...
A: Whoa! Why would YOU go out THERE. He comes to you. HE makes the time to come and see you, he pays ...
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| men | 3/30/2007 |
Q: Ok, well this guy that I use to date looked me up on the internet,and I haven't spoke to him in 6 ...
A: It isn't clear to me from this whether you have actually SEEN him or not, like in person. However, ...
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| commitment phobes | 3/25/2007 |
Q: How do you deal with a commitment phobic man? The man I love is wonderful to me and treats me ...
A: That's a hard one to deal with and the answer really lies with him. There are things you can do, ...
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| what to do | 3/17/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a couple months. We were really happy together, laughed every moment we ...
A: Oh, this is always sad when this happens. Why do men do that? Why do women do that? I wish I ...
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| follow up | 3/11/2007 |
Q: Well when we first met, the first one or two weeks of dating he said he didn't want to be labeled as ...
A: Men -- healthy men -- like a challenge, and they like a little mystery in their woman. The more ...
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| follow up | 3/11/2007 |
Q: Well I am a virgin and he has never pressured me for sex, so a booty call is out of the question, ...
A: I thought you asked me -- or did he just miss you in his bed. I can't retrack the message. Maybe I ...
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| help attracting the right one. | 3/10/2007 |
Q: It seems I get caught in a vicious cycle attracting loosers with problems and helping them. and so ...
A: Yes you do. You know you're in a mess and are taking responsibility for it, so that's the first ...
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| follow up | 3/10/2007 |
Q: Yes, now he is texting me asking how my exams went, stopping by my cubicle in the library to say hi, ...
A: Q -- do you think when he saw me it struck a chord and he realized just how much he missed me? or is ...
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| getting back together | 3/10/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I work together but not in the same department. He told me about a month ago that ...
A: Honest to gosh you should ask Nancy Fenn that question. She's about the best psychic out there. ...
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| follow up | 3/8/2007 |
Q: Ok have I got a crazy story for you. The girl he is dating? Is actually a guy with a feminine name. ...
A: Yes. If you want marriage, make it clear to him, if he does come back, that it is on your terms. ...
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| follow up | 3/7/2007 |
Q: I guess the one thing I needed to understand that it was out of my control. It had nothing to do ...
A: yes indeed I have. I would've said too, that the guy who did it to me was very sweet and ...
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| breakup | 3/4/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I go to school together. His grades have not been good this semester. Recently said ...
A: It could be any of those things, or something else. The main thing is that he's being difficult to ...
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| Trying to get the guy. | 3/1/2007 |
Q: There is a guy i like, and I'm positive he likes me too, but the last couple of times I've tried ...
A: Chelsea, it doesn't sound too good to me. When it's a good relationship, you don't feel like you're ...
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| wanting him back | 2/26/2007 |
Q: Hey this guy and i weren't dating but we close to dating. One night i invited to this party that ...
A: Well, taking your question at face value ... think about this carefully. Are you just one of those ...
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| my crush | 2/26/2007 |
Q: Ok i have had a crush on the biggest jerk in school since the second week i was there and its been ...
A: Well, I am curious why you call him "the biggest jerk in school. If he really is, why would you ...
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| I'm as cold as Ice....I need help warming up | 2/14/2007 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old female who is strongly attracted to a classmate. Last semester I had him for a ...
A: Big topic and you really need some coaching. It would be well worth your money. Failing that, ...
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| Am I unapproachable? | 2/10/2007 |
Q: First off I want to tahnk you for your insightful response. I also was hoping maybe you could ...
A: I'm glad you found some enlightenment -- to your own wisdom. When you think about, you can often ...
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| Am I unapproachable? | 2/8/2007 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old female college student. I am kind of shy and reserved until I get to know ...
A: Good for you for wanting to learn more about yourself. Emotional intelligence starts with ...
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| does he like me?if not, how do i attract him to like me? | 2/3/2007 |
Q: There is this guy and I've known him for a pretty long time;about 6 years. I am turning 14 in April, ...
A: Well you are both young and there's a lot of learning to do. Just enjoy being around him, and ...
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| love | 1/31/2007 |
Q: how do you know which guy is the one for you?
A: Your intuition. Your gut feeling. And absolutely nothing else! It will tell you "This is the ...
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| dating wht to do | 1/31/2007 |
Q: does he love me or wants my money only since he is in debt.
A: So many people get hung up on that one. Your money is part of you. For instance, I hear men ...
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| how to attract the man of my dreams | 1/31/2007 |
Q: There is a man at work that I am very interested in. he is divorced with 2 daughters. He has full ...
