| Subject | Date Asked |
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| How to attrack him | 11/18/2009 |
Q: There's a guy that I have been "talking to" for almost a year now. He sees me as a friend with ...
A: Let's start by getting the mistakes most girls make out of the way. Most girls (that frankly, don't ...
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| could you please help me figure this out.. | 11/12/2009 |
Q: I'm Rose. I'm 21 and a Taurus. =) My friends often describe me as: Smart, Goofy, silly, cute, fun, ...
A: Yes; you're right about it only being in a woman's world that personality is king (queen?) The good ...
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| Relationship advice | 11/8/2009 |
Q: Dr. Dennis W. Neder, My name is Rachel and I just recently became involved with a fellow six ...
A: So, what are you waiting for with your boyfriend? For him to find some other woman that WILL give ...
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| Relationship advice | 11/8/2009 |
Q: Dr. Dennis W. Neder, My name is Rachel and I just recently became involved with a fellow six ...
A: You, my dear, are fucking awesome for even asking this question! Do you know how many women simply ...
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| how do i get him to talk to me | 9/29/2009 |
Q: I wanna give some background on my question here. So i have a best friend and just found out a few ...
A: Start dating him! Ok, you've gotten the sex out of the way. That's actually a very good thing in ...
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| Mixed Signals From Him! | 9/28/2009 |
Q: -) I have a very interesting problem going on with my bestfriend, who is also my biggest crush! He ...
A: You should do exactly what you're doing now. You're dating. Who cares what he or anyone else decides ...
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| Love or sex | 9/14/2009 |
Q: "I gotta know this guy through facebook. We chatted for a quite a while like few weeks, exchanged ...
A: Yes, you need to meet him in person, but the new problem is that you're looking for the sure thing. ...
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| love | 9/13/2009 |
Q: helo. how are you. my name is grace, i,m a college sophmore(fashion student) i,m 18 going on 19 ...
A: Yes, I have a ton of ideas for you. Obviously, I can't go into them all right here via messaging - ...
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| Love or sex | 9/12/2009 |
Q: "I gotta know this guy through facebook. We chatted for a quite a while like few weeks, exchanged ...
A: From all this messaging - you can't. You two are trying to build a relationship via texting and ...
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| How do I attract the man of my dreams online | 8/31/2009 |
Q: Last January I lost my job. Recently I had to move across the US, from city suburbs in the West to ...
A: If you're trying to attract men through the internet, you're just going to have to take what comes. ...
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| Does he just see me as a sister? | 7/22/2009 |
Q: I guy told me i'm like his sister, does that mean we could never date and he just sees me as his ...
A: I don't know this guy and I don't read minds. I can't possibly tell you what he means by this! Maybe ...
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| The perfect date... What went wrong? | 7/10/2009 |
Q: In May, I was introduced to someone through a coworker. He's a firefighter, who wants to advance ...
A: Of course there's something could have done to make this up to him. The problem is that you've ...
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| The perfect date... What went wrong? | 7/9/2009 |
Q: In May, I was introduced to someone through a coworker. He's a firefighter, who wants to advance ...
A: This sounds like a case where you did almost everything right and for some reason it just didn't ...
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| Should women approach men? | 7/9/2009 |
Q: I have conflicting thoughts about whether or not it is okay for a female to initiate the ...
A: First off, I'm very proud of you for making the decision that you're not simply going to wait by the ...
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| Should women approach men? | 7/8/2009 |
Q: I have conflicting thoughts about whether or not it is okay for a female to initiate the ...
A: Yes, I understand that you're confused. You have your sisters to thank for that. Men have never been ...
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| how to get my ex back | 7/6/2009 |
Q: hey its this guy in ma school. we were into a relationship for a month. but due to some problems we ...
A: If you remain as friends, that's all you'll ever be. If you want him to miss you, you're going to ...
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| how to get my ex back | 7/6/2009 |
Q: hey its this guy in ma school. we were into a relationship for a month. but due to some problems we ...
A: You definitely DO NOT want to be his friend here! You want something more and if you're always ...
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| how to firt with a man long distance | 6/21/2009 |
Q: we live 13 hours away, he is recently devoriced and has said to me he is dating... we met on a ...
A: You don't have to flirt to see if you're wasting your time - you ARE wasting your time. Vettie, ...
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| What Should I Do Next?! | 6/16/2009 |
Q: Hey! Well I'm having a problem. For some reason, I am starting to like this guy that I have liked ...
A: Well, always! If you simply react to things, you're never going to get the best a situation has to ...
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| What Should I Do Next?! | 6/16/2009 |
Q: Hey! Well I'm having a problem. For some reason, I am starting to like this guy that I have liked ...
A: If you haven't really thought about him for awhile and are only now doing so, what's probably ...
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| Nervous to be single again | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I just went through my first breakup (I’m 19). It sucks, but I know it’s for the best. The thing ...
A: What changes to make? Here's a good list to start: 1) Relationship goals. Have you ever sat down to ...
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| Nervous to be single again | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I just went through my first breakup (I’m 19). It sucks, but I know it’s for the best. The thing ...
A: Let me tell you a little story. When I was in Jr. High School, there was this skinny, mousy girl in ...
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| a question | 6/9/2009 |
Q: I just wanted to know why would a male friend tell you not to worry about it if you asked him why he ...
A: Hey Joann! Yes, you're probably right. I think there's a lesson in there somewhere. Best ...
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| a question | 6/9/2009 |
Q: I just wanted to know why would a male friend tell you not to worry about it if you asked him why he ...
A: If you wanted to know what it means, then why did you lie to him? If you're quick about it, no, ...
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| a question | 6/8/2009 |
Q: I just wanted to know why would a male friend tell you not to worry about it if you asked him why he ...
A: ...and I want to know something too: why do you think I can read someone else's mind? I have no idea ...
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| a vital question | 6/5/2009 |
Q: I am a university student from Egypt. I am writing to you because I really do need your advice. My ...
A: Actually, your English is better than many native-speakers! It's sure better than my Egyptian! ...
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| dating/going out | 6/5/2009 |
Q: My question is I am in my mid forties and I want to know how do you find a boyfriend these days, I ...
A: Hey Joann! Ok, I'm "back". Now what? You didn't ask me anything. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. ...
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| dating/going out | 6/2/2009 |
Q: My question is I am in my mid forties and I want to know how do you find a boyfriend these days, I ...
A: I'm afraid I don't read minds in order to tell you what happened with this guy. If you want to know, ...
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| dating/going out | 6/2/2009 |
Q: My question is I am in my mid forties and I want to know how do you find a boyfriend these days, I ...
A: First of all, you probably know how much I plead with people to avoid long-distance relationships. ...
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| looks & love | 6/1/2009 |
Q: i wanted to ask 2 questions. first- i wanted to ask that how much r looks important to guys when ...
A: 1) Very. A woman's looks are her "currency" in relationships. That doesn't mean that other things ...
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| Getting him back | 5/29/2009 |
Q: I moved to the dominican republic a year ago and re-encountered myself with a guy i had met about 4 ...
A: Confused? You and me both. What is it you want to know? It doesn't seem as though this is going to ...
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| I now feel SUPER DESPERATE! | 5/26/2009 |
Q: After taking your advice, I decided to just roll with it, and have completely thrown the "rule" idea ...
A: No, I haven't seen that movie but I've heard of it. I also understand how you feel - yes it is ...
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| I now feel SUPER DESPERATE! | 5/26/2009 |
Q: After taking your advice, I decided to just roll with it, and have completely thrown the "rule" idea ...
A: I understand. All that feminine wiring and misinformation just wants to kick in and make you feel ...
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| Mr. How Do I Know Mr. Right? | 5/26/2009 |
Q: I have been in two relationships (short term approx. 6 months each) but I knew both of them were not ...
A: You can thank your game-playing sisters for a lot of this pushiness you're finding from guys. These ...
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| am i acting too desperate? | 5/24/2009 |
Q: Ive recently been talking to a guy (we havent met yet) my friend set us up. Its been a month, he ...
A: Hey Yasmine! You have an excellent plan! Go make it work! Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder ...
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| am i acting too desperate? | 5/23/2009 |
Q: Ive recently been talking to a guy (we havent met yet) my friend set us up. Its been a month, he ...
A: This answer makes you "happy"? Maybe you didn't understand it fully?? ;) This "Susan" you spoke ...
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| am i acting too desperate? | 5/22/2009 |
Q: Ive recently been talking to a guy (we havent met yet) my friend set us up. Its been a month, he ...
A: You girls and your silly fears of looking desperate! No, it doesn't look desperate to guys at all. ...
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| bitchy women get all the men? | 5/20/2009 |
Q: There is a fat ugly girl at my school, who is very loud, obnoxious, mean, and very bitchy. She is ...
A: Actually, you're not too far off here. Here's what she knows that most women don't: 1) She knows ...
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| how to get them | 5/20/2009 |
Q: helo, my name is grace, i,m 19 years old, its my second year in college. i,m very classy, not ...
A: Actually, this is a great question! I see women all the time that simply think that "...guys should ...
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| bitchy women get all the men? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: There is a fat ugly girl at my school, who is very loud, obnoxious, mean, and very bitchy. She is ...
A: Many times this sort of boldness is there to mask other insecurities. However, the boldness itself ...
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| Finding Mr. Right | 5/12/2009 |
Q: Neder, I like your comment that you shouldn't be waiting to meet Mr. Right. Hopefully you can help ...
A: I fully understand how you feel about approaching men. Welcome to our worlds! This is what we have ...
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| Finding Mr. Right | 5/12/2009 |
Q: Neder, I like your comment that you shouldn't be waiting to meet Mr. Right. Hopefully you can help ...
A: 1) Here's the reality: while the entire "cougar" concept is alive and well, it's not reality. It's ...
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| crush | 5/9/2009 |
Q: i have a huge crush on a guy in my college ,i realy like him and i some how feel that even he likes ...
A: Why do you want to take things this far to tell him how you feel about him? Why not simply break the ...
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| life...oh life | 5/7/2009 |
Q: Two questions. 1. The girls that give sex up front are getting all the guys...but they don't keep ...
A: 1) I don't know your partner, so it's hard to say. Investment comes in many forms from simply ...
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| re | 5/7/2009 |
Q: Dennis, a couple questions. I'm sorry if these are exhausting. 1. How come in the old days, women ...
A: 1) I have no reliable statistics on this, but I'll bet it's not different from any other industry. ...
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| How to Attract a Potential Ladies Man | 4/27/2009 |
Q: Neder, I met this amazing guy that I'm incredibly attracted to! He's a freshman in college and Im ...
A: Yes, "hanging out" means being together in a casual way - no pressure. Too many people are doing ...
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| How to Attract a Potential Ladies Man | 4/25/2009 |
Q: Neder, I met this amazing guy that I'm incredibly attracted to! He's a freshman in college and Im ...
A: You think this guy is a "lady's man"??? I don't think you know what that is. If it were true, he'd ...
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| found him now what????? | 4/19/2009 |
Q: I think the perfect man is my close friend. He is 12 yrs older and has no kids...I have 2. He ...
A: Your situation is very different from the usual long-distance situation since 1/2 the time, he's ...
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| emo love... | 4/16/2009 |
Q: I am seventeen years old. I like this guy named Mark. He is so cute and I like his personality but I ...
A: Why are you giving yourself all these limitations? You feel that you're not as witty as other people ...
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| Does he like me? What do I do? | 4/12/2009 |
Q: I am at school and the guy i like is 2 years older than me. I really like him and he is perfect for ...
A: Unfortunately, I have no idea if he likes you or not. Doing this friendship thing however is working ...
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| questions | 4/11/2009 |
Q: Hey Dr. Needer. I have a couple of different questions. I've been reading through some of your ...
A: What incredibly great questions these are! I thank you for asking them! More important, these are ...
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| article | 4/8/2009 |
Q: Take a moment to read the article and the comments written below it. (It's fairly short) ...
A: What do you want me to say? Yes, they are bad, bad people; intent on maxing out all your credit ...
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| should I pursue? | 4/8/2009 |
Q: I am a 28 year old woman. I'm in graduate school pursuing a doctorate. I met an incredibly handsome ...
A: Yo! Doreen! No, it's not part of the game. Maybe it's just you. I don't think they're nuts however ...
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| article | 4/7/2009 |
Q: Take a moment to read the article and the comments written below it. (It's fairly short) ...
A: Sorry, I don't have time to go through the internet and read articles. Yes, there's every bit of a ...
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| should I pursue? | 4/7/2009 |
Q: I am a 28 year old woman. I'm in graduate school pursuing a doctorate. I met an incredibly handsome ...
A: Hey Doreen! Although, it seems to be working. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ...
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| should I pursue? | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I am a 28 year old woman. I'm in graduate school pursuing a doctorate. I met an incredibly handsome ...
A: Sorry, I thought I made that clear. Yes, I think you'd be stupid to pursue this guy unless you want ...
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| Is it possible? | 4/5/2009 |
Q: I LOVE how you answer questions its remarkable! You ask others and they say things like just be your ...
A: Well, let's see if you LOVE how I answer your question or not! Your key to get a conversation going ...
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| How do i attract this guy that takes the same bus as me?? | 3/30/2009 |
Q: !! So, i kinda have this huge crush on this guy who waits for the same bus as i am at the same bus ...
A: First of all, I'm very proud of you (as a girl) for being willing to make the first move. So few ...
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| interested in a friend...help | 3/30/2009 |
Q: So there is a rather long story behind all this, but the shortened version is that over the years ...
A: A long story? There always is. Here's what's going on with your "friend": his "window of ...
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| crazed blog | 3/24/2009 |
Q: .. I looked at his facebook and myspace and friendster accounts... and I looked at his notes and his ...
A: I would never presume to diagnose someone from a description written by someone else. I don't know ...
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| crazed blog | 3/23/2009 |
Q: .. I looked at his facebook and myspace and friendster accounts... and I looked at his notes and his ...