A: Well it sounds like you have the perfect opportunity just to be around him and let it grow, which is ...
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| meeting a man | 1/25/2007 |
Q: I am a 28 year old and have never been in a serious relationship. I am a bit traditional in that I ...
A: Keep being yourself, and believe in yourself and your "traditional" ways. It is hard to find men ...
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| How do I bring back my old love? | 1/24/2007 |
Q: Susan, I don't know anyone who knew him and I, it has been 46 years ago. He was born in Cuba, and ...
A: Well have you checked his name in connection with those two cities? Do the things I suggested. ...
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| How do I bring back my old love? | 1/24/2007 |
Q: Please help me, I want to bring back to me my old love, we have not seen one another in a very long ...
A: That is so sad. I hope it would work out. Sometimes we learn hard lessons the hard way . Many ...
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| Getting him hooked | 1/21/2007 |
Q: I met a man whom I am very attracted to. I have three children and he has two. He is a very free ...
A: I caution you to listen very carefully to what a man says - backed by what he does. WHen he says he ...
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| I've been told I am intimidating. | 1/19/2007 |
Q: I have never been a big dater. I am 28 years old and have probably dated fewer than 40 men. I was a ...
A: Well, this is kind of a puzzle. If you are "intimidating" to men because of positive things, then ...
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| wat do i do?? | 1/14/2007 |
Q: we have common frens and got introduced to each other two months back.we meet in college ...
A: Yes I think you have taken the right step. Smart girl. Falling in love with a man who isn't ...
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| How to get a guy | 1/13/2007 |
Q: I am a sophomore in high school and I like a guy who is a senior. He is in the drama club, and I am ...
A: Why doesn't anyone talk to him? Why don't you? Is there something wrong with him? It's OK not ...
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| Single at 35 and confused about men! | 1/7/2007 |
Q: I am an intelligent, confident, pretty woman that is successful enough to own a home on my own, be ...
A: I share your pain! And so does the man out there who is looking for YOU just as hard as you are ...
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| Is this Mysterious, Handsome, and Dashing man for ME? | 1/7/2007 |
Q: It was most insightful. I wanted to update you on what has happened since then. Maybe you could ...
A: You can give him your phone number now ... unless there's some compelling reason not to. He's seen ...
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| Asking a man out | 1/7/2007 |
Q: There is a guy I knew a few years ago, that I haven't seen for awhile and no one I know, knows him. ...
A: How respectfully you write. As a general rule, I don't recommend asking men out. However, you are ...
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| i want to forget him | 1/6/2007 |
Q: I am foreigner in this country and i am alone, I got a job, then my boss start being so kind to me ...
A: I'm sorry about this, I know it's hard. Turn on, turn off, not knowing what's going on. You ...
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| I am so confused | 1/2/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing this man for about six months now. We see each other about 3 times a week and ...
A: Sounds like a booty call. No wonder you are confused. For some reason he has pulled out. YOu can ...
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| man at work | 12/28/2006 |
Q: I have a problem there is a guy at work who is totally hot. I don't really know him although we did ...
A: Such a nice dillema, as you get to be around him a lot. I think at this point you can be very ...
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| Is this Mysterious, Handsome, and Dashing man for ME? | 12/28/2006 |
Q: I'm hoping you can shed some light on this issue in my life. I am a very successful business owner. ...
A: What a lovely story and what fun to read. It sounds like you are both at the top of your game. ...
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| How to know hes interested | 12/27/2006 |
Q: Theres a guy whom i see quite often in our small town, we are both in our thirties and divorced with ...
A: Well, it sounds like he's interested enough to do a double-take, but not quite up to asking you out ...
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| guy at work | 12/24/2006 |
Q: I've put in a new email, which is my private email, no spam. I'd like to get some coaching. I need ...
A: Good thinking. It's a good time to get some coaching. I didn't see an email in your note...??? ...
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| THIS FEELING IS DRIVING ME CRAZY | 12/22/2006 |
Q: This is hard for me to ask. but here goes. I have seen this guy for about a month but not steady, ...
A: Uh oh You've hooked into something that's really addictive. Not sure anyone understands exactly ...
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| if someone avoids u then how 2 attract him back?? | 12/21/2006 |
Q: wel ders one boy whum i realy lyk n i stay online 2 tok 2 him almost all day long.bt wat i get in ...
A: Does he write the same way you do, i mean lyk dis? It might be turning him off that you don't write ...
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| really really like him | 12/21/2006 |
Q: Susan, I have a question. I met this Man a few months ago, he asked me out for Dinner after work one ...
A: Well this is the second one today where the guy is acting ambivalent and the woman mentions the word ...