A: If you even have to ask me this question, I have to wonder about YOU? OF COURSE NOT! Why would you ...
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| sexuality...and psychosis? | 3/23/2009 |
Q: Hey Dennis, I've noticed something. From dating lots of men, I've found that men who tend to be ...
A: I've had some REALLY great questions today and this is another one of them! I'm not sure if smart ...
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| the one | 3/5/2009 |
Q: . I like this guy at my job..he is about 12 years older than me (im 25)..I heard about him even ...
A: First of all, no, your story is not silly at all. Second of all, no, I'm not going to tell you to ...
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| I'm confused | 3/4/2009 |
Q: I'm in high school and I'm ready to date again after my last relationship that ended about a year ...
A: You may very well have read him correctly, but too much time has past. This is extremely common ...
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| How to tell if a guy is really interested? | 3/2/2009 |
Q: So I went on a date with this guy last Sunday and I thought the date went really well. We really had ...
A: First, let's clear this up: yes, he wants to get into your pants. That's not a bad thing however. ...
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| Totally Confused | 3/1/2009 |
Q: Since age 20 I have secretly been in love with this man. He approached me, but I ran because I was a ...
A: I can only answer questions based on what someone tells me. I think it's a dumb choice to want ...
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| Totally Confused | 2/28/2009 |
Q: Since age 20 I have secretly been in love with this man. He approached me, but I ran because I was a ...
A: Wow. What a pathetic, tragic waste of time and energy. 30 years? Frankly, it sickens me to think ...
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| porn and boyfriend | 2/28/2009 |
Q: Hey, my boyfriend found out that I like to watch porn, which is unusual for a girl, and that made ...
A: As with most things, the answer isn't as simple as just a single thing. There are a number of ...
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| porn and boyfriend | 2/28/2009 |
Q: Hey, my boyfriend found out that I like to watch porn, which is unusual for a girl, and that made ...
A: Actually, no. It's not unusual at all. Many, MANY women enjoy porn just like guys do. You'd probably ...
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| Should Single Mothers Date? | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I have to ask. Are you gay??? You seem to have a problem with single mothers which would mean with ...
A: Since you've asked this question as part of the public forum, I can either ignore it or answer it. ...
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| im so tired of catty fucking bitches | 2/21/2009 |
Q: I have an abusive roommate who is really overweight and unattractive, and bitchy. I'm very ...
A: You know, I've answered well over 26,000 of these letters from readers/viewers and in only the last ...
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| coworkers | 2/21/2009 |
Q: I'm a very successful woman who works for a large PR firm. I have been promoted quite quickly. I ...
A: Part of doing well at work is playing the politics. Doing your job well (and to be honest EVERYONE ...
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| How to get to the dating stage?? | 2/13/2009 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and I find it very hard to actually get boyfriends because I'm so shy around them. ...
A: Let's get this little fact out in the open first: playing "hard to get" is the dumbest, worst game ...
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| relationship at work | 2/6/2009 |
Q: Dennis, First, I would like to apologize for this long email, and I hope you are able to help me ...
A: If you're absolutely sure he knows and is ignoring your request, then it seems he's not interested. ...
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| relationship at work | 2/6/2009 |
Q: Dennis, First, I would like to apologize for this long email, and I hope you are able to help me ...
A: This seems to be the day to answer this same question! I've already answered it twice for two other ...
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| No Question | 2/5/2009 |
Q: I just wanted to tell you - I love your answers!
A: I love that you love my answers! Much love... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ...
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| Do I have any hope to find Mr. Right? :( | 2/4/2009 |
Q: okay. I'm in my early thirties, guys hit on me, and I just want to hang out, do things, not have ...
A: Don't bother trying "anything" - do the right things instead. Also, don't give yourself a time limit ...
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| Do I have any hope to find Mr. Right? :( | 2/3/2009 |
Q: okay. I'm in my early thirties, guys hit on me, and I just want to hang out, do things, not have ...
A: Whoa! Where do I begin with you here?? Yes, I agree. If you continue to do what you're doing now, ...
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| Dick Sucking Lips | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm in grade 8 at my high school and I really like a boy who's in one of ...
A: Let me be clear about this: what you hear and the reality of things are quite different! You hear ...
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| annoyed | 1/25/2009 |
Q: I'm a 27 year old woman and I don't have a boyfriend. I have not had too much experience with men ...
A: Are you asking me why anyone would do this or why your mother would do this? I don't know your ...
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| annoyed | 1/25/2009 |
Q: I'm a 27 year old woman and I don't have a boyfriend. I have not had too much experience with men ...
A: Tell her that her rude put-downs are going to cause her to lose contact with her daughter. You don't ...
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| Beginning or the end? | 1/24/2009 |
Q: Neder, I’ve read few of your answers and even people who asked maybe don’t like them, I think you ...
A: "Brutally honest, smart and brave"??? Well at least I'm brutal! Let's see if you still feel that way ...
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| advice pls.. | 1/19/2009 |
Q: im 33yrs old seperated woman with 1 five yr old kid, havent been dating anyone since 5yrs now, but ...
A: Hey Sandra! You've come full-circle on this. It's these very fears, lack of self-confidence, ...
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| What does this actually mean? | 1/19/2009 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: Hey! Being 13 years old, you obviously don't realize how incredibly rude you've been by asking a ...
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| What does this actually mean? | 1/18/2009 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: If it's not important enough for you to write a reasonable summary of your question, it sure as hell ...
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| What does this actually mean? | 1/18/2009 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: You can't possibly expect me to read all of this - especially considering I have over 50 of these ...
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| advice pls.. | 1/18/2009 |
Q: im 33yrs old seperated woman with 1 five yr old kid, havent been dating anyone since 5yrs now, but ...
A: You're very welcome. One more piece of advice: AVOID the internet to meet men!!! There are a ton of ...
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| advice pls.. | 1/16/2009 |
Q: im 33yrs old seperated woman with 1 five yr old kid, havent been dating anyone since 5yrs now, but ...
A: No, I understand what you're asking. You want to know how to create a strong, passionate, worthwhile ...
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| Have I ruined it or just getting paranoid | 1/15/2009 |
Q: I have now been on three dates with this girl - one lunch and two dinner. Last time I went to an ...
A: Yes, do that. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~. ...
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| Grinding With My Crush | 1/12/2009 |
Q: i'm a girl from texas, i'm 17 years young, and i need advice on whether my crush likes me or not! ...
A: Sorry, I never learned how to read minds either! It sounds like there's some attraction there for ...
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| He confused me with his mix message | 1/1/2009 |
Q: I have found your web site really interesting about man and woman relationship. So today is my ...
A: Move on. You've done so much damage here with all the misdirection and being obtuse that you've lost ...
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| post traumatic stress | 12/29/2008 |
Q: About a year ago, I had two roommates. One day, my former roommate screamed at me at the top of her ...
A: Hey! What would I have done? I'd laugh at them, right in their face. Then, I'd feel badly about it ...
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| post traumatic stress | 12/29/2008 |
Q: About a year ago, I had two roommates. One day, my former roommate screamed at me at the top of her ...
A: Oh-Nameless-One! I'm glad it's helping. When you get as far along as you did, sometimes it's a crap ...
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| post traumatic stress | 12/27/2008 |
Q: About a year ago, I had two roommates. One day, my former roommate screamed at me at the top of her ...
A: This story sounds familiar. Did you write to me before about this? If not, my apologies. Either way, ...
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| Lonely | 12/21/2008 |
Q: I am a 30-year-old single mother of 2 amazing children. I have a college degree, a good, stable job ...
A: You have a couple of things working against you here. Unfortunately, the first is your kids. The ...
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| prude | 12/18/2008 |
Q: Is being prude, unexperienced (didn't even have my first kiss yet)and not flirtatious a huge turn ...
A: It depends. Which guy? Where? When? Yes, for some guys it's a turn off and for others it's not. It ...
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| Anxious | 12/11/2008 |
Q: I m attempting something makes me anticipate excitement but something I am awfully anxious and ...
A: Hey! You're sure quick to let your own judgments of this guy become your reality! Why would you ...
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| will he marry me | 12/7/2008 |
Q: I guess my situation is common but let me ask what you think any way. i am a 42 yr old women that ...
A: Oh! That changes everything! No WONDER he won't marry you, you're a bitch! I think it's time to ...
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| will he marry me | 12/7/2008 |
Q: I guess my situation is common but let me ask what you think any way. i am a 42 yr old women that ...
A: Oh my god Michele! You've wanted to be married for all of these 4 years and you still aren't? What ...
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| i like him but i said no earlyer before i liked guys | 12/4/2008 |
Q: i realy like this guy at school and in fifth grade he said he liked me but i said i didn't but now i ...
A: This is a very good lesson for you so that you'll never do this again. This would be a good time to ...
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| sex... holy shit. | 12/2/2008 |
Q: So, I have reread this message several times and I have come to the conclusion that I have ...
A: I don't know what message you're referring to and I don't know who "Beth" is. Are you sure you're ...
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| Anxious | 12/2/2008 |
Q: I m attempting something makes me anticipate excitement but something I am awfully anxious and ...
A: Yes you did get personal attention. Feels all warm and fuzzy, huh?? Sorry, I didn't get that about ...
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| Anxious | 12/1/2008 |
Q: I m attempting something makes me anticipate excitement but something I am awfully anxious and ...
A: Late 20's is "pretty old"??? How DARE YOU!!! ;) My mother was also small - about 4' 10" but ...
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| hello | 11/30/2008 |
Q: i have a question. I am 19 a sophmore in college, and am afraid of when meeting guys cause i don't ...
A: Your self-image has a lot to do with how others react to you, so in that way, yes. Not having a lot ...
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| double standards .with the ugly girls paying the price of cold hard souldless rejection | 11/23/2008 |
Q: question is why guys are such assholes,for girls like me who like ugly betty ,and i know ugly betty ...
A: Louise, I've told you many times you need help. Stop writing to me under ANY name or I'm going to ...
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| man of my dreams | 11/22/2008 |
Q: "I am 24 year old young woman.I generally had some fiasco relationships and most of the time boys ...
A: I'm sorry to hear about this story, and your general problems in finding a good guy. However, not ...
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| Want to fix things | 11/19/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help me. My problem is a bit complicated. I have been going out with this guy for ...
A: Sorry for the late answer - my internet connection is down! :( First of all, I don't believe in ...
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| rejection | 11/18/2008 |
Q: so how is when i like i get rejected . but when he likes a girls he doesn,t get rejected ? it ...
A: I have absolutely no idea what you're asking me here. If you want a clear answer, you're going to ...
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| Should I try to date my manager? | 11/18/2008 |
Q: I started working at a new place a few months ago and I'm totally head over heels for my manager. I ...
A: Do it! I don't agree that you shouldn't date someone you work with. You just need to be realistic ...
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| finding a guy to date | 11/15/2008 |
Q: I met a guy on the job two months ago that interested me. He is very attractive, well spoken and ...
A: You keep writing to me and then doing whatever you want so I hope you've responded to his text. If ...
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| geuine | 11/15/2008 |
Q: why is it impossible to find why genuine,sinerce,qiuet,sweet guy . guy.who isn,t cold hearted ...
A: You couldn't be more wrong. Here in the REAL world that isn't the case at all. You MAKE your own ...
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| finding a guy to date | 11/15/2008 |
Q: I met a guy on the job two months ago that interested me. He is very attractive, well spoken and ...
A: Wow, where do I begin with you? If there's a mistake to be made, you're making it! If you and he ...
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| finding a guy to date | 11/14/2008 |
Q: I met a guy on the job two months ago that interested me. He is very attractive, well spoken and ...
A: GOOD ON YOU, Rina!! I'm very proud of you for taking that step to call him. Now, on to the mistakes ...
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| help please quick part 2 | 11/13/2008 |
Q: well the class i am no body knew him but me and he started talking at the start of the course now he ...
A: Sorry, but if you want me to know what we've talked about in the past you HAVE to copy the previous ...
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| help please quick | 11/12/2008 |
Q: i was woundering how do i get nerdy type intersted in me and i am making fun of them.i like this ...
A: Don't be so sure that this guy has a bikini-clad beauty waiting in the wings. Trust me, I talk to ...
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| The | 10/28/2008 |
Q: I am a 30 year old single mom of 2. My children's father and I have been separated for over 6 years. ...
A: Yes, I'm saying that in a way. The "master list" isn't so much a set of hard-and-fast rules by ...
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| The "List" | 10/27/2008 |
Q: I am a 30 year old single mom of 2. My children's father and I have been separated for over 6 years. ...
A: If I knew you I could tell whether these things are "reasonable" or not for you. I have some ...
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| not appealing | 10/10/2008 |
Q: i am 27 yaers old.and how do i get a boyfreinds.any guy i likes doesn,t facny me and i don,t wnat to ...
A: You've asked me this question untold numbers of times and I've answered it. The problem is that you ...
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| looks | 9/22/2008 |
Q: i was woundering can girls who are fat and unattractive looking get a boyfreinds ,and is there any ...
A: Yes, girls that are fat and unattractive can get boyfriends. However, why are you fat and ...
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| short | 9/10/2008 |
Q: i got question do guys hate short girls.when i am around a tall guy of 5ft 7" he doesn,t want to be ...
A: No. Men don't hate short women. Everybody has preferences and some men prefer tall women and some ...
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| 3 Eager Fiance's = 1 Big Problem | 8/27/2008 |
Q: Let me start off by saying that it wasn't my intention for this quandry to happen. I've gone from a ...
A: This is one of those cases where you're going to really hate my injecting reality and are likely ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/11/2008 |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Hey Lynn! No, you're not annoying. Actually "irritating" is more like it! ;) Why, oh why do you ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/10/2008 |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Yes, I caught that mistake (he canceled the date) after I sent you the message, but the message was ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/9/2008 |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Holy shit Lynn! Why in THE HELL would you actually try to create what you didn't want to have happen ...