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| help me | 12/20/2006 |
Q: ok well there is this guy call chanler and he fancies me and i kind of fancey him but he isnt that ...
A: I don't know what you mean, should you go out with him. If he asks you to, and you like him, sure. ...
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| How do i get him to notice me anymore? | 12/18/2006 |
Q: I am a senior at my local high school and I'm not exactly the most popular but i do have alot of ...
A: I'm sorry to tell you this, but this is going to be a learning experience for you, and a sad one. ...
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| Should I love him or leave him? | 12/18/2006 |
Q: There is this guy who I am so crazy for, it's insane. The chemistry between us is electric and I ...
A: Nonverbal signs are always difficult to interpret, so it's good to keep them simple, obvious and ...
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| Confused and Waiting | 12/17/2006 |
Q: I'm leaving a TERRIBLE relationship of 6yrs. I've been secretly confining in a friend (male) x3yrs. ...
A: Kim, you really are confused. It would be a good idea if you took some time to work on your ...
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| guy at work | 12/10/2006 |
Q: I've been at this job for almost 4 months. The 'guy' is a senior sales rep (I'm junior). He's ...
A: You messed up, alright, but long before the incident you mention. I don't know what your goals ...
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| How to meet a quality guy | 12/10/2006 |
Q: I am 21 and having problems meeting the right type of guy for me. I am afraid that I am too picky. ...
A: It's not that easy to find a really neat guy, ok? You're right to take your time and to stick to ...
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| guys | 12/8/2006 |
Q: Hey Theres this guy on my bus and he is so amazing and I realy want to get to know him, but I don't ...
A: I don't think the age difference will make much difference to him. Oh, just talk to him like you do ...
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| One sided Love | 12/5/2006 |
Q: Well, I see him at school and around the school's neighborhood. I really need to know how to talk to ...
A: The response I sent you is below the one you wrote, here: Hi Maniza, I know how hard it is to be ...
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| asking | 12/2/2006 |
Q: I have met a guy . He is older than me . He is 32 and I am 24. we have dated each others since 3 ...
A: I'm glad you like him so much. Just be good to him. They like to take the action, it's their ...
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| One sided Love | 11/29/2006 |
Q: I've been in love with this guy for the longest time ...ever since sixth grade. So, one day I ...
A: I know how hard it is to be in love "all by yourself." You don't tell me where you run into him - ...
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| i need a boyfriend | 11/28/2006 |
Q: ok. there is this boy named ty. and he already knows i like him. and he even said that i was hot! ...
A: Wait it out and be yourself. If he said that about you, he'll probably tire of his current girl ...
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| online friend | 11/27/2006 |
Q: Here is my question. I have talked to this guy (37) for almost a year now, off and on.. He always ...
A: GOOD QUESTION. Glad you're smart enough to be asking. Guys can do this phone/email thing, then ...
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| need help | 11/19/2006 |
Q: m a 20yr old girl doing my 2nd yr in college.there's this guy i really find cute and would love to ...
A: Well, you are lucky in that he knows how to reach you if her wants to. And that's kind of the key ...
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| I can't tell if he's married or not | 11/17/2006 |
Q: I really like this guy and I want to ask him out, but I don't know if he's married or not. He's ...
A: A man who is married and wants the world to know it, wears a ring that looks like a wedding band on ...
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| Dating and relationships | 11/14/2006 |
Q: I need to know if I should pursue a relationship with my ex-doctor? See I was his patient for ...
A: There is nothing wrong with telling him how you feel. It is true that you don't know if he feels ...
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| get the man of your dreams | 11/6/2006 |
Q: What are some steps you should take to get the man of your dreams?
A: 1. Sign up with a Relationship Coach. When you're really ready to get serious, make the ...
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| help | 11/4/2006 |
Q: I have been told that if you treat a woman with respect and you behave as if you were a ...
A: Yes there is a difference in making friends with a woman and in courting a woman for a serious ...
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| Wanting a relationship.. | 10/31/2006 |
Q: I have a guy friend in whih I searched for for 6 years and found we've become intimate since ...
A: There is something wrong with a man who is intimitate with you an then says he is not ready to be in ...
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| Marriage after 9 years | 10/30/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, have 3 kids together and I am ready to get ...
A: I'm sorry but I don't understand your behavior at all. You are telling me after living with a man ...
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| have a crush... but don't know how to ask him out... | 10/28/2006 |
Q: there is this boy in my saturday tutor class. i hav a major crush on him but i'm the sort who's too ...
A: Well, it might be a litte bit embarassing if he says "no" but think what fun you would have if he ...
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