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| College | 8/1/2008 |
Q: I am 18 and about to leave for college. I am super excited to meet tons of new people and in ...
A: Wow! So many questions! Ok, let's jump into this: First of all, college IS going to be a completely ...
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| Douchebag! | 7/26/2008 |
Q: hes the hottest guy in our town. Tall, super huge muscles, bangin' body, nice clothes, nice Porsche ...
A: Yes, absolutely I'm saying that he's not. Trust me on this. If your description of him is accurate, ...
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| Douchebag! | 7/24/2008 |
Q: hes the hottest guy in our town. Tall, super huge muscles, bangin' body, nice clothes, nice Porsche ...
A: Your impression of him is far different from the reality - trust me. He can't be this big a ...
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| intelligence and gender | 7/24/2008 |
Q: are women less intelligent than men? My mom says men have higher IQs. she says guys are smarter. ...
A: Maybe men have higher IQ's than your mom! Here's the reality: Men are far better at being men than ...
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| When is it too late for sex? When is it too early? | 7/24/2008 |
Q: when is too soon to have sex with a man? im not talking about one night stands or hookups or flings ...
A: Too early: when you're not ready. Too late: when he loses the ability to connect emotionally. It's ...
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| how to keep my man | 7/22/2008 |
Q: my names Anna.i have a difficult situation with my man and i need your help much! this is the ...
A: It took me awhile to understand that "smth" means "something" - that's a very odd abbreviation ...
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| willing to wait | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I am a 36 year old woman and I'm dating a 29 year old man. When we were first dating he was still a ...
A: No, there's no issue with your ages. It's only 7 years! Frankly, I'm more concerned that he hasn't ...
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| willing to wait | 7/20/2008 |
Q: I am a 36 year old woman and I'm dating a 29 year old man. When we were first dating he was still a ...
A: You bet! People DO expect fireworks in bed because that's all you hear about. When someone lacks ...
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| asking a man out | 7/20/2008 |
Q: !! Is there a successful way to ask a man out on a date? It seems that I'm not doing it correctly. ...
A: First of all, I'm very proud of you for doing the asking. Many women just won't make that move and ...
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| Winning him over | 7/10/2008 |
Q: 22f, single all my life, 200 pds. I had a brain tumour removed and have poor social skills. I want ...
A: First of all, congratulations on losing the weight and getting to work on yourself and your skills. ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Hey Jerrie! Yes, I'm from the SouthWest (Los Angeles) so I'm pretty up on my cowboy (cowgirl?) ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Hey Jerrie! The system doesn't let me respond to your rating comments so I wanted to do so here. ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Yes, I think you've told me everything except for one thing: you didn't bother asking me any ...
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| stunning looks dont necessarily equal love | 7/7/2008 |
Q: hey i notice something. a lot of drop dead. gorgeous beautiful women have a really rough time dating ...
A: There are a number of causes for it. First of all, men rarely approach these beauties. Most men ...
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| Shy guy meets Shy girl | 7/7/2008 |
Q: There is a guy at church who I think likes me but he is shy. One day he walked up to me and gave me ...
A: He doesn't sound shy, he sounds inexperienced - VERY inexperienced! So, what are you going to do? ...
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| sex too soon? | 7/6/2008 |
Q: Dennis Neder. I was wondering when is it too soon to have sex with a guy? Cuz one of my friends ...
A: How rare and how unsophisticated. Is this a real scenario? Frankly, it stinks like last weeks ...
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| questions | 7/6/2008 |
Q: Dennis. You know how a great sex life keeps a married couple together. Ok I was wondering, in ...
A: Sure, even a broken clock is right twice a day! In fact, it's reasonably rare that couples with a ...
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| oops | 7/6/2008 |
Q: Hey Dennis, This is kinda embarassing. Ok I really like a guy at school. So the other day him and ...
A: Maybe it's your breath. Obviously, I don't know you so I can't say why men don't approach you. On ...
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| oops | 7/5/2008 |
Q: Hey Dennis, This is kinda embarassing. Ok I really like a guy at school. So the other day him and ...
A: Haven't I answered this exact same question for you a number of times before this? What, you didn't ...
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| Are there any good ones left? | 7/1/2008 |
Q: I am a single mother of two; a fourteen year old autistic boy and a charming four year. I am 31 ...
A: A woman I know does a seminar on how women can meet wealthy professionals. She opens her seminar by ...
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| shy crush | 6/30/2008 |
Q: There's this guy at work (I'm 18, he's 21) that I like very much. The only problem is that he's ...
A: "Stalkerish"??? Trust me, you're not going to look like a stalker, but you'd better do something or ...
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| roomates | 6/29/2008 |
Q: Hey, I have 2 female roomates. I'm tall, skinny, and pretty. They are short, fat, and ugly. ...
A: Oh, I'm sure it's because you're the most gorgeous, beautiful, witty, interesting, funny, ...
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| blowing a load | 6/29/2008 |
Q: I wanna meet girls so I can blow my huge wad of cum all over their faces. How can I do this? ...
A: If you want to date normal, healthy, clinically sane women, you have to BE normal, healthy and ...
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| blowing a load | 6/29/2008 |
Q: I wanna meet girls so I can blow my huge wad of cum all over their faces. How can I do this?
A: Get into the porn business. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ...
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| roomates | 6/29/2008 |
Q: Hey, I have 2 female roomates. I'm tall, skinny, and pretty. They are short, fat, and ugly. ...
A: I'd just say, "They may be small, but they're attached to someone spectacular. Can yours say that?" ...
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| agendas | 6/29/2008 |
Q: What are common agendas for men in the dating world, and what are common agendas for women in the ...
A: I'm sorry, but my agenda doesn't allow me to divulge that information. Well, ok... People don't ...
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| OLDER MEN | 6/28/2008 |
Q: I am a 59-yr-old female with limited relationship experience due to being a caregiver for my mother. ...
A: No, I wouldn't say it's "common behavior" for any man - older or younger. It's apparent he has an ...
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| long term | 6/26/2008 |
Q: is it really that hard for a woman to get a man and then keep a man, marriage etc? why is it that ...
A: No, it's not really that hard, but the reality is that women do a lot of harm to their own causes by ...
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| dating | 6/26/2008 |
Q: 1. Why is it that really beautiful women with nice personalities and successful careers ... seem to ...
A: Mike! Yes, this is how you combine two questions into one. I've already answered them both. I hope ...
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| looks | 6/26/2008 |
Q: mr why is it only the good looking pepole find love . just let say the likes jensen ackles always ...
A: Louise, I've answered this for you before. It's your attitude, not your aptitude that determines ...
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| i'm ashamed | 6/25/2008 |
Q: What do i do?There's this boy in my school that is super attractive but whenever i get near him and ...
A: Don't worry - a lot of people feel this way. It's purely nervous energy and isn't that difficult to ...
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| The Girl who's wanted | 6/17/2008 |
Q: My name is Kristi and I am 20 years old. I turn 21 at the end of the year. I have moved into a ...
A: First of all, I'm not sure you have the right goals in mind. What you're asking for is to be the ...
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| guy | 6/17/2008 |
Q: I like this guy, he is one of those really hot guys that eveyr girl likes and he knows it and he ...
A: I wouldn't say you shouldn't bother with him, but your comment definitely caught him off guard. ...
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| the man I desire | 6/9/2008 |
Q: There is a guy at our graduate school who is absolutely gorgeous. He is the "big man on campus" and ...
A: Didn't I answer this exactly question for you before??? If you're hoping my answer will change, ...
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| dating | 6/9/2008 |
Q: I have a question that I hope you can help me with. I am 40 years old and going to be 41 soon. I ...
A: Hey SK! When a man is interested in a woman, he's usually falling all over himself to get with her. ...
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| dating | 6/9/2008 |
Q: I have a question that I hope you can help me with. I am 40 years old and going to be 41 soon. I ...
A: The signs? Well, let me make this easy for you: ALL guys want to get into your panties. Don't be ...
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| dating | 6/9/2008 |
Q: I have a question that I hope you can help me with. I am 40 years old and going to be 41 soon. I ...
A: You have a couple of obvious problems here. First of all, you seem to be holding out and only ...
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| roommates | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I'm 27 years old and I have 2 roommates, one is 22 and the other 24. Back in February they both ...
A: You didn't clean the apartment for 4 weeks??? With 3 girls living in the same place???? Holy shit! ...
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| beauty and resentment | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I'm a slim, trim, beautiful woman. I have noticed that all the fat, ugly girls at school really hate ...
A: Really? You're all that are you? Do you think that the issue might not be your looks, but your ...
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| new wife | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I'm 26 years old, never married. My current boyfriend is 26 years old also and he left his wife and ...
A: There's nothing to say that he won't leave you for someone else - or that he will either. This is a ...
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| Dating in 2008 | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I have noticed lately that when I meet a man, I have to do all the work. Such as asking him for his ...
A: What in the hell are you doing hinting about this in the first place? If you don't want to see him - ...
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| Dating in 2008 | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I have noticed lately that when I meet a man, I have to do all the work. Such as asking him for his ...
A: I know, I know. This isn't your job, but you feel like you have to be both the man AND the woman ...
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| advice | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I'm a married woman with a daughter, and I play bass guitar in a rock band. We have gotten a record ...
A: First off all, congratulations on the record deal! Think about this: you're only one in perhaps ...
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| re | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I met a man who I think is very handsome and a very hardworking, good guy who was in the army for ...
A: Hey Julie! You're asking me to read this guys mind and tell you what everything means. Julie, not ...
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| re | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I met a man who I think is very handsome and a very hardworking, good guy who was in the army for ...
A: Yo! Julie! Uh, sorry. I didn't pick that up. The repercussions are that he may decide to go back ...
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| attraction | 5/26/2008 |
Q: i ask a woman on the attarction of men she said men are attacted to bithces who are good looking ...
A: Bad advice. I'm a man and I specifically avoid bitches. I don't care how they look. Likewise I avoid ...
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| popular | 5/19/2008 |
Q: how is one guy is popular with all the girls and he not even goodlooking and bit snobby ...
A: I've answered this for you before. You change your attitude in all the ways I've told you. Louise, ...
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| How do I let him know I'm interested? | 5/18/2008 |
Q: I'm in year 12 at school and there's a guy in my class whom I really like, but I don't know how to ...
A: I'm glad it helped. Why are you so worried what anyone else thinks or knows? This is none of their ...
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| How do I let him know I'm interested? | 5/17/2008 |
Q: I'm in year 12 at school and there's a guy in my class whom I really like, but I don't know how to ...
A: First of all, I'm very, very proud of you for wanting to approach this guy. So many girls just wait ...
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| kissing | 5/7/2008 |
Q: is kissing instnt or does it have to be learned?because i don,t know i am up set thet i don,t know ...
A: No, kissing isn't instinctual at all. It's something you learn through practice. The good news ...
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| how do I talk to him | 5/6/2008 |
Q: So...about 2 years ago I went to my best friend's house for her birthday. (At this time I had been ...
A: No, I'm not going to confirm that at all. Contacting him may be the only way you'll ever see him ...
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| Sex | 5/6/2008 |
Q: Why is sex so important to a marriage and/or other types of relationships? What is it about the ...
A: Hey Rita! Ok. Yes, in fact there are many things you can do. It begins with the approach. Men are ...
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| Sex | 5/5/2008 |
Q: Why is sex so important to a marriage and/or other types of relationships? What is it about the ...
A: That depends. Is this someone you're already dating or something that you want to date. Also, how ...
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| Sex | 5/5/2008 |
Q: Why is sex so important to a marriage and/or other types of relationships? What is it about the ...
A: Yo! Rita! In fact, the mistaken belief held by most people is that men break up families. In ...
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| red flags | 5/4/2008 |
Q: What are some warning signals that could signify a dangerous man? Such as, when a woman like me is ...
A: Hey Rita! You hit the nail on the head - "regular sex". The reality is that a bad marriage will ...
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| red flags | 5/3/2008 |
Q: What are some warning signals that could signify a dangerous man? Such as, when a woman like me is ...
A: Either she knew what she wanted, or she just couldn't make up her mind and finally settled, or she ...
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| red flags | 5/3/2008 |
Q: What are some warning signals that could signify a dangerous man? Such as, when a woman like me is ...
A: Yes, I know how men are - and women too! Here's the real issue: why are you so terrified of men? ...
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| left out and unloved | 5/1/2008 |
Q: i know there is a lot of girls my age who had loads of boyfreinds all accept me.i know there is a ...
A: No, guys want to kiss girls that they are interested in - not "stunning" women only. Your job is to ...
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| What should I do now ?? | 4/28/2008 |
Q: -) !!!! Here is my ques: I m in collge and there is this guy who is my junior... I think he sort of ...
A: What's your next move? Go find someone else that you CAN have a relationship with. You blew this ...
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| attractiveness and sexual desire | 4/26/2008 |
Q: Why is it that very attractive men tend to be very sexual as well? Like all the gorgeous don juan ...
A: What makes you think you're an emotional or that you give off a physical "vibe"? This particular ...
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| attractiveness and sexual desire | 4/25/2008 |
Q: Why is it that very attractive men tend to be very sexual as well? Like all the gorgeous don juan ...
A: This relates directly to the type of communication system the use. This is a little complicated, ...
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| shoud I flirt? | 4/22/2008 |
Q: I am an attractive and confident woman. I have dated many handsome and rich men, but I have not ...
A: No, you're not playing cool - you're playing cold - maybe even frozen! I have to say, you sure put a ...
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| men and women | 4/21/2008 |
Q: Hey Dr. Neder. They say when a guy meets a girl, within 5-10 minutes of meeting her, he can tell ...
A: Probably the #1 thing is whether she's a game-player or not. Game players are for sex only, women ...
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| What to do? | 4/21/2008 |
Q: Background info: We dated about 7 years ago, although we loved each other i knew his reputation as a ...
A: You're asking me to tell you what you want and frankly, you already know what you want. If you ...
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| follow up | 4/20/2008 |
Q: ------------------------ Hello Joanna! Frankly, what does it really matter? No, I don't think this ...
A: Yo! Jo! There's never a perfect situation for relationships. You have to take the hand you have and ...
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| follow up | 4/19/2008 |
Q: ------------------------ Hello Joanna! Frankly, what does it really matter? No, I don't think this ...
A: Hey Joanna! First of all, what exactly do you want here? You're all over the place. Let's face it, ...
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| follow up | 4/18/2008 |
Q: ------------------------ Hello Joanna! Frankly, what does it really matter? No, I don't think this ...
A: First of all, you may be giving him a ton of credit he doesn't deserve. I can't tell you how many ...
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| ?????? | 4/16/2008 |
Q: I've called my dream guy twice tonight,he has not return my call should i call or not? I want to but ...
A: Is there more to this story that I don't know about? I don't know anything about what has transpired ...
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| how to overcome shyness | 4/15/2008 |
Q: i was woundering how do i overcome shyness with guys becasue i can,t talk to them .if a guy ask to ...
A: This is far more than just a shyness problem. You have some aversion to being approached, and that ...
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| passionate | 4/11/2008 |
Q: Is there any way to turn this relationship into a real relationship instead of a hooking up for sex ...
A: Why are you worried about this in the first place? I'm sure I mentioned this but this is one of the ...
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| passionate | 4/10/2008 |
Q: Is there any way to turn this relationship into a real relationship instead of a hooking up for sex ...
A: Since I don't know the details of the situation - and I can't possibly remember them considering how ...
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| how can i get him to ask me out? | 4/10/2008 |
Q: ok, there is this boy in my block .. he talks to me and everythin n some times he wants to kiss me ...
A: Wait a minute Paola...I'm getting a vision of your future...yes, it's coming...wait a minute...ok ...
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| getting my guy. | 4/9/2008 |
Q: my name is katie and im in highschool. im a freshmen soon to be sophomore and this special guy is a ...
A: I'm in the reality business Katie, and the reality is this: how are you ever going to work any charm ...
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| How interested is he really? | 4/2/2008 |
Q: I'm a 42 female, I've been dating a man for 5 months now. He has custody of his children so we only ...
A: Isn't this one obvious? Yes, he's only interested in a sexual relationship and maybe a buddy to do a ...
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| I have met someone but don't know what to do about it.... | 3/30/2008 |
Q: I recently met someone at a party. I have met him once before, 2 years ago but I was in a ...
A: Frankly, I think you're way ahead of yourself. You met this guy once and maybe you've talked to him ...
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| jelly | 3/26/2008 |
Q: do you advice you way back last you problem don,t? i sort of took it,i am going to counsllor to help ...
A: Huh??? That's not even a real sentence! I'm glad you're getting some help. Best regards... Dr. ...
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| I NEED ERGENT HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 3/25/2008 |
Q: i wonder if u can answer my question. Well, my story is dat there's this blond girl (popular) who ...
A: Go spend some time with him and get to know him already! You don't have to "attract him". Just be ...
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| follow up | 3/23/2008 |
Q: Hey, This man asked me out. We're both 27 and in the same career but I'm in a higher position than ...
A: Frankly, I think you're asking the wrong questions here. First of all, you seem to be picking men ...
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| dating | 3/20/2008 |
Q: Hey, This man asked me out. We're both 27 and in the same career but I'm in a higher position than ...
A: I read some of these things from women and just shake my head in disbelief. You think you're going ...
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| dating | 3/20/2008 |
Q: Hey, This man asked me out. We're both 27 and in the same career but I'm in a higher position than ...
A: Like any other! Your sexual experience has nothing to do with how the relationship is "structured" ...
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| a guy issue | 3/11/2008 |
Q: well, you see... i have this guy that i like and i don't know if he knows i am there. i talked to ...
A: Yes, I can help you. I'll even give you three different options: 1) Go invite him out yourself. ...
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| long distance | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I like this guy at school, we get along great, have a lot in common, similar interests in music, ...
A: There are a number of issues involved here. First of all, how long do you have at school together? ...
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| Rejection | 2/23/2008 |
Q: What is the best way to deal with rejection (in all forms and scales) when interacting with women? I ...
A: [chuckle] - that cruise missle thing is a real deal breaker. I recommend that all guys start at the ...
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| Rejection | 2/22/2008 |
Q: What is the best way to deal with rejection (in all forms and scales) when interacting with women? I ...
A: In any battle, I always recommend that you begin with superior firepower. If she brings a slingshot, ...
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| dating hell | 2/17/2008 |
Q: I've been dating the same guy on and off for 3 years. And I think its about time for a change ...
A: There are a number of problems going on here. Let me try to deal with each one of them. Regarding ...
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| Love lost | 2/7/2008 |
Q: I dated a man for two years, and happened to lose my virginity to him and he lost it to me. We broke ...
A: If you really want to get him back you need two things: First, some distance in order for him to ...
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| Are there some men that never initiate? | 2/4/2008 |
Q: I've been flirting with this guy for a few months and I can tell when a guy is interested and when ...
A: First of all, dating isn't about guarrantees. You have to take your risks just like everyone else! ...
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| What to do with this man? | 1/31/2008 |
Q: I've recently decided that I'd be interested in going out with a man who works with the same charity ...
A: Interestingly, the number of men that don't like being asked out on a date by a woman is dwindling. ...
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| Stop the situation from escalating? | 1/21/2008 |
Q: There is this guy at my grad school named Mo that I've met once or twice and just thought he was a ...
A: Regardless of whether you feel obligated or not for him helping you, this is way out of hand. ...
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| Help please, i need some good advice! | 1/20/2008 |
Q: Dennis W. Neder, I've been eyeing on this one guy who was in one of my class in the first semester. ...
A: I don't know what he wants since I don't read minds. All I can tell you is to repeat what he's said. ...
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| I'm fallin in love with a guy at work who has a girlfriend | 1/16/2008 |
Q: Five months ago a new guy was employed at my workplace, and at the very first sight I liked him. At ...
A: You didn't mention how long this has been going on and that makes a different - maybe a big ...
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| What to do | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I am an attractive 23 year old female who just graduated from college as a Registered Nurse. I just ...
A: You're going to have to get to know him better before you really know what he's all about. Obviously ...
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| HELP!!! | 1/7/2008 |
Q: Ok,first of all, I want to attract the woman of my dreams, not a man. I could'nt find the other ...
A: Huh? Ok, you're a heterosexual. That's mostly what we deal with here, so you're in the right place. ...
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| What could I do to change my luck with men from within myself and a mystery man | 1/2/2008 |
Q: I have this strange man whom I spent loving immensely this year and now with a new year I want to ...
A: a. I don't know if he's gay. He may be. I don't know if he's a player. He may be. I don't know if ...
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| Longtime Crush | 12/21/2007 |
Q: Neder, Some people have trouble finding the man of their dreams, but I am one of the lucky few that ...
A: The one thing you didn't mention is whether you and he are local enough to have a relationship in ...
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| reading | 12/20/2007 |
Q: Two questions here. 1. Is finding the right one just all about ups and downs, and you shouldn't ...
A: No, I don't believe in the statement "what goes around, comes around." This is just hopeful/wishful ...
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| reject | 12/20/2007 |
Q: do you know what it likes to be rejected .i suppose you don,t but i do.and pain and rehection and ...
A: Louise: Yes, I know rejection exceedingly well. That's why I decided to learn how to end it. ...
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| reading | 12/20/2007 |
Q: Two questions here. 1. Is finding the right one just all about ups and downs, and you shouldn't ...
A: 1) Well, you SHOULDN'T take rejection personally, but sometimes that's pretty hard to do. Yes, ...
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| doctorate | 12/14/2007 |
Q: Dennis, This isn't a relationship question but you have a doctorate so maybe you could help me. I ...
A: This is something I've actually done many times - reinvent yourself. That's not just a flip answer ...
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| relationship | 12/14/2007 |
Q: Neder, I have 3 questions! ---------- question one: I recently have become romantically attracted ...
A: I have 3 answers! Sure hope their to your questions! ---------- 1) This is a difficult question to ...
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| follow up | 12/13/2007 |
Q: Here are the videos I wanted you to watch the other day. What do you think about what he is saying? ...
A: I think Chris Rock needs to write to me if he has this many problems with women. Best regards... ...
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| men | 12/10/2007 |
Q: i was woundering how do i get guys to take me seiously and be intersted in me.i am always getting ...
A: Hey Louise! You want me to do therapy with you via these messages and I can't do that. Go find ...
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| men | 12/9/2007 |
Q: i was woundering how do i get guys to take me seiously and be intersted in me.i am always getting ...
A: You've actually already asked me this question about a thousand times and I've answered it just as ...
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| marriage | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I am a 29 year old woman currently in my last year of medical school, will be getting my M.D. this ...
A: First off, congratulations on your MD. That's a very long road! I always love it when someone tells ...
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| older men | 11/26/2007 |
Q: I'm a 25 year old female who loves all types of music (although I'm not going into music, I'm ...
A: 1. I don't know him. I don't know if he's wise or not. 2. No. Many smart women do foolish things ...
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| older men | 11/26/2007 |
Q: I'm a 25 year old female who loves all types of music (although I'm not going into music, I'm ...
A: You seem to equate being single with failure. They are totally unrelated. Further, how do you know ...
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| help | 11/25/2007 |
Q: Hey Louise! Nothing you've said here is correct. You've just created all of these beliefs about ...
A: Yo! Louise! Just like I said. You've totally ignored everything I've said. You're wasting both of ...
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| help | 11/23/2007 |
Q: you said you tell me like how about getting to know a guy with out feeling that i am not good ...
A: Hey Louise! Nothing you've said here is correct. You've just created all of these beliefs about ...
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| help | 11/22/2007 |
Q: you said you tell me like how about getting to know a guy with out feeling that i am not good ...
A: Ok, so what have you accomplished of the things I've recommended? Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. ...
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| help | 11/22/2007 |
Q: you said you tell me like how about getting to know a guy with out feeling that i am not good ...
A: Since you didn't copy the pervious message, I have no idea what you're talking about. I'm sorry ...
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| how do I know if he is serious about me?! | 11/21/2007 |
Q: I have been dating this guy 3 yrs ago for about 2 months, and he got scare with us getting closed ...
A: What exactly are you looking for? The absolute, sure deal? Valen, forget it. There's no such thing ...
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| He's shy | 11/18/2007 |
Q: You may be able to help me out... maybe not, but I figure I'll just ask it anyway. There’s this guy ...
A: Since you both seem to be able to talk on FaceBook, use that to transition into real life. Write to ...
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| help | 11/11/2007 |
Q: so how does a guy know if a guy is desperate or not.and how does a guy know a girl likes him. YOU ...
A: First things first. Without them, there IS no next step. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder ...
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| help | 11/10/2007 |
Q: so how does a guy know if a guy is desperate or not.and how does a guy know a girl likes him. YOU ...
A: You're "not what they're looking for"? How do they know that if they don't get to know you? Answer: ...
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| help | 11/9/2007 |
Q: so how does a guy know if a guy is desperate or not.and how does a guy know a girl likes him. YOU ...
A: Yo! Louise! My questions were in one of the previous messages. Since you didn't bother to copy it I ...
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| I am very sad | 11/8/2007 |
Q: My husband whom I adored left me for another woman after he got her pregnant not too long ago and ...
A: Yes, you should definitely see a professional right away. This sort of deep, foundational malaise ...
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| men | 11/8/2007 |
Q: i have a few problems .i am 26 years old i have never had a boyfreind i know that sound pathetic but ...
A: Hey Louise! Please answer my questions. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ...
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| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ...
A: Yes, you're right - I misunderstood, and no, it's not your fault because you started with sex. For ...
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| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ...
A: What makes you think that movies and going out to dinner aren't real dates? I mean, what does it ...
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| question | 11/3/2007 |
Q: My parents are immigrants in the US but I grew up in america so I'm pretty much americanized. I know ...
A: Well, this isn't a relationship question, but I'll tackle it anyway. I believe your mother is ...
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| follow up | 10/31/2007 |
Q: What are the types of men I should be going for then? -------------------------Hi Dennis, What are ...
A: Yo! Leanne! Well, that's really the question then, it's it? If you don't know exactly what you're ...
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| career and relationships | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I'm a 28 year old woman and am getting my M.D. and plan on going into a surgical residency to become ...
A: Then I suggest you stop listening to "everyone". First of all, I didn't say to start dating surgeons ...
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| career and relationships | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I'm a 28 year old woman and am getting my M.D. and plan on going into a surgical residency to become ...
A: Believe it or not, the best guy for you is another busy person! The reason for this is that busy ...
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| relationships with men | 10/31/2007 |
Q: What are some things women can do to make a man happy? (Assuming this is a man that genuinely loves ...
A: Hey Leanne! I don't think it's about whom you are attracted to as much as whom you EXPECT you'll be ...
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| hi | 10/31/2007 |
Q: hi im a 21m love with a girl 20i proposed to her at first meet she replyed me with negative answer ...
A: She doesn't see you as a potential partner, she sees you as some horny guy that's in a hurry! You ...
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| relationships with men | 10/30/2007 |
Q: What are some things women can do to make a man happy? (Assuming this is a man that genuinely loves ...
A: Seeking information is the first step! I can't speak about their particular situation, but I'll say ...
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| relationships with men | 10/30/2007 |
Q: What are some things women can do to make a man happy? (Assuming this is a man that genuinely loves ...
A: First of all, you're making a huge mistake thinking that celebrities reflect reality in any way, ...
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| boy at ..... | 10/15/2007 |
Q: a boy at school who i fancy but hes a total geek but really funny ma sis said don't go out with him. ...
A: Go out with him! Your sister is a different person than you are and just because isn't attracted to ...
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